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I'm so confused and need some advice.

I gave birth to my son 6 months ago concieved through ivf.

Sounds silly but after years of infertility, laparoscopy confirming blocked tubes me and my oh didnt worry about contraception, so finding out I was pregnant on the 9th October came as a huge surprise only for my world to come crashing down the next day at the epu when a scan and bloods confirmed I was having a miscarriage. The only reason I tested was because I was experiencing brown spotting instead of a period which has never happened and all the periods I've had postpartum have been normal and regular.

I passed the baby on the 12th and bled for a week. I started spotting brown discharge yesterday which has got heavier today. I did a pregnancy test this evening and it's still showing a very faint line. I'm so confused as aurly it should be negative now and I'm not even sure if this is a period I'm having. I've never experienced this before and feel so down with it all x

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Hello !

Congratulations on your little miracle!!

Really sorry to hear about miscarriage. I had one in January at 8 weeks following an ivf treatment. Missed miscarriage, I had a pill in order to eliminate everything. The pregnancy test was positive 2 weeks after miscarriage. Don’t worry. It does take some time for hormones to calm down and be back to normal!

Keep everything crossed for you! 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

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Weymouth89 in reply toHope9931

Thank you for your reply.

It's all so confusing and feel completely alone. When I had my son some of my dark feelings of infertility had gone but they have all come rushing back and I cant help but feel it was my fault.

I am so sorry for your loss, I wish you all the luck and baby dust in your journey. Dont give up hope xx

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I had a miscarriage with FET. I was only 5 weeks along and it took almost 4 weeks for my HCG levels to get to negative. My period was very odd afterwards too. I think the body just gets a little out of whack and has to normalize itself from all the hormones. I’m so sorry for your loss.

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Weymouth89 in reply tobrandalina

Thank you for your reply.

I'm so sorry for your loss 💗

I'm beginning to think my mc is incomplete as the bleeding I'm having is very similar to when I first had the mc with lots of clots and stringy bits (sorry for the tmi) still getting the faint positives too. I might speak to the epu and get some advice x

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