Hi I’m new to this site and struggling to cop e emotionally .My husband was diagnosed with decompensated liver disease in September following a massive osophagol bleed which left him in hospital for a month and icu for 5 days he has added complications he is type 2 diabetic and has peripheral arterial disease and neuropathy in his feet. He suffered encephalopathy following the bleed which was the scariest thing I have ever experienced. He doesn’t remember any of this and he thinks I make things up, his mobility is now poor and he seems to have no interest in anything. The hospital told me if he starts drinking he will die, I have tried everything taken him to counselling etc but I know he drinks every time I go out. I just don’t have the energy to confront him anymore it’s so exhausting I am holding down a full time job but I just can’t watch him all the time but feel like I am letting him down, any advice is greatly appreciated. He has always been a heavy drinker and I have tried numerous times to get him to stop. He is not drinking excessive amounts but the doctors have told us both that he shouldn’t drink anything at all.