So I had my bloods done yester...

[julietyler]

So I had my bloods done yesterday and it was at 5 which was low so I’ve stopped the pessarys this is my first ivf ever what happens now do I just get a normal period my clinic has not said much she just said we can not fined a pregnancy but that was it I’m going to my drs to c what they can tell me in if it a miss carriage as I’m in the dark not nowing what my body is going through 😪

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I’m really sorry for your loss. I know there are no words that will make you feel better. I went through an early loss last year it’s just unimaginable isn’t it 😭 Thinking of you during this difficult time xoxo

[julietyler in reply to Hidden]

Thank u Hun I’m sorry to here you have gone through this to it’s by far the most emotional time ever when u get a bfp on a home test to a bfn on bloods not nice I will use my frozen one in the freezer waiting for me..xx

[Cinderella5]

Sorry that you dont have better news today, it does sound like a chemical pregnancy! So cruel to have your happiness snatched away. Everyone is different but once you stop the progesterone should get a bleed in a few days.....I think mine was 5 days later but like I say it can vary from person to person. I found the cramps much worse than a normal period and a bit heavier. Look after yourselves, sending love and hugs.xx

[julietyler in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank u sorry to here about that you have gone through this to I never fort I would get so up set as I’m really hard face but I must say this has taken it out of me big time. I have for little ones in the freezer so not going to give up just yet and I think it will make me stronger well I hope so I hope you get your happy ending soon Hun 😘 xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to julietyler]

It is hard going through failed cycles but when you feel strong enough then you can go get your frosties. Meantime cry lots, talk lots to your OH and hug lots. Try to plan something nice to do together, this is such a hard journey!xx

[julietyler in reply to Cinderella5]

I have not stopped crying I have a 16 and a 18 year old and they are so loving and my husband. I just want a big fat cuddle of my mum so going to see her today and my little nephew and niece witch they Brighton up my day to xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to julietyler]

Sounds like just the ticket Julie....do whatever you can to brighten a dark time!! Im sure that cuddle from your mum is just what you need!xx

[Autumnmoon]

Sorry to hear this look after yourself x

[julietyler in reply to Autumnmoon]

Thank u xx

[Aleelilook]

Ah I’m so sorry, it is so hard this journey 😔 I agree with Cinderella this will be classed as a chemical pregnancy, my last round my bloods were a 9 and then went to a 5 and then I was told it was not “viable”. It’s a very odd feeling as it feels like you were so close. My periods always rock up the day after I stop the pessaries, and the last one was just a bit heavier, but again this can vary. Sadly it is very common but most women aren’t on our journey so don’t realise. Have you booked your follow up? Take your time lovely to heal. Thinking of you Xxx

[julietyler in reply to Aleelilook]

Thank u Hun I’m going to chill for a bit enjoy a glass of gin and having a romantic picnic with me happy tomorrow take my mined of it it’s not the end yet.. I never worried when I had my 2 natural births 16 and 18 year olds but. But had problems with my tubs when my 16 year old was born so never could full natural again.. xx

[Aleelilook in reply to julietyler]

Definitely enjoy your Gin! It is just really sh** the whole thing, so spending time with your family is exactly what you need, and perhaps a second gin! Thinking of you xxxx

[julietyler in reply to Aleelilook]

Thank u Hun xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

So sorry lovely to hear this. I'm gutted for you. Be good to yourself and have some treats. Big hugs and lots of love 💝😘💝

[julietyler in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Thank u Hun xx