Bit of a ramble incoming.
I'm 24 and have had symptoms such as generalised stiffness & aches, back & wrist/knee pain since I was about 8. I noticed in my teen years that my elbows and knees could hyperextend, but did not take major notice of this until I learned of Ehlers - Syndrome & hypermobility as a condition (as opposed to a "'fun' trick that some people can do"). I tried talking to my main GP about these symptoms even before I knew of EDS and such, but continuously got passed off as "normal" gynaecological stuff (also not correct, but that's another story) or me trying to get out of school.
Finally got an appointment with a very good Sister at that GP office, who was immediately receptive to me mentioning EDS and related conditions, especially when I explained my father had some medical history he wouldn't talk about, and my mother & her side of the family have many many (potentially genetic!) health issues which I'm not going to detail here because this post will be long enough as it is. I hadn't been specific with possible conditions when talking to other docs as I already did not trust them, but this Sister I knew I could trust with my life and she'd be more than happy to actually investigate my concerns. She agreed that my symptoms sounded like possible EDS, and immediately referred me to neurology as well as rheumatology, both for basic assessments, and did some other tests such as MRI, blood tests for liver/kidney/thyroid, and endoscopy for stomach/bowel function. This was April of 2019, well before anything could shake up waiting times. She warned me that rheumatology referrals were at 2 years due to a fair number of older folks in my area. From here on I'll refer to the Sister as "my GP", though she was technically only a nurse and not my registered GP.
MRI showed minor lower spinal damage (unhelpfully referred to as "age related"!), GP said this was good to document and started prescribing pregabalin. Neuro appointment came around, they diagnosed me with hypermobility after scoring 5 on the Beigton scale. Neuro said they were happy that no nerve damage was found in the first scan, but ordered a second MRI as my pain had gotten worse despite the pregabalin. Second MRI showed no further issues so neuro referred me to physio and discharged me. I dont remember the exact sequence of events but I did end up having 1 or 2 more MRIs around this time also. I was happy with this so far since it ruled out nerve issues.
Physio was a bit of a waste of time. I was told I was going to a supervised hypermobility specialist clinic at my local hospital, but ended up being given a sheet of paper with exercises that I had already been doing, and after doing some basic balance tests they told me to sit on a rowing machine for 30 minutes unsupervised. I went for 3 or 4 weeks before going back to my GP and saying it wasn't helpful. She referred me to a different physio unit, a more general one nearer to me. This was a disaster. The person I was meant to see wasn't in that day, so they had someone else fill in for him. The replacement was one of their more "holistic medicine" physios. He had the wrong paperwork at first and thought I was another patient, asked my why I "thought" I had hypermobility and then told me not to trust "the pharmacies" on "silly" diagnoses like that because I'm too young to be sick, told me to immediately stop taking my pain killers, stop using my walking stick, take 1500mg of vitamin D (without even looking at my latest bloods nor ordering more), offered me a massage, asked me if I'd be interested in buying their acupuncture sessions, and really, really wanted me to use a TENS machine. The whole experience left me a bit shaken as I was alone and was expecting to get physiotherapy, not whatever that was. (Note: I understand that alternative therapies are helpful for some, but that was not what I was there for, and especially not from someone trying to sell me something while ignoring my symptoms). I denied the massage and TENS machine, to which he said I should give it some thought and come back next week to try those. I said I would consider it, but really I knew I would not go back. I told my GP about this and she made a note since that was absolutely not what she sent me there for. She also had some basic rheumatology bloods sent off to check for rheumatic conditions, but these came back completely negative.
So then I was simply waiting. Waiting for my remaining referrals to tick on through. My GP by this point was very sure that it would be something along the lines of EDS, so she sent off another, different rheumatology referral, specifically asking for EDS assessment. This was some time around mid 2022.
Last week, I finally spoke to a rheumatologist. It wasn't clear if this was for the first (general) referral or the second (EDS-specific) referral, but I presumed the former. I mentioned that I had two referrals open, one for general rheum and one specifically for EDS (I'd hoped this would prompt him to inform me of which this was, but it didn't), and then he began assessing me. He agreed I was hypermobile (this time scoring 4 to 5), said he wants me to have another MRI to check for something rheumatic, and diagnosed me with fibromyalgia. Then he said "I don't think I can assess you under the new EDS guidelines, since they aren't finalised yet. It's a bit messy. I think under the old guidelines you might possibly have been considered for the old EDS Type 3 diagnosis, but that's the old guidelines." ... And that was it. He printed off some information about hypermobility and fibromyalgia and sent me on my way.
This is the reason for my post. What exactly do I do with this information? Was he diagnosing me with EDS under the old EDS Type 3/hypermobile type, or was he saying he wasn't going to diagnose me with it at all? I know that some doctors are hesitant to go with the new guidelines since they're technically not diagnostic guidelines yet, but he didn't specify if he was diagnosing me with the old EDS type 3 either. It's good to know he diagnosed me with fibro, at least that's something, but I feel a bit left in the dark with the specific EDS diagnosis or lack thereof. Is this a case of him waiting for the MRI results before making a solid diagnosis either way? Does he believe that it's not possible to have both fibro and EDS?
Has anyone here had a similar experience, or can give me more insight to what this might actually mean for me going forwards? My online medical records don't currently show any updates from that appointment, so I can't see what he's actually put onto my record just yet.