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Should of been my due date 😒

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Today should of been our due date the only thing keeping me going is that it's my grandads birthday today , he would of been 83. The thought that they are together is the only bit of comfort I have to know that our baby is not alone. So angry with how life can be so cruel to those that least deserve it so i am going to plant a tree in the garden today as a memorial because even though our baby was never born I will always be a mother. Thinking of you all today that has suffered the pain of losing a baby. πŸ˜˜πŸ’” xx

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Thought are with you Hun, your little baby will be up there with all the angel babies too beautiful for earth. I'm sure your granddad will be looking after him/her. I hope the tree brings you some peace xxx

Massive hugs we weat through the same thing, gave birth in July 4 and he would have been due 1st week in Dec know how hard it is...

Be good to.yourself xx

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at such a difficult time. Lots of love ❀️

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pm27

I find the lead up to what should have been our due date for our identical twins worse than the actual date itself. I planted 2 plants for them after the mc, they are doing really well. A ceremony of some kind however informal or private can help with "closure".

Thinking of you today.

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Thank you for your kind words ladies 😘 pm27 the past week has torture for me my friend has given birth to her beautiful baby boy and I met him on Saturday for cuddles , holding back the tears was so hard when holding him thinking that should be me with my baby 😒 never thought it would be this difficult. So sorry for your loss , glad it helped you to plant 2 plants for your babies I'm hoping that it will help me aswell.. Hidden big hugs lovely we were going through treatment around the same time , hope your as well as you can be 😘 xx

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MommaBear16

Sending so much love to you today, what a beautiful idea planting a tree x x x

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jenny34

Sending so much love your way. Your grandad will be looking after your baby for you. Planting a tree is a lovely idea and you are an amazing and strong mummy. Xxxxxxxx

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Thank you xx

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Tugsgirl

Thinking of you

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Pookymama

Thinking of you daydreamer,

I'm sure your little one is safe in the arms of your granddad and in your quiet most meditative moments you may feel their love shining down to strengthen you when you need it most.

We had a little private funeral when our baby passed.

I like to believe that my little Pooky is up there with my Nan too, and that he'll grow, learn, play and one day we shall be reunited because as you say Daydreamer, we are mother's now.

Luck and love to you at this sad time sweetheart xxx

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daydreamer89β€’ in reply toPookymama

Thank you so much for your kind words Pookymama hope your.ok aswell x

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Smithha

Thinking of you at this hard time xxx What a lovely idea to plant a tree in memory of your baby xxxxx

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