Please tell me that someone understands this feeling 🤔🥺🥺🙄🙏💜🌻💕

[Charlie-legs]

Just when you think that you have been through each emotion there ìs, a whole different bunch of things are in my head.

I feel terribly lost in a fog of what if's, and the thing that gets to me is I am for one driving myself crazy and my mate has moved away, all loved up with a new man. I'm in limbo Land and I don't like it very much.

My poor other half keeps getting snapped at. Do you know this??

Miche

[oap74]

Try talking to your partner and explain your feelings and then try to compromise to suit you both. I did this with my wife of 53 years. I have cut down on my drinking but still have a drink. Which we both accept. My wife does not drink at all. We are both happy with this solution as we know we want live for ever. All the best

[Ewife]

Do I remember seeing that you are being assessed for transplant?Transplant whether you end up having g it or not, is a horrendous journey of emotions. We have been going through it with my husband - sometimes my brain doesn't know how to feel - such conflict of worry, hope, despair, dread, every kind of emotion fighting for space in there.

Be kind to yourself, and to your partner. Recognise that it's just a difficult part of the journey....

Atb

Ewife

[Cat-B]

Oh dear, try to focus on small achievements. When my brain goes into overdrive, I sing to myself ( my dog hides if I try to sing out load lol) my brain then has to focus on trying to remember the words. I hope that might help you. Good luck

[BritishLiverTrust5 Moderator British Liver Trust]

Dear Charlie-legs

If you are in the UK and would find it useful to talk things over, our nurse-led helpline is open Monday to Friday from 10am to 3pm on 0800 652 7330 (excluding bank holidays)

Best wishes

British Liver Trust

[Readlots]

I know that feeling. You feel like you’re on a rollercoaster and you just want to get off. Yoga and meditation helped me - but that was pre Covid. Just having to concentrate on something as simple as breathing in and out. Then a cup of coffee and a good crime novel would distract me for a while.