Pretty new to this... but was just wondering if anyone had any experience of going through IVF with step children? My husband has two boys from previous marriage. Then had a vasectomy.. which we had reversed and failed, leaving us with only IVF as an option. I have just finished my first cycle. It failed, and whilst i am trying to remain optimistic, it very difficult. And love the boys as I do, it is a constant reminder of what I cant have. Now im never one to judge but my husband's ex's are vile, and i mean genuinely. Feels like a massive injustice! I know how bad that sounds, but wondered if anyone had any tips to help me through an impossible and emotional situation.