So New Year’s Day at 1am our 9 week old baby decided to become a miscarriage what a great start to the year ! Our hope and dreams are at a end and what a very sad sad end at 41 with no eggs in the bank and awful luck , I think we should just give up 4 angles is enough
Good luck lady’s and be strong
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Oh gosh! I’m so sorry! How utterly unfair. Take your time though to see how you feel. I knew straight away after our last failed attempt that I was done. So far, I’ve not changed my mind. I can’t live any more in the what if world. I take my hat off to all of those ladies who continue to pursue the ultimate dream. Whatever you choose, remember that it is absolutely ok. To carry on or to call it a day takes courage. Sending you a big hug. x
Oh dear. I'm terriblly sorry for your loss.its the most heartbreaking thing to have your hopes and dreams snatched away.Take care of yourself.i hope you reconsider trying again.All we have is hope that one day things will be OK.
omg I am so so sorry and so so sad to read this. I am 40 and doing my 5th transfer however if fets don't work out I will think about one last fresh go..I think. ..try not to make any decisions yet..it is too soon, the pain is too raw and you are grieving..give yourself some time to heal..sending masses of love and hugs xxx
Hi there. I am sorry to hear about the loss. How are you feeling now? Please don't lose hope. I think you should not give up. You still have the ways. Why don't you go for any fertility procedure? There are many, like, IVF, IUI, ICSI or surrogacy. You also have the option to adopt a baby. What will be more beautiful to love a deserving child. What did doctor says? I hope you become a mother soon. Please keep updating. I wish you all the best. Take care of your diet and health.
Oh really so sorry. I have no words to say about your feelings. But remember one thing, everything happens for a reason, we even don't know that reason but we must find something good in every bad situation. I know it's really difficult or i must say impossible to find a good in such horrible situation when you lose the dream of your life. But it is necessary to regain our energy, our hope and our determination. It's all about your attitude. Never give up, no matter how hard it gets. You have what it takes to be successful. Go for it and make a difference. No guts no glory. It's never too old to dream. God's plan is always the best. Sometimes the process is hard and painful, but remember; when God is silent, he is doing something for you. Have faith. Many hugs for you.
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. I am so sorry to hear the sad news. Would say you are much better than many.. there are many couples who are struggling and have no luck. You are lucky to have 4 kids to enjoy. But if still want more you can try after six to eight months. You didn’t mention that was it your first miscarriage? I would say don’t lose hope stay positive. You will get joy of child soon again.
She’s had four assisted conception cycles but she doesn’t have four children so she’s sadly not in a better position than the rest of us, I think you may have misread her post x
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