Nothing important , just a short mild rant.
When I offer my son-in-law or daughter something , maybe a beer or a coke or their daughters something maybe a glass of lemonade or ice water they all respond the same . " I am OK "
My wife says that this means "No thank you" , but I detect a sort of disdain in their voice.
So I decided to not offer anything more to people that are "OK " they don't need anything, so I can now stop buying their favorite beers and things . I don't drink any kind of beer anyway and I was the one who had to make the lemonade so that is a task off my list .