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Third time unlucky, BFN 😩

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No third time lucky for us unfortunately.. I had a feeling it hadn’t worked, call it a hunch! I feel numb but surprisingly, I don’t feel as devastated as the first BFN.. I guess the biggest and scariest thing for us now is gearing up for more treatment as this cycle floored me a bit, I must admit... One more fully funded cycle on NHS and then it’s down to us..

Congratulations to all who have recently got their BFPs and take care to all those still on the rollercoaster.. xxx

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Waterfall2

I'm so sorry. Take time and take care of yourself. Xx

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Jenjen84 in reply to Waterfall2

Thank you. Good luck with your next treatment xx

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Wishfully

I’m sorry to hear this Jen, BFNs are instensely disappointing, especially after all the build up. Still, this period is a new start for you, a fresh cycle with new promise & I hope you find success xx

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Jenjen84 in reply to Wishfully

Thank you. I hope everything is good with you? You must be due anytime soon no? xx

So sorry to hear this Jenjen84. Hopefully you can take time to recover and enjoy the festive season together. Then hopefully next time will be your time xx

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Thank you xx

I’m so sorry ☹️Agree with others enjoy the Christmas festivities & regroup afterwards. Hoping next year will be your year xoxo 😘

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Jenjen84 in reply to

Thank you Jess xx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that Jenjen, its blooming hard getting repeated BFN's. Look after yourselves.xx

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Jenjen84 in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you. Good luck with your up and coming treatment xx

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Tugsgirl

I’m sorry. Perhaps you’re a bit like me, the more bfns you get, the more you get used to it? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Still sucks either way.

Enjoy some time out, enjoy Christmas and then think about the next stage xx

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Jenjen84 in reply to Tugsgirl

Thank you.. I think your right, they are still as hard but I just feel numb and incredibly annoyed! The tears will come I’m sure.. Good luck with your next treatment xx

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Dunla

Hi, I’m very sorry to hear it wasn’t third time lucky for you pet. Perhaps it will help to take a break from it all until the New Year and be really good to yourself. Hoping 2019 will bring you happiness xx

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Jenjen84 in reply to Dunla

Thank you xx

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Stephj18

Sorry to hear the bfn 😞 your time will come and hopefully 2019 is your year xx

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Jenjen84 in reply to Stephj18

Thank you xx

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Kitcat12

Bless you lovely, I’m sorry you didn’t get a positive result this time. Keep going and all the best for your next cycle! x

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Jenjen84 in reply to Kitcat12

Thank you.. Good luck for your OTD xx

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Kitcat12 in reply to Jenjen84

Thanks, pretty sure I’m out but time will tell x

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Klndmr

I'm so sorry hun ❤ Whatever i say now it won't help too much so im just sending you millions hugs and lots of positive vibes xxxx Try to relax and get ready for Christmas and next round will be your turn i will keep all my fingers crossed for you ❤❤❤xxxx

I am so sorry to hear this and I hope you are ok. Just know that we are all here for one another and keep the faith lots of hugs your way xxx

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everhopeful83

So sorry to read this ☹️ sending you hugs💕xxx

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Masha111

So sorry to read your news jenjen. Hope you will be ok. God willing you will be a mum next year. Be kind to yourself and take care. I will be praying for you and all the ladies TTC. Miracles do happen. X

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alockie

I am sorry you are going through this. Do you know the reasons why IVF failed? Have you considered IVF PGS NGS that might increase your chances? x

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