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I couldn't cope with waiting anymore, the thought of another day of hoping just to see a negative was too much so I did 2 tests this morning, diferent kinds, both bfn. In some ways its a relief just to know one way or the other but obviously very sad. I'll do the clinic test tomorrow anyway, but there was not even a hint of a line on either today so I know it will be negative. Got one frostie waiting for us so hopefully we'll be able to get on with a FET soon. I hope all the other ladies testing this week have a better result x

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that! Its so crap seeing those blank tests especially when you know you'll have to do another. The clinics usually dont make you wait too long until you can go again so hopefully its the same for you! Hugs.xx

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KW83 in reply to Cinderella5

Thanks lovely. Really hoping we don't have to wait too long but we'll see. Everything crossed for you xx

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Foodie23

I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. My heart goes out to you. Take the time you need to grieve and heal. I’m hopeful for you, your family and your little frostie. Your time will come. It isn’t a matter of if, just when. Take care of yourself hun and know we’re thinking of you. 🤗

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KW83 in reply to Foodie23

Thank you xx

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Heuchera

Sorry to hear that but hope your test tomorrow tells a different story. Don't lose hope! I tested this morning and it's a BFN. It's disappointing but I feel so much better knowing, the 2ww is so tough! I've booked a counselling appointment for next week and my follow-up with the consultant is the week after. I'm going to plan lots of things to pamper myself and am hoping perhaps this month I might even get a natural miracle. Love to you and everyone else testing this week xxx

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KW83 in reply to Heuchera

Sorry to you as well, but yes, it is definitely good to know one way or the other. Sounds like a great plan to book some nice things in for the next few weeks,and I hope your follow up is positive with a clear way forward. Xx

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Heuchera in reply to KW83

Thank you xxx

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2018hopeful in reply to Heuchera

So sorry you had a negative x x x Sending hugs x

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Heuchera in reply to 2018hopeful

Thank you! Really hoping you get good news on Thursday xxx

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2018hopeful in reply to Heuchera

Thank you x x

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Optimistic7

I’m so sorry to hear that!! I hope you’re coping with the disappointment as best as you can. Exactly - you’ve got the frozen one to go yet - try and stay positive for that!! Xx

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KW83 in reply to Optimistic7

Thank you. Everything crossed for you for tomorrow! Xx

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2018hopeful

So sorry about this! It's just total crap waiting and having to go through all we do. Stay strong and keep hopeful for your fet x x

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KW83 in reply to 2018hopeful

Thanks lovely x

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Kcrochet

So sorry to hear that, just so unfair - sending hugs xx 😘

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KW83 in reply to Kcrochet

Thank you. It's really crap x

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