Ladies, I can't go to bed without sharing some love. There is pain in the group tonight and infertility is painful enough.
Infertility is lonely and cruel. I felt very alone until I found this site. You girls have got me through the toughest of days. I am so grateful for that. Words are not enough to express my gratitude.
For those of you like me who have never had a bfp, keep strong and keep the faith. At the end of the day, hope and faith is all we have. Let's keep hoping and praying for each other.
For those of you who have had the awful trauma of losing a baby, my heart is heavy for you. I cannot imagine the pain and sorrow you feel and just want you to know that you are in my prayers. I pray for peace in your hearts and for joy in the future once you have grieved your untimely loss.
For those of you who are pregnant, I am delighted that you are one step further on in achieving your dream. I pray for healthy and relaxed pregnancies for you. It must be nerve-wracking to be pregnant after you have desired it for so long.
For those of you who have had babies, thank you for being inspirational. Thank you for sharing your stories. I hope that being a mother fills the void that was in your heart for so long and brings you the joy we all want so desperately to achieve.
Finally, for those of us who in our hearts know we're done with the treatment, I pray for guidance and love from our families and friends as we share our sad news and begin to adjust to a life without children. I pray for peace with our choices, no matter how hard they are to make.
We're all at different parts of our journey, but we're on the same path. Let's support each other as it's the toughest road to travel and doing it with others by our side makes it just that little bit easier.
Sending you all a huge hug this evening. I will pray for us all tonight and particularly for peace in our hearts.
Much love,
Vic x