After 6 weeks, hubby was released from the hospital yesterday, which is great, but....
Due to medications he is on, he has no bowel control and very little bladder control. Whilst in hospital he was kept in adult nappies but they haven't provided any to him. This is affecting both of us mentally. I bought some Tena Men but they just aren't enough. I don't know who to turn to to get some hospital style ones for him.
During the 6 weeks, he was kept pretty much in bed due to a couple of falls in the first week, but given no physio therapy and is now home struggling to get up the stairs to the bathroom, so even if he knows he has to go, the chances of getting there in time are slim to none.
We don't have a walk in shower, only a bath and i don't have the strength to lift him in or out of it and with the bowel issue, he needs regular bathing.
We had actually been into the hospital to see him on Sunday and talking to the duty doctor who said minimum of 4-6 weeks before discharge and a home assessment would be done before he could be released and 48 hours later i get a call to say that patient transport had just picked him up and could someone be at home to receive him.
I thought i had found all of his secret stash while he was in hospital, but when i went to have a bath, leaving him on the sofa with our 9 year old, he made it to the kitchen and found a bottle of vodka i had missed and poured a drink. He had been home less than 5 hours and i know he was told that he had a decompensated liver and that it would kill if if he drank but he did it anyway.
I have been given no care plan, I have no family nearby and I can't get anymore time from work...I just don't know what my first step is...would really appreciate a direction if anyone has one, please