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BFP but with a heavy heart ❤️

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So yesterday was my OTD and I got my BFP!

After six years of ttc we started our IVF journey 18 months ago, two fresh cycles that resulted in chemical pregnancies, further tests, a lap in July when I was dignosed with Endometriosis and FET cycle in August which I was no expecting to start so quick. My journey like most has not been easy and full of heartache, frustration, anger, jelousy, happiness, tears I could go on.

We could not be happier with our BFP, although it's early days and we have a long way to go I feel different this time round.

I joined this network 12 months ago and didn't have the courage until recently to post anything. I'm so glad I did, you all have been an amazing support in different by ways and I think you are all wonderful whatever your story you really are! Believe in yourself!

I have seen some devastation on here lately which is why my news comes with a heavy heart. Keep believing, stay postive, your dreams will come true.

Much Love X

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Congratulations xx

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EK20

Congratulations xx

Congratulations and agreed the worrying never stops xxx

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WeeJacs

Congrats! My story is pretty similar to you. We are now considering the nk test. Can I ask did they provide anything? Was it a biopsy with Dr Quenby? x

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Dream32 in reply to WeeJacs

Thank you 😊

I had my NK test prior to my 2nd fresh cycle, it showed elevated numbers of NK cells but I went ahead with the cycle and was on Prednisone. I knew deep down there was something not right. After years of being told I had IBS and never heard of endometriosis when I looked into it the symptoms are similar. My fertility clinic did all the tests and surgery. It wasn't Dr Quenby. X

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WeeJacs in reply to Dream32

Thanks for the quick reply. We are definitely looking into the biopsy before our next cycle. I've had 2 laps now and they've removed as much as they can at this stage. After a lot of research there is defo a connection between Endo and raised nk. Thanks wishing you all the best x

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Dream32 in reply to WeeJacs

Thank you. I totally agree I read a interesting article about NK cells which said that are a indication of some kind of immflamation. It's worth having the biopsy although if you still have endo it may be still raised. I would recommend having any tests etc before another cycle. All the best and I hope you find some answers x

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E_05

Congratulations xx

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Dream32 in reply to E_05

Hey, hope you're doing ok and looking after yourself x

Congratulations on you BFP, good luck for a lovely smooth pregnancy xx

Congratulations x

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Dream32. Well, that's fabulous news after you've been through such heartache. I hope you're booking your first scan so you can get to meet your little "bean". Wishing you well for an uneventful pregnancy. Diane

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Dream32 in reply to DianeArnold

Thank you Diane 😊 Scan is booked. I'm feeling really good about this time although a tad nervous which is to be expected I suppose x

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK in reply to Dream32

Hi Dream32. Of course you are. Only to be expected after going through so much. Just try and keep busy and the time will soon pass. Thinking of you. Diane

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MrsTM13

Congratulations x

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Shanks_21

Congratulations amazing news xxxxx

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Rubinaa

Congratulations sweets. I wish you all the best, get loads of rest and eats loads of healthy foods. Xx

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Tugsgirl

Congratulations on your bfp. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy xx

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Cinderella5

Congratulations!! I know it must be worrying as its early doors but fingers crossed for you!xx

Congratulations hope u have a happy and healthy pregnancy x

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Poppy16

Big congrats! You have been through so much. So sorry to hear what all you have suffered. Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy!x

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Lynnr54

Congratulations! I hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy! I agree it is difficult when you see others with not so good news but you shouldn’t let it dampen your joy. Every positive ending is hope for others that it can happen! x

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Dream32 in reply to Lynnr54

Thank you that means a lot x

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Amanda86

Congratulations xxx

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Penders

Congratulations xx

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pinto8

Congratulations

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Fredaflintstone

Congratulations to you both! Such lovely news x wishing you a happy and healthy time xxxx

Lovely news. We need to hear this too. Congratulations xx

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Hannah143

Congratulations to you both, that’s amazing news xx

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LisaMV

Wonderful news. Always great to hear good news xxxxx

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7AVA

Congratulations Dream32 - I am sending you every hope that all goes well this time for you xxx

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Kittygoo

Congratulations xxx

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Rubinaa

Congratulations, enjoy your pregnancy, it's your time. 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀

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Kyell2

Congratulations, I’m so glad you got your good news at last x

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IMaman

Congratulations and thank you for the positivity in your message. H&H 9 months! X

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