Today is one of these days... I woke up angry to thr world for myself and all thr women struggling to conceive. Angry to all the women who are blessed witha child and they don't appreciate it and they leave them... Angry to all my friends having kids recentlyand forgetting about my existence... Angry for supporting everyone through their pregnancies even though been so difficult for me and now in these hard times they even forget about me... Angry for each of you for all your tears and struggles... Angry for every single negative pregnancy test... Angry for the miscarriages, for the meltdowns.... I know will all pass and one day the happiness will knock our doors as well. But till that day comes we have all the rights to be angry and upset, we can cry as much we want cause we are humans and we have big hearts for everyone and we deserve all the support in the world cause we need it. People have to stop being so selfish and sometimes stop and think about our feelings as well.
After every storm there is sunshine and hope. We will get there but till we do it we deserve the right to express our feelings. Todat im angry and sad but i promise you and myself tomorrow will be another day and will be filled with more hope and more strength.
Sending millions of hugs to all of you ❤❤❤
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Thanks for sharing this post. I definitely know where you're coming from. I think it's important to let ourselves feel angry and to not apologise for that. We can spend our lives smiling and chatting along with people and their children, which is often necessarily, but it takes an emotional toll on us as well.
Thank you. Luckily in here we can see so much understanding and support. I do the same just smile all the time but sometimes just let all the emotions out. Have a bit of a cry and then i feel better. Xxx ❤❤❤❤❤
Of course. It's natural. What is unnatural, as you say, is to have a constant smile whilst chatting away with another friend having another baby. We all need to stomp around, shout, scream and do whatever needed to get that anger out sometimes. Rant away xx
Omg! Even mentioning the name! The Holiday is another one for me. I know it's not particularly a weepy but I still cry. Mind you, I cry at adverts on the tv sometimes.... hmmmm 🤣 x
😂 Last night a saw a short programme about an old lovely lady and i cried, today i felt homesick for my country and i cried in the toilets at work hahaha. God helpme when i start the ivf 😂 i will ve crying 24/7 i guess xxxxx
Omg it’s like you read my mind. Lately I seem to be always angry. Or sad. Or both. Take yesterday at work for example. I have had to endure 3 baby showers in one year in my office. Im currently mid way through my third ivf. Everyone in the office knows this. So why did no one warn me (so I can prepare my fake smile armour) that two of the ladies would be coming into the office with their babies? Angry. Jealous. Guilty. Sad. 😢
Don't feel any guilt! It's absolutely normal and natural. It wouldn't be normal if it was the other way around. We are humans and we can't stop these feeling, we just need to let them pass naturally. We arr allowed to have these feelings and please do not feel guilty. Sending you millions hugs xxx
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*Sensitive* Little One Has Arrived
7weeks 3 days 💔
Thank you ❤️Surgical management of miscarriage tomorrow at 7am 
As I thought- BFN 
Does normalcy exist on this journey?
