*updated * 8 weeks today and started with pains and bleeding 😔

[Clover5]

I know it’s really common to get cramps and bleeding early on in pregnancy, but for me in the past it has always signalled the start of a miscarriage. I’m so worried and hate feeling like this 😢. I wish I could fast forward a few months to know I’m at less risk of losing our baby XX

Update - I went for my scan this morning and thank god all was well 🙏 Our little jelly baby was measuring fine and doing really well, so I cried my eyes out. They’re not sure we’re the blood came from but there’s no signs of any more in there, so fingers crossed that’s it and no more scares. Just wanted to say thank you to all you lovely ladies for your kind words and positive thoughts. Wishing lots of luck to everyone 💕xX

[Hidden]

Ah bless you, I hope that everything works out ok for you Hun. I had lots of cramps for weeks & couldn't enjoy my pregnancy at all until I started to feel him move. It's so bloody hard after previous miscarriages x

[Clover5 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you Hun. I know you should try not to compare it when you’ve had miscarriages in the past as it may be nothing, but it’s so hard. Hopefully it’s nothing to worry about x

[Hidden in reply to Clover5]

It is exceptionally hard, I had no idea how much I would struggle especially in the earlier weeks. I had 3 scans before 12 weeks & 100% expected bad news at all 3 of them. It was a horrendous time... Makes me sad now as it should have been a wonderful time. I'll keep my fingers crossed for a positive outcome for you xx

[Clover5 in reply to Hidden]

I don’t blame you as it’s so difficult to relax and enjoy be pregnant when you’ve had past bad experiences. I’m glad all is well with your pregnancy now and really hope you have a healthy one 💕 thank you 🙏 xx

[HollieW]

Try and stay positive. I have everything crossed for you xxxx

[Clover5 in reply to HollieW]

Thank you Hun xx

[Snez84]

As the others have said, try to stay positive, although I know it’s easier said than done. I had a bleed at 8 weeks with my son and all was ok. My fingers are firmly crossed xxx

[Clover5 in reply to Snez84]

Thanks Hun. How long did it last for when you bled? Xx

[Snez84 in reply to Clover5]

Probably two days and it was when I wiped. I actually called my local NHS maternity clinic at the time and they had me in for a scan within a couple of hours to check all was ok. Pregnancy is such a rollercoaster isn’t it. I hope the bleeding has started to settle for you xx

[Clover5 in reply to Snez84]

That’s good they got you in so quickly. My clinic have been a bit rubbish actually and the first thing they said was have we signed you off. I told them I had been passed off to the midwife now but they said I could be scanned by them up to 10 weeks. Nobody has called me back after I left my details so I may try going through the nhs if it carries on. The bleeding isn’t as bad now thankfully xx

[Devj]

Aaw hun, sorry to hear you’re having pains. Please try not to worry too much, can you ring your clinic and have a chat to them about how you’re feeling? They maybe able to offer you reassurance.

Try not to think about the past (far easier said than done I know).

Try and relax a little xxx

[Clover5 in reply to Devj]

Thanks Hun. I contacted the clinic but all the nurses were in theatre so they’ve taken my number and said someone will call me back. Hopefully it’s nothing 🙏 xx

[Devj in reply to Clover5]

Let me know what they say hun. Hopefully they’ll get back to you asap. Hopefully everything is easing up a little for you now xxx

[Clover5 in reply to Devj]

They’ve got back to me now and said they aren’t to worried as it’s not fresh blood but they have booked me in for a scan in the morning to check. I’m pleased they’ve managed to get me in and really praying it’s nothing to worry about 🙏 xX

[Devj in reply to Clover5]

So glad they’re not worried hun and they’ve got you in for a scan tomorrow. It’ll put your mind at rest seeing your little jellybean all fine on the screen. Take care, try get some sleep tonight xxx

[Clover5 in reply to Devj]

Thanks Hun 💕I’ll let you know how I get on tomorrow xx

[TRYING2016 in reply to Clover5]

Oh thats good news they got you in fast, i hope its all positive praying for you xxxx

[Clover5 in reply to TRYING2016]

Thank you so much 💕 xX

[Caza2009]

No advice but just sending love and positive vibes 💕 xxxx

[Clover5 in reply to Caza2009]

Thanks Hun xX

[Twobaby]

Hi ...don't worry clover everything is hona b fine.may I know what wer ur beta numbers?

[Clover5 in reply to Twobaby]

Thank you, I really hope so 🙏. They only did them the once on my otd and they were 397, so quite good xx

[Twobaby in reply to Clover5]

Ya ur beta numbers are good.....hope for the best.....

[Clover5 in reply to Twobaby]

Thanks Hun 💕I’ve got a scan In the morning to check so hopefully it’s nothing to worry about xX

[Tugsgirl]

Sending good wishes your way and hoping that everything is fine. It’s a worrying time xx

[Clover5 in reply to Tugsgirl]

Thanks Hun. Hopefully it will pass soon and is nothing to worry about 🙏 xx

[Cinderella5]

Oh what a worry! Hopefully you've managed to speak to your clinic by now for a little reassurance. Really hope all is ok!xx

[Clover5 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks Hun. I’m still waiting for a call back after chasing them again just now, but they said they are really busy today. I’m not holding much hope out as I think they close at 5. Hopefully it’s nothing to worry about 🙏 xX

[Cinderella5 in reply to Clover5]

Good luck for tomorrow.xx

[Sherry07]

I’m sorry to hear about the pain and bleeding; please stay positive x

And I was also thinking can it not be related to your second sac? I just read your previous post and thought well ... it might be that xx

[Clover5 in reply to Sherry07]

Thanks Hun 💕 I thought the same with the 2nd sac and thought it could be that so hopefully it is. I’m in for a scan in the morning, so going to stay positive and try and get an early night xX

[Sherry07 in reply to Clover5]

Best of luck for tomorrow 🙏🏼 Please do update us x

[Clover5 in reply to Sherry07]

Thanks Hun. I will do 💕 xX

[Hidden]

Good luck with the scan tomorrow. I'm really hoping you get good news. X

[Clover5 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you Hun 💕 I’ll let you know how I get on 🙏 xX

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

I'm with sherry hun. Think it could be the second sac. Wishing you all the best for scan tomorrow 😘💝💝

[Clover5 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Thank you Hun. I’m hoping it’s just that. I’ll let you all know how I get on 💕🙏 xX

[Rowly88]

Saw your post and just wanted to send you best wishes and all the luck xx

[TRYING2016]

Goodluck for tomorrow thinking of you xx

[Clover5 in reply to TRYING2016]

Thank you hun. I’m just at the clinic now, so hopefully we’ll have some good news soon 🙏 xX

[TRYING2016 in reply to Clover5]

Waiting xxx

[Sherry07]

Hi, just read your update and it made my day Fabulous news xx

[Clover5 in reply to Sherry07]

Thank you Sherry07 😊 yes thankfully all seems to be well, so we are really happy 💕 xX

[Sherry07 in reply to Clover5]

So happy for you xx

[Cinderella5]

Delighted to hear that all is ok!xx

[Clover5 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you Hun 💕 thankfully all seems to be well and no more scares 😊 xX