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I think we have given up

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So New Year’s Day at 1am our 9 week old baby decided to become a miscarriage what a great start to the year ! Our hope and dreams are at a end and what a very sad sad end at 41 with no eggs in the bank and awful luck , I think we should just give up 4 angles is enough

Good luck lady’s and be strong

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katya38

Oh i am so very sorry it is so hard. Take care x

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Chantelle89

I’m so sorry for your loss, having had a scare in the last 24hrs, I can’t even begin to imagine how you’re feeling. Sending love to you xx

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emu2016

Massive hugs. The biggest xx

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Gem1982

I’m so sorry, life is so unfair. I hope you have s good support around you to help you at this horrible time x

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Cinderella5

I'm so sorry sweetheart! So heartbreaking! Huge hugs!!xxx

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Gillyc1

I’m so sad to read this. My daughters baby became an angle last Friday and it hurts so much. Sending you hugs and love xxxxx

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TTCs

So sorry for your huge loss, life can be so cruel dangling happiness & then snatching it away. Thinking of you 😘

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WeeMrsH

I’m so sorry this has happened. Truly awful. Sending you strength to get through the coming days and weeks. Take one day at a time xxx

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kelsbels88

Oh Hun I’m so sorry for your loss. Take care and be kind to yourselves xx

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_MrsC

Oh gosh! I’m so sorry! How utterly unfair. Take your time though to see how you feel. I knew straight away after our last failed attempt that I was done. So far, I’ve not changed my mind. I can’t live any more in the what if world. I take my hat off to all of those ladies who continue to pursue the ultimate dream. Whatever you choose, remember that it is absolutely ok. To carry on or to call it a day takes courage. Sending you a big hug. x

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Tugsgirl

Oh my, I’m so sorry xx

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Aleelilook

So so sorry xx

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Beebeestar

I am so sorry. There are no words for what you are feeling. I hope you find strength to re build soon. Big hug 🤗

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Squeak2

So sorry for your loss, massive hugs 💕 xx

Oh dear. I'm terriblly sorry for your loss.its the most heartbreaking thing to have your hopes and dreams snatched away.Take care of yourself.i hope you reconsider trying again.All we have is hope that one day things will be OK.

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E_05

So sorry, this is truly heartbreaking xx

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jenny34

I'm so so sorry for your loss. Take care and sending lots of love xxx

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Gem8044

So sorry, life can be cruel. Thinking of you x

I’m so sorry. You must both be is so much pain.

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Jaky76

Xxxxxx big hugs xxxx

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Hezjenks10

So sorry for your loss xx

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Macca13

Oh very sorry to hear of your loss. Take care xx

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vic77

omg I am so so sorry and so so sad to read this. I am 40 and doing my 5th transfer however if fets don't work out I will think about one last fresh go..I think. ..try not to make any decisions yet..it is too soon, the pain is too raw and you are grieving..give yourself some time to heal..sending masses of love and hugs xxx

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Clare_lou

I’m so sorry this has happened to you again. It’s so cruel and utterly unfair! Hugs to you both xxx

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Ang24816

I am so so sorry for your loss. I hope you both find strength from somewhere to get through this devastating time. Sending you lots of love xx

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Missy_22

I’m so sorry to hear this look after yourself xxx

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vonny27

I'm sorry for your loss sending big hugs! Xx

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7AVA

So so sorry to hear this Rosemary xxx

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Faithful06

Massive massive love and hugs to you R0semary

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Elynn

No words......just a massive all encompassing hug. Xx

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MrsTM13

So sorry to hear this. X

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paulinadave

Hi there. I am sorry to hear about the loss. How are you feeling now? Please don't lose hope. I think you should not give up. You still have the ways. Why don't you go for any fertility procedure? There are many, like, IVF, IUI, ICSI or surrogacy. You also have the option to adopt a baby. What will be more beautiful to love a deserving child. What did doctor says? I hope you become a mother soon. Please keep updating. I wish you all the best. Take care of your diet and health.

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emilywilson

Oh really so sorry. I have no words to say about your feelings. But remember one thing, everything happens for a reason, we even don't know that reason but we must find something good in every bad situation. I know it's really difficult or i must say impossible to find a good in such horrible situation when you lose the dream of your life. But it is necessary to regain our energy, our hope and our determination. It's all about your attitude. Never give up, no matter how hard it gets. You have what it takes to be successful. Go for it and make a difference. No guts no glory. It's never too old to dream. God's plan is always the best. Sometimes the process is hard and painful, but remember; when God is silent, he is doing something for you. Have faith. Many hugs for you.

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lily96

Wow by any means Along these lines saddening. I bring no expressions on say over your affections. Anyway recall particular case thing, All that happens to a reason, we much don't know that motivation behind Anyhow we must discover something beneficial clinched alongside each terrible circumstance. I think it generally was troublesome alternately I must say unthinkable on Figure a great for such appalling circumstance At you lose those dream of your existence. Yet all it may be vital should recapture our energy, our hope, What's more, our determination. It's about your disposition. Never provide for up, regardless of how hard it gets. You have what it takes will be fruitful. Try for it Furthermore, aggravate a distinction. No guts no glory. Its never excessively old should dream. God's arrangement will be continuously those best. Here and there those procedure is tricky Furthermore painful, Be that remember; The point when divine force is silent, he will be completing something for you. Bring confidence. Large portions hugs to you.

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nancybolt

. I am so sorry to hear the sad news. Would say you are much better than many.. there are many couples who are struggling and have no luck. You are lucky to have 4 kids to enjoy. But if still want more you can try after six to eight months. You didn’t mention that was it your first miscarriage? I would say don’t lose hope stay positive. You will get joy of child soon again.

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Lizzielizzielizzie in reply to nancybolt

She’s had four assisted conception cycles but she doesn’t have four children so she’s sadly not in a better position than the rest of us, I think you may have misread her post x

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