My parents are in late 70 s. mum has been falling for the last few years and her memory is really bad. She gets really frustrated and aggressive with people especially my dad. My poor dad does everything in the house now as mum has decided she cannot walk or look after herself. Last week she was taken to hospital as she fell on a gravel path and fractured her cheekbone and nose. My brother told the hospital staff about everything that has been happening including her being incontinent.
We have tried for the last 2 years to get a doctor to access her as there is definitely something wrong. But she seems to pull the wool over there eyes. I think her being an ex district nurse helps her do this. She is now back home and poor dad is exhausted doing everything as she won't move from bed or couch. My daughter even spoke to her gp but she said until they admit there is a problem there's nothing they can do.
I have 17 medical conditions and on oxygen 24/7 and my brother is recovering from a heart attack so we cannot give a lot of help.
Can anyone suggest what we should do next as we are desperate.