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It's official - we got a negative!!!

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After a week of heavy bleeding today has confirmed a BFN! Doesn't seem real, feeling numb xxx

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I'm so sorry. I've had the same. It's rubbish isn't it. Hope you're taking some time off for yourself x

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bluewanderlust

I am so very sorry to hear this, sending you big hugs xx

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Lamorna80

So sorry for you. I know exactly how that feels, it's devastating. Don't think of what you're going to do next, just work through the next few days. I found a big relief when I got 'myself' back after stopping the medication xxx

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City74

Really sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself x

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry, a negative outcome is hard! Look after yourselves!xx

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Cazo

So sorry to hear this. It's so heartbreaking after everything we put our bodies through. I fear I am heading the same way for my test next week too 😪

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Oakey80

So sorry to hear this...xxx

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Tara123

So sorry to hear this take care hun x

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Shannon1400

Sorry to hear this we are all here to support if needed x

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Fredaflintstone

Sorry to hear that. I had the same recently too but no bleeding, just a negative result. Hope you are ok. It's so hard to deal with. Look after yourself and take it easy. You did all you could. Xxx

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ch319

😔❤️

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Tugsgirl

So sorry 😞 xx

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cls37

Thank you everyone.... I expected it as I bled so much! It's still hard though, the IVF journey is one that no one can prepare you for! It's heartbreaking after all of the tests, injections, trying to do the best that you can and it not being good enough. Wish I could have stayed at home today and just curled up on bed. Need to make some serious changes for next time.... the first being putting myself first and not work. I've put myself under so much stress, am exhausted x

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_MrsC in reply to cls37

I'm so sorry Hun. It's absolutely horrible and no one should go through that. Sending you a huge hug and lots of love to have a restful holiday. You've hit the nail on the head with not putting work first. Change jobs and I'm sure next time will be a more successful cycle for you. xxx

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CountryCat

So sorry to read this! Sending big hugs xxx💐

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E_05

So sorry to read this 😔 look after each other and take the time you need to grieve xx

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baby2016

Aw cls37, I'm so sorry to read this and completely understand your feeling of numbness, I'm sure it's our bodies way of trying to protect us. I know today was your partners bday as well and I hope you have managed to have some quality time together. Sending you a big hug xx

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cls37 in reply to baby2016

Thank you xxx

Take care of yourself and take time to heal. Xx

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emiraven62

I am so sorry. It's horrible when you are expecting the best and it doesn't happen.

xx

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