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Ladies, I can't go to bed without sharing some love. There is pain in the group tonight and infertility is painful enough.

Infertility is lonely and cruel. I felt very alone until I found this site. You girls have got me through the toughest of days. I am so grateful for that. Words are not enough to express my gratitude.

For those of you like me who have never had a bfp, keep strong and keep the faith. At the end of the day, hope and faith is all we have. Let's keep hoping and praying for each other.

For those of you who have had the awful trauma of losing a baby, my heart is heavy for you. I cannot imagine the pain and sorrow you feel and just want you to know that you are in my prayers. I pray for peace in your hearts and for joy in the future once you have grieved your untimely loss.

For those of you who are pregnant, I am delighted that you are one step further on in achieving your dream. I pray for healthy and relaxed pregnancies for you. It must be nerve-wracking to be pregnant after you have desired it for so long.

For those of you who have had babies, thank you for being inspirational. Thank you for sharing your stories. I hope that being a mother fills the void that was in your heart for so long and brings you the joy we all want so desperately to achieve.

Finally, for those of us who in our hearts know we're done with the treatment, I pray for guidance and love from our families and friends as we share our sad news and begin to adjust to a life without children. I pray for peace with our choices, no matter how hard they are to make.

We're all at different parts of our journey, but we're on the same path. Let's support each other as it's the toughest road to travel and doing it with others by our side makes it just that little bit easier.

Sending you all a huge hug this evening. I will pray for us all tonight and particularly for peace in our hearts.

Much love,

Vic x

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NsKaz

Well said MrsC. Thank you xxxx

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Cinderella5

Great post Mrs C! I personally have received lots of love and support so hurrah to all you lovely ladies out there! I wouldn't be without you!💕xx

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E_05

Love this post! Very wise and honest words Mrs C xx

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Lilli79

Love this post, beautifully written xxx

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Scarlett13

Beautiful post - no matter what stage we are each at, we are in it together, walking the same paths, feeling the same emotions, having the same conversations, having the same tears, sharing the same worries, and hopefully some joy and laughter along the way xxx

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Oakey80

Beautiful, true words ❤

Beautifully put. Tonight has been tough reading. It's a sad and difficult journey and I wish we could all have happy and healthy pregnancies xx

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N_M_10

Very well said! We all have to stick together on this rollercoaster. Share the pain, answer questions, support and celebrate. I hope everyone has a good sleep tonight and tomorrow is a new day. Night xx

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llc1987

lovely post Mrs C x

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Loopielu

As always, spot on xx

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Hormomalmess

Such lovely words xx

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-noodles-

thank you for your lovely words xxx

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Sherry07

Beautifully said 🌹 Sending love and peace to everyone x

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NMP1026

Such a beautiful post. Thank you. Sending Lots of love and a big hug to you xx

Very true words 💖 xx

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cls37

Beautiful words- can't say anymore x❤️x

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Goldie01

Well said lovely xx

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Emily7

Very well said. Thank you!xx

Beautiful words. Very well said 💕

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Fredaflintstone

Hear hear! Very thoughtful and wise words Mrs C. Thank you! I will be thinking of you all too and hoping we can continue to support each other through our various ups and downs. Big hugs xxxx

Wonderful post

❤️ thank you ❤️

I've been at a few of these stages so far and it's important to remember that we are all amazing women 💪🏼 and I feel we share in each other's elations and feel each other's pains and loses.

The support from this group is always incredible and we should be proud of that as women who stand together in one of the toughest battles we'll ever know.

Stay strong friends ❤️💕 xxxx

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7AVA

Amen to that Mrs C - very beautifully put, thank you for your words tonight xxx

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Ditsy21

Amen. X

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Amanda86

Well said Mrs C. Amen to that xxx

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katya38

Very well said. I've been really saddened tonight by some of the messages. I've always found this forum incredibly supportive and is a shame that negativity is creeping in.

This is so beautiful, it made me cry. Very much needed following some very unfortunate posts here tonight.

Thank you for your kind words.

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Beautiful post. That's what this forum is about. I wasn't trying to be nasty I was trying to explain that others would be upset regarding the post. I hope I haven't offended anyone that really wasn't my intention. Your post made me emotional xx

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kelsbels88

Such a beautiful post well done Mrs C!

We all have to go through our own tough battles and as women we should be there to empower and strengthen each other.

I thank everyone for the support they have shown me over the short time I have been here.

Amen xx

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London7

Lovely post! Xx

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Sweets1

That is such a lovely post! The best thing I did was join here and be able to share and know I'm not alone or not alone as a couple 💕

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LisaMV

Love this post. HOPE is what this forum is all about xxxx

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Sunbeam123

What a gorgeous, positive post! Thank you so much for this! You'll be in my prayers too. Take care x

Well said xx

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A-Jay-

Lovely post.. i wish i could hug all lovely ladies on this forum.. xx

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Elou81

What an amazing post. Feeling the love MrsC :) hugs all round xxxxxx

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lorraineb61

Lovely words, I personally would be completely lost without this forum. X

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Tw1986

You truly cheered me up this morning, the fact that you covered all aspects in this post is fair! What people don't realize is we all have our own journeys! Take care xxx

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Evie1

So much love and support gone into this post thank you. Emotions will always run high, as everyone is at a different stage in their journey to reach their dream, and that glimmer of hope from someone who has been there, always helps. My Daughter and I have learnt so much. Xx

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Choctastic

Beautiful xx

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CountryCat

Very poetic, very true and written from a heartfelt, kind and sincere perspective. Thank you xxx

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sk85

Such a lovely message! 😊

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bluewanderlust

That is so beautifully written, thank you xxx

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Shemona

I completely understand what you feel and your pain is like my own . you have written it beautifully almost about tears to my eyes , this forum blinds us all together and takes away the pain by meeting people who are going through the same situation in life .

Thanks for posting ! much love.

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