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Why can't I trust my luck anymore but so content being with u all

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After 4 failed cycle. And specially After my last ectopic in 2015. Why can't I move on without this negative feeling within , that it might never work for me .

Anyways , all of d women out there please know that no matter how hard d ups and downs of this ivf process is, we are there for each other. Even though we can't express our deepest feelings many a times to our closest ones'. But D only place we find solace in expressing ourselves is here. I, myself have got to know some amazing women with such determination and strength out here. All of you lovely ladies you are some great souls. Love to all😘😘

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I know how you feel as we just had our 4th cycle but I am determined not to let it get me down, don't get me wrong I am sad and have had a cry but one way or another I know we are going to be a parents xx

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Dear Burton thx for d lovely messages. Guess what! I'm not getting anything wrong in what u said rather am feeling that you've just wrote my thoughts out. I too have d same feeling somewhere deep down it will happen someday. But which day I don't know . Till then just hanging to d lil hope .

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I'm a firm believer that it will happen one day, don't give up hope. It's such a hard thing to go through and there are so many emotions but just stay positive and remember you are not alone x

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Buffy21

Couldn't say it better myself. Hoping to send some positive vibes your way with hope that things go your way very soon.💕xx

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tiger-cub in reply toBuffy21

Thanks so much buddy for ur lovely positivity 😘

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vic77

I can't help but think I was meant to go through this to bring me closer to some amazing women and try at times to remind myself how strong I and all of us are especially when we have down days xxx

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tiger-cub in reply tovic77

True vic77 I agree . I sometimes feel if only all we gurls could have cry night out. And just flush down all our insecurities and fears and sorrow with drinks.

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Lol..I have thought that too😉can't work out if it be a good night or a disastrous one..lol. I did meet a girl I met at support group and we had such a giggle talking about the funny side to all this😅if you dig deep there is a lot to laugh about in all this xx

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tiger-cub in reply tovic77

Hey vic either ways it'll b a win-win situation. We deliberately won't remember anything d next day about what we did. After all going through this ivf journey I'm sure all of us have learned how to put d failures behind and forget them and move on .

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Tugsgirl

Love and best wishes to you too x

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tiger-cub in reply toTugsgirl

Thanks tugs gurl sometimes just few words make such a lot of difference.

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72cloud9

U r stronger than u think having gone thru all that so deep down u have the positivity that u will get ur wish one day xxx

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tiger-cub in reply to72cloud9

Thanks so much 72 these words mean so much . Sending u virtual hugs 😘🙏

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