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[Kathryn1984]

My post is on the comments because I don’t want to fill the feed with miscarriage talk

[Orla9298]

Sending you lots of love xxx

[Kathryn1984]

It’s a day after my miscarriage was confirmed, a couple since it mostly happened. The grief is hitting me hard. I miss my baby, I keep talking to it tell it I miss it. I keep asking it where it is, and that mummy loves it. I just woke up, and it’s that first thing i thought of, and I keep replaying it over and over in my head. I keep thinking about all the times my baby was with me and where we went together. The walks I went on with baby in my tummy. I keep crying and my fiancé is trying to sleep.

I’m still bleeding as well. I passed a medium sized clot last night, and I’m scared that the miscarriage isn’t fully over. They couldn’t see any pregnancy tissue left in my uterus, but what if it’s stuck in my cervix or vagina? They didn’t do an internal after the ultrasound. My vaginal passage feels strange as well, like there’s an air bubble in it. My pelvic floor feel weak and heavy as well. I’m still bleeding bright red, like a heavy period.

My sister in law canr to see me last night, and she really helped us, it was so good to see her. But now I feel like everyone is getting back to work and back to normal, and I’m here like the world had stppped turning.

And don’t get me started on the royal baby!

I just don’t know how to occupy my self, where to put my focus. We’re do I find the motivation to carry on?

[Autumnmoon in reply to Kathryn1984]

Sweetheart it is all just so sad and all you can do is get through the best you can talk to your baby as much as you like and do anything that helps in the slightest.I agree that one of the first things I thought about the new Prince was how hard it would be for people like yourself that is something that would just never have occurred to me before.Sending you lots of love x

[elle80 in reply to Kathryn1984]

I really don't know what to say, I know nothing I say will make you feel better. It's just a horrible situation and my heart breaks for you! I wish there was some sort of magic wand and I could make everything better for you and all the couples having to go through this! I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts. Xxxx

[Hidden in reply to Kathryn1984]

My dear Kathryn believe me I feel your pain so deeply. I’ve lost 6 pregnancies and I can’t even bring myself to say miscarriage. So much love and hope has gone into each pregnancy, so many dreams. It drives me mad that it’s so easy for some people and they just don’t appreciate the special gift. You’re dealing with so much at the moment, just physically let alone mentally but I promise you will grow a warrior strength in you and move forward as I did, just takes healing, kindness to yourself and each other and time and I know you will have your baby!! I don’t know one person whose wanted it as badly as us and not got there in the end. Sending you massive hugs and healing strength. You will get through this, i promise ❤️🙏🏼Xxx

[vic77 in reply to Kathryn1984]

sadly hunny I am in the same situation as you..I had surgical management of our miscarriage yesterday and I have woken feeling empty and lost..my hubby and furbaby are fast asleep beside me and I am just here with my thoughts..some of my friends and family have been amazing but yes I struggle too with the fact that their happy lives go on and I am forever changed now...my heart is broken yet my baby will forever have left a footprint there..I am sending you so much love and gentle hugs at this time and am here if you ever want to chat xxxx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Hun remember what I said. Don't expect too much from your self you don't need to think about how you will carry on just yet, it's all still so very raw lovely, just try to rest and yes do talk to your precious baby, your grieving hun do what feels right for you just go with it hun, it's hard and I know you don't want to feel like this now but it's part of the process your still going through the physical parts hun. If their worrying you ring the Dr's or hospital about the worries you've told us they will probably want to check you out, if something is stuck you'll be bleeding heavily hun. My heart goes out to you and your fiance, I know it's difficult but please don't expect nothing from yourself hun grieve and get through the physical part, you'll know when your ready to try get back to normal it will come naturally hun. In the mean time take all the support you need maybe give the miscarriage association a call if you think that may help. We're all here hun. Just take each day as it comes lovely you have to go through these motions to get through it hun. Hugs and lots of love

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