hi all, my SO drinks minimum of 45 units per week, sometimes 60.
Gets up for work bright as a button, if he goes two days without booze he's quite nasty and won't eat because each food group needs to "have a beer with it".
He won't listen to reason, thinks I am nagging, constantly promising to cut back and not drink during the week but always does.
I've asked the GP for help but he won't go to appointments. He has a distended stomach when drinking alcohol, diabetes and a graze on his heel for over a year that hasn't healed up.
We both did at home urine tests because I was interested in whether they would pick anything up and he has high 'large BLO' (blood in urine) and high "specific gravity".
He's not in any pain. I am of course worried and not sure what else I can do apart from moan on, just feels like I'm banging my head against a brick wall.
Any advice welcome
x