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Done my test today unfortunately it was negative me and my hubby are devastated its a sad sad day :'( not stopped crying

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Sooo sorry to hear this gill after all your treatment. Hope you don't have to work today, so you can just take care of yourselves for the day. Love and hugs. Diane

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Mooster1

So sorry Hun. There are no words for how you are feeling. No one truly understands. Look after yourself. Xxx

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danielledavison

Hi I am sorry to hear this I have too experienced a failed IVF cycle last year, you will get stronger in time it just takes time.. sending my love your way..x

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gill76

Thanks for your kind words we are going to try again next year

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Sooo pleased to hear that gill. You will need time to recover - but you will, and remember that the clinic will have learnt a lot about you during this last cycle, so maybe they can "fine tune" the next one to suit you better. Sending my good wishes and gentle hugs. Diane

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gill76 in reply toDianeArnold

Thanks Diane they've asked me to come in for a follow up appointment to discuss options do you know what they could be

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Flossy85

My bloods were negative today too, it's very upsetting but don't give up hope. We have a appointment end of July to discuss next steps and FET. Sending hugs and wish you luck for the future xx

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gill76 in reply toFlossy85

Thank you wishing you both luck too xx

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crystal2013

I know how you feel so I am sorry to hear this. It is a smack in the face to say the least and you are probably asking yourself a thousand questions such as "was it my fault" and "why didn't it work" or "should I have eaten this" and that but you could ask this forever and ever and you will still feel the same. Just to let you know it is normal what you are thinking and perfectly acceptable given the circumstances. As people have said if you are fortunate enough to have another shot at this then the doctors will discuss the protocol they did last time to what they can do next time and there are loads of different protocols. Take care xx

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Soconfused07

So sorry hope you are both ok xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi gill67. If you can send me your email address - privately, then I will gladly send you a list of questions to ask at the clinic. my email address is dianearnold@infertilitynetworkuk.com

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