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Well that's the end. Yet again 😒

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Hi lovelies

Some of you will remember I went for my 3rd scan today. That was to see if there was any growth and heart beat unfortunately bubz stopped growing at 6 weeks I'm 8 weeks now so this is the first time iv experienced something like this. Iv chose to mscarry naturally and if nothing happens in two weeks then I'll go for the tablets.

I knew when I got my bfp this was going to end badly but I did have some hope.

They did kartotype bloods today and iv got to go back a month after I miscarried for more to find out why and try to stop this happening. Thanks for your support lots of love. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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-noodles-

this is truly awful - i am so very sorry for your loss. sending you love & light in the days ahead xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to -noodles-

Thank you xx

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Hormomalmess

I am so sorry to see this, I can't imagine how you're feeling. There really isn't much I feel I can say. It's just so unfair. Massive hugs and take care xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Hormomalmess

Thank you xx

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Amanda86

So sorry πŸ™ This is heartbreaking. I was thinking of you this morning and hoping that you'd get the good news you deserve.

Sending a massive hug you way xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Amanda86

Thank you xx

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lorraineb61

Gutted for you - had hoped that scan today would have given some good news. Look after yourself & hopefully you will be able to get the answers to all your questions xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to lorraineb61

Thank you xx

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kumkums

So sorry this is happening to you. Let's hope they find a solution from the test being carried out. Please stay strong.

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to kumkums

Thank you xx

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sophia88

I’m so sorry to hear this. Can’t explain in words how you must be feeling.

Take care of yourself. xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to sophia88

Thank you xx

So sorry to hear this, sending huge hugs.

Look after yourself x

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Thank you xx

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luv2017

Am terribly sorry and I feel so so awful reading this .. I don’t know what to say and these stories makes me so scared to see my BFP one day . I can’t even imagine the feeling you will be going through now. I just want to hug you and cry with you . Sending you lots and lots of hugs , prayers and please hope something is still waiting for you .

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to luv2017

Bless you luv2017. You'd think by now I'm used to this but I'm really not and this one I analyzed all the way. Iv always bled when iv lost the baby. It hurts but I was expecting it. Hopefully it will happen soon I know I will never be able to enjoy a pregnancy again at least the first trimester.

Thank you hun πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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luv2017 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Am sorry , you take care and rest yourself.

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Cinderella5

Oh Im so sorry to hear this! Thinking of you both xxx

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Fredaflintstone

I’m so sorry to hear this - it’s completely heart breaking. So sad. My heart goes out to you. I don’t know what to say. Sending you the biggest of hugs and am here if you want to talk. Be kind to yourself and take your time healing. I hope you get some answers from your tests xxxxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Fredaflintstone

Thanks hun xx

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rinsp

Oh sweetheart I am truly so sorry for. You know I'm here if you fancy a chat.

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to rinsp

Thanks hun xx

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Nickimidge

Oh Cat, i’m so sorry to read this. I was thinking about you this morning, sending lots of love and hugs your way ❀️😘

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Nickimidge

Thanks Hun xx

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Gingergirl17

sending loads of love, so sorry x

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Gingergirl17

Thank you xx

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misswinky34

Oh I'm so sorry sweetheart πŸ˜– I've just sneaked in the loo at work to check for an. Update. Just awful 😒xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to misswinky34

Thanks. I know I'm devastated xx

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lauren3189

so sorry to hear this xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to lauren3189

Thank you xx

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E_05

I am so so sorry to read this, am heartbroken for you! Always here if you need a chat xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to E_05

Thank you hun. I hope your doing ok πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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E_05 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

I’m doing okay thanks, hope your okay as can be xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to E_05

Yes I keep crying and now just waiting and hoping it happens naturally. Iv done a big shop of lots of treats iv missed for a while so I'll be enjoying them. They'll be here tomorrow πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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E_05 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Sounds like a good idea, you deserve a treat! I hope things happen soon for you xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to E_05

I hope so for you too. Thanks hun big hugs. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Poppy16

I am utterly devastated for you. So incredibly sorry to hear this very sad news. Heartbreaking for you. I was really trusting that the scan today would have brought good news. It is terrible to suffer a loss (es) I know how awful it is. I'm here if you need to talk. Sending you a massive hug. I feel really sad for you. No words at all. Take care.xo

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Poppy16

Thank you poppy. You have been a lovely support through this. Really appreciate it. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Lynnr54

So sorry to hear this. I’m pleased that the hospital seem to be taking it seriously and trying to get to the bottom of why it is happening. Look after yourselves x

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Lynnr54

Thank you. Yes it's the miscarriage clinic I'm with they're been lovely. I see the lady that runs in every time so that makes me feel better πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

So sorry x

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

Thank you xx

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romaluna2015

I’m so sorry to read this if you need a chat my inbox is always open πŸ’• xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to romaluna2015

Thanks hun πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Dream32

I'm so sorry to hear this. Be kind to yourself x

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Dream32

Thanks hun xx

Really sorry to hear this! Sending u lots love πŸ’

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

Thanks hun. Hope your scan went well? Xx

in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

We saw a Sac , but doc said to early to see anything else , I go back 10 days xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

I told you don't worry xx

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Penders

OH Hun I'm really sorry to read this. I was hoping that your scan today would bring good news. I hope that it happens naturally for you. Sending lots of love ❀️ and big hugs xxxxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Penders

Thank you hun. I hope it does too iv never experienced this before always just come naturally straight away. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Penders in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

This journey really is hard sometimes. I had a missed miscarriage a few weeks ago, did not know what to expect as never had a miscarriage before! Unfortunately things did not start naturally for me and i had the tablets. The worst of it was over after 24hrs, it wasn't pleasant but wasn't as bad as I was expecting. Praying for you ❀️ Xxxx

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Kyell2

I am so sorry to read this 😒. It’s just so unfair!

Hopefully the blood tests reveal something that will help going forward.

Thinking of you xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Kyell2

Thank you hun. I hope so I can't bare this anymore xx

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Kyell2 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

I’m not surprised, you must be distraught. Life is truly rubbish sometimes 😒 xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Kyell2

It is I'll bounce back soon hopefully. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Kyell2 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

If anyone can, you can 😊

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Kyell2

Bless ya. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Aleelilook

So so sorry to read this, it is unbelievably cruel. Sending my love at this terrible time xxx be kind to yourself lovely xxxxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Aleelilook

Thank you hun. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Paula_sofio

hiya hun, am very sorry for your loss this happened to me when i was 18 i was 14 weeks before they said had stopped growing at 6 weeks i had to have a dnc , my niece just went thru the same thing shes only 17 , it's truly sad when this happens i got pregnant with my daughter 7 months later whos now 19 so never give up hope ive had two kids since then and my youngest is 10 and a half months im 40 in april, she turned out to be my easiest ceasarian after 3 of them so much luck for you in the future stay positive πŸ’œ xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Paula_sofio

Thank you hun means a lot. I'm sorry you've had to go through this too. Iv had 3 before my daughter and now this is the 3rd after her but it's the first iv experienced like this. I'm trying to be hopeful and I just want to get this over with so I can wait for my period to have the other tests. I can't go through this again it's too much. Thank you for your lovely message. I hope your nice is ok I'm sorry for her loss too

πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Paula_sofio in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Thats ok hun i just hope it helps a little, my niece went thru it naturally it was the night after, she started bleeding had cramps which slowly got worse, i would advise if this happens to you get straight to your nearest hospital, this is a horrid thing to go thru i know, just stay warm n be as comfy as you can, much luck and hope you get the results you need with your other tests xxxπŸ’œπŸ˜˜

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Paula_sofio

Thank you hun.

If it gets too much I will go I'm quite used to bad pain I have endo so can cope with quite bad pain but if it's too much I'll go. Thanks again.πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

Oh no. I'm terribly sorry. Take good care of yourself. One day at a time. Sending a huge hug to you.

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

Thanks hun xx

I'm so sorry hun. Take good care of yourself over the next month. I really hope you get some answers at the next appointment and they can fix whatever keeps going wrong. Sending you lots of love and hugs xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

Thank you hun. I do hope so too.

πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Bubz2017

I was just about to reply to your message and then I saw your post. Hun I am so so sorry 😞 if you need to talk I'm here. Sending you big loves and hugs πŸ€— xxxxxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Bubz2017

Thanks hun. Means a lot πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Mircle2

So sorry hun look after yourself be kind to yourself x ❀😘 may 2018 bring happiness for you & your family ❀😘🌸

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Mircle2

Thanks hun. Bring on 2018 hope it's, the best year for all if us πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Positive2022

I'm truly sorry to hear your news, I can't imagine how you are feeling right now. Sending you BIG hugs xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Positive2022

Thanks hun xx

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AS100

πŸ’– I’m so sorry to read this. Sending you love and hugs πŸ’– xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to AS100

Thanks hun xx

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Tugsgirl

So sorry. I’m glad that they’re going to do the Kartotyping. I’ve pm’d you. I was really hoping for a good outcome for you xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

I know hun. They did that today then they're going to blood clotting and serum whatever that is πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

At least they’re prepared to try and help you get some answers which is good. I hope you don’t have to go through this again xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

I know I'm a bit of a crazy one though as soon as she confirmed it a tear rolled down my face I hopped of the bed and said. So what we gonna do now then so it doesn't happen again. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

We all react differently xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

I know then came home sat in bed cried went to sleep woke up and did a big shop if treats that iv missed. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Tugsgirl in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

That’s good. Cry. Eat whatever you want and drink whatever you want xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Tugsgirl

I am doing xx

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Leo2017

So sorry to read this, so unbelievably cruel!! πŸ’”xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Leo2017

Thanks hun xx

im so sorry for your loss and its all so bloody unfair.

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

Thanks hun. I know it is xx

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MrsTM13

I'm so sorry to hear this. I was really hoping for good news for you. Huge hugs x

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to MrsTM13

Thanks hun. Hope your doing OK xx

I’m so sorry you have to go through this again. I hope that your miscarriage completes smoothly and naturally- as someone who has had two miscarriages I share your pain. Xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie

Thank you hun. I'm sorry for your losses too hun. πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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vic77

Oh no...I am so so sorry hunny..sending you so much love and hugs xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to vic77

Thank you hun πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Loopielu

Oh no! I’m so so sorry to see this lovely. Sending you love and a gentle hug. Take care xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Loopielu

Thank you hun πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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Sprinkles86

Oh no I am so sorry to read this lovely I had everything crossed for you for some good news. I can’t imagine how you’re feeling, be kind to yourself and look after each other xxxxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Sprinkles86

Thank you hun πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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joulles

So sorry to hear your sad news. Look after yourself xox

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to joulles

Thank you xx

I'm so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

Thank you xx

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Diamonddream

Ohhhh hunni im so so sad to read this!

So sorry for your loss!

Sending you love and hugs, always here if u need to talk xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Diamonddream

Thank you hun. Hope your ok πŸ’—πŸ€—πŸ˜˜

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