Update number 2: Well clinic have rang... - Fertility Network UK

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Update number 2

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Well clinic have rang and told me to stop my medication as with a hcg of only 8.5 it isn't going to progress. I feel relieved to know as I have been through this before and it didn't end well then either. Thanks so much for all your kind words and support xx

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Hollibob

Are they still going to see you tomorrow?

in reply to Hollibob

No said they don't want to drag it out for me as they know it won't progress x

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Hollibob in reply to

:-(

I'd have hoped they would still monitor your next blood level...

Look after yourself x

in reply to Hollibob

There isn't much point tho as they know what's going to happen. I feel ok with this just glad to know so we can move on xx

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misswinky34

😭 I'm really sorry xxxx

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Goodthingscome

Really sorry to read this, please look after yourself xxx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that, sending you big hugs!! Look after each other!xx

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Sunbeam123

Ohh I'm really sorry! It's so rubbish....wish there was something to say when these things happen to make things better! Thinking of you! X

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NDE1987

I'm sorry button i had my fingers crossed for you xxx

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CountryCat

Gutted for you Button...so, so sorry. I had everything crossed for you.

Take great care of yourself xx

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hannahi

Sorry to hear that 😢 Glad you know the answer though rather than the uncertainty being dragged out for longer. My thoughts are with you x

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Smithha

So sorry to read this lovely xx thinking of you and sending you lots of love xxx

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Blondyboo

oh bless you this process is so bloody cruel. glad youre 'ok' xxx

in reply to Blondyboo

I actually feel relieved just to know. Bring on cycle 5 xx

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beauty1984 in reply to

I know this must be such a hard time for you but I love your positivity and that you haven't given up, everyone on here is so strong and brave and I hope to be just like you all. I will send positive thoughts your way and hope cycle 5 brings you your happy ending x

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pm27

I'm sorry to read this news. It's so unfair. Hope you get better news next time.

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Rainbow_86

I'm so sorry to hear this :( take time to treat and look after yourself. I wish you all the best for cycle 5. Sending you big hugs xxxx

Really sorry to read this. Sending a big hug your way xx

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Georgina78

Oh so sorry button, I saw your other post before this one. Gutted for you 😢 Huge hugs xx

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baby2016

Button, I'm so sorry to read this. However, please try and take some positives from it. You have some lovely frozen embryos stored and hopefully one of those will be the one. My friend recently had 3 chemicals, then on her last embryos from that round she put her last 2 back in and is now 17wks with 1 baby. Sending a big hug of support your way xxx

in reply to baby2016

Wow that's great and thanks for sharing still remaining hopeful xx

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baby2016 in reply to

Glad to hear it 😊 Keep positive and hopeful and i'm sure it will happen for you xx

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katya38

So sorry button. Life just isn't fair. Thinking of you and sending virtual hugs. Please take care of yourself xx

in reply to katya38

Thanks. It might just be the sign we where looking for following our conversation xx

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katya38 in reply to

Yes quire possibly no matter how tough I do believe everything happens for a reason xx

in reply to katya38

Exactly. Got a follow up appointment next week so going to decide from there xx

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katya38 in reply to

Do you still have frozen ones? Xx

in reply to katya38

Yes 5 blasts so will probably realistically have a frozen cycle then decide. But just want to get our lives back now and enjoy family time and making memories however which way that will happen xx

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katya38 in reply to

That is so true. One of the reasons we left the infertility journey I just wanted to get back to normal. DecI ding to leave treatment I've felt so much more relaxed xx

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Oakey80

Ah man! So sorry button 🙁 There's certainly been too much bad news on this site this week...hope you're ok xxx

in reply to Oakey80

It defo has been a rough week for a lot of us xx

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vic77

I am so so sorry to read this..huge hugs xxx

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Aleelilook

So sorry to see this Button, I hope you're being looked after xxx x

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romaluna2015

I'm so sorry :( no words will feel helpful at the moment. Xx

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MaiLei

Lots of virtual hugs Button... thinking of you xx

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Jaky76

Oh so sorry to read this.. You are so brave.. And determined... You got 5 in the freezer... And fifth time lucky 🍀 I hope... This my fifth... Sending loads of love xxxx

in reply to Jaky76

Thanks and I feel for you also on your 5th try, best of luck to you xx

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Aimaim77

Am so sorry do you have any frozen that you can try again xx

in reply to Aimaim77

Aw thanks Hun hope your well. Yes we have 5 blasts so hopefully one of those will work x

So very sorry. Take care x

Sorry to hear this Button, hope you manage to have some lovely quality time together. As you well know the waiting game after a fail is torture as your dealing with all sorts of emotions but you have your frosties and once you start going again it goes in so quick ao just enjoy this time and re group. It will happen xx

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Aw cheers it's my birthday this weekend so we are going to go out and celebrate. Then we are going to the Lake District for 3 nights at bank hol. Just anything that is 'normal' for a while will be nice xx

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Sounds lovely have a great time xx

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romaluna2015 in reply to

Happy birthday button-123 💕💕😘

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Sprinkles86

Oh button I'm so gutted for you, sending you a big hug as there are no words that will help right now xxxx

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kc21

Button thinking of u and sending u a hug x I was hoping for u so much x have they tested your immunes ? It really might be worth a try ? X lots of Frosties though ! Xx

in reply to kc21

I will ask about that at my follow up. Cheers x

I am so sorry to hear this sweetie, I hope that you are doing ok and that you enjoy you're 3 days in the lakes xxxxx

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Sunnysam91

Sorry to read your news but enjoy your break for now it's good to have normal life take care xx

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Emily7

So sorry to hear that, big hugs. Enjoy the Lake District. It's such a beautiful place xx

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Billiejean01

So sorry to read this after all that ordeal. Xx

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anna0908

Sorry to hear this. Hope its not to long before you get some frosties back inside and you get your bfp soon xx

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emmab178

So sorry to hear this news. Big hugs x

Really sorry to hear this and I feel for you. Well done for staying positive and enjoy your weekend away and birthday x

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Tugsgirl

Oh Hidden . Sorry 😞

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Kelly-03

So sorry to hear this and Thinking of you xx

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Flossy85

Aww I'm so sorry button, I was so hoping for good news for you. Try to enjoy your birthday and have fun when you visit the Lake District (that's where I'm from 😊) lots of hugs xx

in reply to Flossy85

Thanks. We love the lakes that's where we got married xx

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Raglee

I'm so so sorry to read this, look after yourself X

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emu2016

Big hugs button. Next step is around the corner. I take so much strength from you in how you handle this. You're so brave and strong. Have a lovely birthday weekend; you know where I am xxx

in reply to emu2016

Aw thanks and very best of luck to you. Back at you here if you need me xxx

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Sez73

Gutted to wake up & read your news, you know where you are now which is no consolation but a tiny step out of that turmoil just waiting and waiting. Sometimes a definitive answer even if it signals the end of something is still preferable than living on a knife edge, but it still totally utterly sucks and I am fed up for you. I hope you can find a little time out to relax and enjoy your birthday, & also breathe in that wonderful Lake District air over the bank hol & find a renewed freshness and spark to take the next step whenever you're ready to. Was keeping everything crossed for you from afar & really feel for you. Let's hope some of those little frosties show you what they're made of when you're ready to go again. Love and hugs & some Sydney sunshine to brighten up your birthday weekend 😘☀️Sxx

in reply to Sez73

Aw thanks and yes it wasn't the outcome we hoped but at least we know now and it's not being dragged on any longer. I have a follow up appointment next week so will see what that brings xxx

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Sez73 in reply to

Well done for keeping going love, proud of you. I hope the follow up proves useful and all the very best when you take the next step forward, you deserve a happy ending x

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sanj76

Your very welcome and we continue to be here for the support... you should be proud to know you got as far as you did, it rage slot of courage a d determination. Me and the wife continue to wish you all the very best with whatever path you take from here on in.

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Ditsy21

Oh Button, I'm so gutted for you. x

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City74

Sorry to hear this Button. x

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72cloud9

Oh Hun, so sorry to hear that 😢Sending u massive hugs xxxx

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lovewinspain

So sorry to know it....sending you hugs....

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tish44

So sorry to hear your news , hope you have a relaxing time in the Lakes, much love. xxx

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TTCs

Ah just seeing this, so sorry. Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts for the next step of your journey. Xx

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Tara2016

Thinking of you! Stay positive hun x

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