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Sooo I took a test this morning and was clearly a bfn!!!

I have my blood test today and think is there any point going!!

I had spotting since morning and when I wipe I think it must be AF

Feel numb ATM can't be bothered to face anyone with bad news!

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Hannah143

Me too, what a shit day for us both. My heart goes out to you today sweetie. Be kind to yourself. Totally get how you feel, it's taken a while for my tears to come, I was completely numb earlier.

Sending you a big fat hug xxx

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A-Jay- in reply to Hannah143

Me too.. i also got bfn today..

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Hannah143 in reply to A-Jay-

Awww so sorry to hear that too A-Jay, group hug πŸ€— , I hope you've had a quiet day and taken some timeout for yourself xxx

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Mariec7

Please don't despair Sophiasafa you just never know with these things. Try to stay positive.

The blood test completes the pathway so even when I think "its just not worth it!" it does give you firm confirmation.

I stay hopeful until they ring me with the blood test results.

Thinking of you and wish you all the best xxxx hugs xxxx

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E_05

So sorry to read this, look after yourself today xx

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Tugsgirl

So sorry 😞 xx

So sorry to hear this look after yourselfs xx

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Sophiasafa

Thanks guys

Been having pain on left side all day sharp cramping n light spotting

I just did a clear blue along with a cheapy

Clear blue has the faintest line ever the other is a bfn

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Sophiasafa

Id definitely take the advice of Mariec7 especially the fact that clear blue has a faint line. Get the bloods to confirm either way. Now you've seen a faint line will give you some hope. Hopefully will be a positive fingers crossed xx

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Hannah143 in reply to Sophiasafa

A faint line! Thats hope right there, did you go for your blood test ? Xx

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_MrsC

So sorry to see your post. Sending you a big hug. It's an awful day. Wrap yourself up in a blanket and let yourself feel it. xxx

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Kelly-03

I'm so sorry to hear your news. Hopefully you get an appointment with the clinic soon to talk things through? X

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Kattalex1

My heart feels your pain but please keep strong and don't give up...

Sorry to hear this, look after yourself xxx

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Ash2016

Sorry to hear that sofiasafa. I know how you're feeling. I got my bfn today too. I am supposed to have bloods taken at the clinic tomorrow. Don't really want to go. I phoned up to check if it was necessary and I was told that I still had to come in so they could have the information from my bloods and to 'close my case'. Just a what I wanted to hear! I don't knows if it will give any useful info but I guess it might for the next cycle, I don't really know. Hope it gets easier xxx

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