The dreaded test day arrived!

[leigh1985]

Unfortunately it was negative, we're absolutely devastated

[MrsMarsh]

Leigh im so so sorry to hear this..... You have managed to have some embryos frozen havent you? Did you have Embryo Glue or scratch with this IVF?

I hope you try again pretty soon? x x x

[danielledavison]

Im so sorry Leigh, i had a top quality Blastocyst transferred and that came back negative for me too. I went through all the reasons which may of caused a negative and for me i found a potential reason, i have fluid in my fallopian tube so having that taken out before the frozen are used. My clinic told me the embryo the embryologist picked just might not of been a strong one or that she may of thought it was the best one at the time. You have some frozen so it may of just been a weaker one so try not to worry and don't give up hope! its only the beginning for you and im sure one of your frozen embryos will be the right one. xx

[LHow81]

So sorry to hear Leigh, I hope you're doing ok. I know it must be hard just try and stay positive if you do have the frozen embryos at least you've not got too long of a wait to try again. Biggest hug xx

[leigh1985]

Thank you for the messages, we've had a good cry today getting our heads round it all!!! But we know we're still really lucky to have 5 more chances and fingers crossed one of those will work

[Hidden in reply to leigh1985]

Fingers crossed for you huni x

[jsth1979]

Really sorry to hear this... After lots of good news recently on here I was sure it would keep going. Like the others I say TRY to look at positives.... It's easy to say but if it's any consolation it's my daily mantra! You've got some more chances too so you need to be healthy and happy ready for those x

[Hidden]

so sorry. make sure you take some time together to emotionally recover. we generallly took a day away somewhere to just take a break from everyday life.

[behappy1]

Sorry it didn't work out on this occasion. Fingers & toes crossed it does on your next try x

[Hidden]

I completely understand how you are feeling now and I'm really sorry about your negative!!, I too recently had what I thought was a negative, which turned out to be incorrect and I actually was and miscarried 2 weeks later which was only picked up by my visit to a and e!! As Danielle said sometimes there are reasons but sometimes there are not, we had a grade 5 day 5 Hatching Blasto transferred and thought wow this is the time and turned out it was but it wasn't!!! The consultant has said it could have been chromosomally abnormal and that a large percentage of embryos are but again it could be something else!!! We too have some top quality embryos in storage so are heading for a FET soon!!!! How soon are you being seen at the hospital?? We were told I had to have 2 cycles before I can return and for my hormones to calm down!! x x

[Somersetgirl]

I have my test day next Thursday!!! Send big hugs your way. Have a good cry and some chocolate and lots of hugs xxx