Let's stick together

Ladies, I can't go to bed without sharing some love. There is pain in the group tonight and infertility is painful enough.

Infertility is lonely and cruel. I felt very alone until I found this site. You girls have got me through the toughest of days. I am so grateful for that. Words are not enough to express my gratitude.

For those of you like me who have never had a bfp, keep strong and keep the faith. At the end of the day, hope and faith is all we have. Let's keep hoping and praying for each other.

For those of you who have had the awful trauma of losing a baby, my heart is heavy for you. I cannot imagine the pain and sorrow you feel and just want you to know that you are in my prayers. I pray for peace in your hearts and for joy in the future once you have grieved your untimely loss.

For those of you who are pregnant, I am delighted that you are one step further on in achieving your dream. I pray for healthy and relaxed pregnancies for you. It must be nerve-wracking to be pregnant after you have desired it for so long.

For those of you who have had babies, thank you for being inspirational. Thank you for sharing your stories. I hope that being a mother fills the void that was in your heart for so long and brings you the joy we all want so desperately to achieve.

Finally, for those of us who in our hearts know we're done with the treatment, I pray for guidance and love from our families and friends as we share our sad news and begin to adjust to a life without children. I pray for peace with our choices, no matter how hard they are to make.

We're all at different parts of our journey, but we're on the same path. Let's support each other as it's the toughest road to travel and doing it with others by our side makes it just that little bit easier.

Sending you all a huge hug this evening. I will pray for us all tonight and particularly for peace in our hearts.

Much love,

Vic x

45 Replies

oldest โ€ข newest
  • Well said MrsC. Thank you xxxx

  • Great post Mrs C! I personally have received lots of love and support so hurrah to all you lovely ladies out there! I wouldn't be without you!๐Ÿ’•xx

  • Love this post! Very wise and honest words Mrs C xx

  • Love this post, beautifully written xxx

  • Beautifully put. Tonight has been tough reading. It's a sad and difficult journey and I wish we could all have happy and healthy pregnancies xx

  • Beautiful post - no matter what stage we are each at, we are in it together, walking the same paths, feeling the same emotions, having the same conversations, having the same tears, sharing the same worries, and hopefully some joy and laughter along the way xxx

  • Beautiful, true words โค

  • Very well said! We all have to stick together on this rollercoaster. Share the pain, answer questions, support and celebrate. I hope everyone has a good sleep tonight and tomorrow is a new day. Night xx

  • lovely post Mrs C x

  • As always, spot on xx

  • Such lovely words xx

  • thank you for your lovely words xxx

  • Beautifully said ๐ŸŒน Sending love and peace to everyone x

  • Such a beautiful post. Thank you. Sending Lots of love and a big hug to you xx

  • Very true words ๐Ÿ’– xx

  • Beautiful words- can't say anymore xโค๏ธx

  • Well said lovely xx

  • Very well said. Thank you!xx

  • Beautiful words. Very well said ๐Ÿ’•

  • Hear hear! Very thoughtful and wise words Mrs C. Thank you! I will be thinking of you all too and hoping we can continue to support each other through our various ups and downs. Big hugs xxxx

  • Wonderful post

    โค๏ธ thank you โค๏ธ

    I've been at a few of these stages so far and it's important to remember that we are all amazing women ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ and I feel we share in each other's elations and feel each other's pains and loses.

    The support from this group is always incredible and we should be proud of that as women who stand together in one of the toughest battles we'll ever know.

    Stay strong friends โค๏ธ๐Ÿ’• xxxx

  • Amen to that Mrs C - very beautifully put, thank you for your words tonight xxx

  • Amen. X

  • Well said Mrs C. Amen to that xxx

  • Very well said. I've been really saddened tonight by some of the messages. I've always found this forum incredibly supportive and is a shame that negativity is creeping in.

  • This is so beautiful, it made me cry. Very much needed following some very unfortunate posts here tonight.

    Thank you for your kind words.

  • Beautiful post. That's what this forum is about. I wasn't trying to be nasty I was trying to explain that others would be upset regarding the post. I hope I haven't offended anyone that really wasn't my intention. Your post made me emotional xx

  • Such a beautiful post well done Mrs C!

    We all have to go through our own tough battles and as women we should be there to empower and strengthen each other.

    I thank everyone for the support they have shown me over the short time I have been here.

    Amen xx

  • Lovely post! Xx

  • That is such a lovely post! The best thing I did was join here and be able to share and know I'm not alone or not alone as a couple ๐Ÿ’•

  • Love this post. HOPE is what this forum is all about xxxx

  • What a gorgeous, positive post! Thank you so much for this! You'll be in my prayers too. Take care x

  • Well said xx

  • Lovely post.. i wish i could hug all lovely ladies on this forum.. xx

  • โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

  • What an amazing post. Feeling the love MrsC :) hugs all round xxxxxx

  • Lovely words, I personally would be completely lost without this forum. X

  • You truly cheered me up this morning, the fact that you covered all aspects in this post is fair! What people don't realize is we all have our own journeys! Take care xxx

  • So much love and support gone into this post thank you. Emotions will always run high, as everyone is at a different stage in their journey to reach their dream, and that glimmer of hope from someone who has been there, always helps. My Daughter and I have learnt so much. Xx

  • Beautiful xx

  • Very poetic, very true and written from a heartfelt, kind and sincere perspective. Thank you xxx

  • Such a lovely message! ๐Ÿ˜Š

  • That is so beautifully written, thank you xxx

  • I completely understand what you feel and your pain is like my own . you have written it beautifully almost about tears to my eyes , this forum blinds us all together and takes away the pain by meeting people who are going through the same situation in life .

    Thanks for posting ! much love.

  • Beautiful

You may also like...