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Oh my god stop with the royal baby stuff it’s driving me mad!!!!!!

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Isn’t it funny how some people have it so easy!!!! Get married and and then 2 mins later get pregnant like Kate and her sister!!!!

So bloody easy!!!! Sorry to sound bitter but it’s all just too much and I feel so angry and seeing this news spalshed everywhere I go I can’t escape it!!

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Tugsgirl

On Facebook yesterday this was me; “hide post, hide, hide, hide, hide......” you get the picture xx

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Cinderella5

Ha ha ha I know exactly what you mean.....Im sure lots of others here will be feeling the same! So annoying!xx

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CBOO1

Haha absolutely!!!! Anytime I go on Facebook these days which isn’t often, I am hiding more & more people! Bumps, babies, anything remotely to do with anything I can’t bare to see! The other day someone I went to school with had put a post on there as his fiancée had just given birth & amongst all the gushiness (not jealous at all!!!!) he wrote - being a parent is so amazing (all of 5 mins you’ve been one ok!!) for those of you who have children, you’ll know what I mean, and for those of you who don’t, you should try it!! It took all my strength not to write F*CK YOU!!!!! Instead I took great pleasure in hiding post & unfollowing!!! 😆

Xxx

in reply toCBOO1

Ha ha ha!!!! People who aren’t on this journey LITERALLY have no idea!!!!!

I quit FB 3 years ago I just could not bear it anymore best thing I did, hiding from it all is the best option if u can!!

Watch this space it will be Meghan next and then wait for my rant!!!!!!!

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It’s not anger or being spiteful or not being feeling genuine happiness f or others because none of would wish this on anyone ; it’s hurt for what we want but haven’t got; yet...Makes you feel sad others can have such an easy time conceiving; some people it’s like they blink and bang they’re having a baby and makes you feel inadequate. I’m with on this one xoxo

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Yes it sort of highlights for me what I can’t achieve and it breaks my heart, I might sound bitter but actually it’s just pure pain and total heart ache x

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It brings it into focus what you haven’t achieved yet... ; you are not a bitter or a bad person for having these feelings. Don’t let anyone make you feel you are xoxo

Oh I know; they’ve had 3 children in the space we’ve been trying for one 😭 I am refusing to watch the news till royal baby fever is over. You are not alone my love xoxo

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Asweetpea

lol so glad I’m not the only one feeling like this. I’m happy for them, but please enough!!!! I’m pretty sure they don’t everyone taking about it and analysing everything either.

Oh and why is everyone I see suddenly pregnant!!!

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Mrsgled1982

I must be in the minority because, these kind of posts dont get to me. Im genuinely happy for them.

Am not meaning to sound harsh but how do us the general public know if they had it easy conceiving. Yes they have 3 kids now but they have enough money etc to keep everything a secret.

I myself found out years before i even considered trying for a baby that i needed help. What's to say Kate didn't.

Am really sorry if what am saying is offensive but its just my thoughts x

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply toMrsgled1982

I'm with you Mrsgled 1982.

I enjoy watching it all when iv had enough I turn it off.

I get why others get annoyed but I'm not on social media I just watch news and flick through Google news.

This stuff makes me smile

💝😘

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Mrsgled1982 in reply toAllWeNeedIsluv

Theres too much doom and gloom in this world as it is. Its nice to celebrate a bit of good for a change.

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply toMrsgled1982

I know I'm not a huge Royal fanatic but I loved Diana and I love her boys their partners and grandchildren. I'm looking forward to the wedding. 💝😘

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Lilli79 in reply toMrsgled1982

The only negative thing I have to say is that I think its a total hoax that she had that baby yesterday - nobody looks THAT good only a mere 6 hrs after having a baby! Am pretty sure she had baby on the weekend, and then waited till yesterday so she could look super glam, lol!! The baby did look very newborn though - poor little fella probably just wanted to sleep 😄!!

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Mrsgled1982 in reply toLilli79

She will have stylists on speed dial lol

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JenRoy in reply toLilli79

I’m afraid it’s not a hoax...I worked at St Mary’s when she had baby 1 and 2...sadly she does look that good a few hours after. Lucky thing!! ☺️xx

I’m happy that it doesn’t affect you in a negative way, as it’s hard enough going through this, 👍🏻

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Mrsgled1982 in reply to

Not being able to conceive naturally is hard i agree. Ive been trying for a baby for 7 years but if i let every bit of baby news impact me negatively i would have no friends or family left. And am greatful i have them around for support when i need them x

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Jenjen84

It’s overkill isn’t it!!

We have the radio on at work and today’s discussion point was a women who was one of 15 who had 5 kids herself that said ‘It kinda just happened’???!!! How can having 5 kids ‘Just happen’ to which sparked someone else to say all kids being born are accidental, nobody really ‘Plans’ to have a baby... WTF?? I had to walk out the room before going over and flying HEAD-BUTTING her!!

I have muted all news notifications from my phone and have disabled FB and Instagram for those very reasons! Xx

in reply toJenjen84

5 kids !!!! Just happened!!! WTF !!! And no one plans for a baby, people have no clue do they!

Certainly agree with you if it's not on the radio or tv or Facebook then it's people telling ..... guess what I don't care lol

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cryst4l

Totally get you. I dont think people who are not in oir position ever think about those that can not have kids easily and the heartache we go through. I went to the zoo with my husband over the weekend and we were pretty much the only couple without a child. Everyone had at least one or 2 kids and so many pregnant women with buggies. It got to me.😔

in reply tocryst4l

I totally get it, just going about normal life breaks me most days x

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cryst4l in reply to

I know how you feel. I am genuinely happy for others but you just cant help but feel broken at times when people rub it in or on social media announcing the birth of their 5th child. We just want the one baby and we fight tooth and nail, go through every obsticle to get there. But we will! Don't give up xx

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