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Hubby is now off sedation and starting to wake. He opened his eyes when he heard my voice and focused on me. I held his hand and he squeezed it without being asked. Every time I told him I loved him, he squeezed my hand again, and I said yes I know you love me.He was coughing a bit with the infection and his BP shot up, but they've now put him on intravenous BP meds. Obviously he's not fully awake yet, and he can't speak because of the tracheotomy, but he's on his way back to us. Hoping it will be a small improvement daily.

Thanking you all for your comments, support and prayers. Will still update as we go xx ❤️

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Looking_4_support

Great news, hope it continues and he is soon better, take care of you both.

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Maisywhippet in reply toLooking_4_support

Fantastic news,..he’s on the road upwards🙂

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BeKind28-

Hello :-)

The best Valentines present your Husband will ever give you I have tears in my eyes as I reply this is the post we have all been waiting for and I know you must be elated and I think I can speak for so many on here that we are to this is just the best news ever !!!!

He sounds like he is on his way back now and what we all wanted to hear and the love you have just shines out from your posts and the reaction your Husband had towards you today when you visited him shows even ill what love he has for you to what a perfect day to have had that moment under these circumstances :-)

Have a little celebration tonight something nice ( not sandwiches and soup though :-) )

Thank you so much for this update

I will still keep praying for many more to come which I will look forward to :-) x

in reply toBeKind28-

We don't do valentine's day as our anniversary is at the end of February, but we may start now x❤️

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BeKind28- in reply to

Hello :-)

I think there would be every good reason to start doing it now as what has happened today is something you can both look back on Valentine's Day was the day he started to come back to you :-) x

Cat04 profile image
Cat04

So pleased to hear this really good news and what a special Valentines gift for you. He's turned the corner and the only way now is up. ❤️ xx

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weepip

It has made my day to hear such good news that he is on his way back to you. I hope that he continue to improve in time for your wedding anniversary x

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meadfoot

Thats great news.

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Tos92

This really is such a lovely post! The wait for him to come back to you will be so worth it and you will appreciate each other even more than you already do.

Keep going strong.

Tos x

What wonderful news especially on Valentine's Day xx❤️❤️

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Comfycousin1

This is such great news! I'm so pleased for you xxx

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Mydog8it

Phew...... at last, he's heading in the right direction now.

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Rosie1066

I’m so pleased for you having been in the same situation with my husband I know exactly how you feel.

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Antoinette48

what wonderful news! We are all rooting and praying for him.xx

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Afibflipper

Brilliant, I’m so pleased for you & him & your sons! Yes please keep us updated xx

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Rhinos67

I'm so pleased to read this. Sending you both love and cuntinuef prayers and positive vibes x

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Topper60

Great News.

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Valentina98

So happy to read this. My prayers are with you ❤️🙏❤️

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WeeHoolet

This is heart-warming news, Castleview. It's wonderful that hubby is responding to you in such a loving way 🤝

May each day bring continued improvement. You are a beacon of love and hope 🔥 and your hubby is a fighter🥊

Take care

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pauljusa

A real red letter Valentine's day! Outstanding news! I'm sure that you and your family will be feeling much better, and I know that all your followers here, are cheering you and your hubby on, as you approach that bright light at the end of this dark tunnel. 🙂

Amazing news, so so happy for you ❤️❤️❤️

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Rosieapple72

That is fantastic news! I am so pleased for you and your family. Been thinking about you every day and sending you my best wishes. Tell your hubby to stay strong and that it will take more than this to beat him!

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Ninjacat

oh how wonderful what fabulous news. Xx

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Weetabixie

I've got a smile on my face and tears in my eyes reading this and the lovely replies. I'm so happy to hear this and thank you for posting and letting us all know. Happy Valentines Day to you both 🌹🌹🤗xx

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Lovedogs1

That’s wonderful news, Thank you for posting.

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Haggishead

just read the good news! I’m so happy for you, you’ll sleep better tonight!! Love and hugs coming your way!!!xx

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Yumz199725

Aww this is a brilliant improvement x thanks for sharing and keeping us updated ❤️🥰

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andrea_waffle7

Onwards and upwards now. 🙏🏼 I bet you can’t wait to have a proper chat and massive hug. Not long now. Xx

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Traveldreams

fantastic! The date you’ll remember. Enjoy the good news xx

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Stent2024

I’m so pleased for you . Hopefully onwards and upwards now . Please keep your updates going

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Dyllibobs

Ah that's the best news! You must be so relieved (I know we are 🥰) looking forward to more positive updates. Sending love to you all xx

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Shiney1959

I am so pleased & relieved for you. What great news. Thinking of you both 🙏 xx

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Juke77

So good to hear.

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LSCE

Fabulous news x

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Blueberrylover

so glad he is on the mend xx

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OldaYoda

so pleased to read this, let’s hope he is so much better for our shared silver day that you can enjoy the day

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Buddy00

I’m so pleased that it’s positive news. What a stressful time for you and your family. Sending best wishes.

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Plastow48

What wonderful news. Hope he improves every day now. Even more important to look after yourself now.Hugs and prayers.

Jenny

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Seal59

I’m so pleased for you. I know everyone in the group has been waiting to hear some good news for you. I hope now things keep moving forward, even if at a slow and steady pace. I had to smile when I read your reply to BeKind about Valentines Day. I always say we don’t do Valentines but do our Anniversary.

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Larneybuds

It's not always a textbook recovery!! So pleased to hear this and am really hoping this is now the turning point. Sounds like the meds are getting the infection under control more and he's on his way back. Fantastic xx

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Oldknees

Brilliant love to you both ❤️

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Okash

Best of wishes for a speedy recovery.

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Wilfy28

Absolutely briliiant, so pleased to see this post. We've all been rooting fir you both. All the best x

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Noodlesalad

Wonderful news and prayers answered, thank you for keeping is updated xx

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gorillaqueen

Fantastic news what we have all been praying for and waiting to hear. Hope he continues to make improvements daily and you have a wonderful anniversary on the 27th. Take care of yourself in this very traumatic time ❤️🤗😊

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benjijen

I'm so pleased for you. Positive steps each day. Xx

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Catwifie

That's fantastic news! He just needed a big lie in after the assault of surgery! Onwards and upwards!! 😁

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ETHEL103

Excellent news.

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Brynsiriol

I was so pleased to read your post this morning 😊 I’ve been waiting for good news and here it is !

Take Care xx

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Bishop1

Great news for you and your familyTake care

Prayers and hugs for you all and Dr,s and Nurseslooking after him

Thanks for updates x x x

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Valencia48

so so happy for you and hubby. Made my day

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Suzyh

Great news

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Furryears

Aaah this is good news thank you for sharing this is what we have been waiting for, the squeeze of the hand ( made me fill up ) I think most of us can relate to what you are saying the feeling you get when you turn a corner.

Onwards and upwards keep us posted

The best Valentine's gift ever ♥️

in reply toFurryears

I know, the tears I've shed the last couple of weeks, and the squeezing hands and looking at me, made me cry happy tears ❤️

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WoodlandLover in reply to

Yes, full on happy tears for you, from me now, and from lots of others. We're so so thrilled 😍 💓

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Purpled

Wow, such fabulous news. My sister in law went through exactly the same and was kept in an induced coma for a month. I think the tracheostomy was one of the scariest parts. This was over seven years ago now the mental scars when she got home took longer to heal than the physical wounds but she got there x.

in reply toPurpled

Great news for your sister in law x

Purpled profile image
Purpled in reply to

Yes it was a very bumpy ride and I still marvel at her recovery everytime I see her you would just never know. Hope it is not much longer now for your husband x

in reply toPurpled

Dr said today that he'll probably have around a week left in ICU, then go to PCU which is a ward before a normal ward, fingers crossed.

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BEATbump

That is great to hear. I hope his progress slowly continues. What good news to read this morning. All my best wishes to you all and strength to your husband to continue healing. 🤗

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WoodlandLover

This is emotional in all the best ways, it has filled my heart with joy for you and for him and is fantastic news. Sharing in all your feelings, and going on praying and rooting for you both. 🙏❤️‍🩹💞💫

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Carercmb

Absolutely fabulous news. Takes time for the body to recover.

Try and look after yourself as it takes it out of you mentally and physically watching loved ones struggle.

Hugs all round xx

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Fairenuff

just fantastic 💕

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JeremiahObadiah

That sounds like positive and happy news. Really hoping he now has a smooth journey to full recovery-you’ve both been through the Mill in your different ways, so you could certainly do with some calm now.

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Jeanvaljean24601

wonderful news. You are both an inspiration

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Plum53

How lovely to know he is responding now, what a lovely valentines gift. Hopefully the worst is behind him and he is now on the mend. Sending you love and a big hug xx

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Avagra

Great news time is irrelevant so long as he gets 100% wishing you both well

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Wooodsie

That really IS good news 😀. Great to hear and let's hope the improvement is quick. Before you know it, he'll be at home doing what he's told to do again 🤣🤣👏👏👏

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JMV100

Wonderful news. Who could ask for a better example of love on Valentine's Day. Big hugs.

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Sooz34

Such wonderful news after all you've both been through and still are. Keep going even though you must be physically and mentally exhausted x

so pleased ❤️

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Digger0

Wow, what a Valentines Day gift! Brilliant news! I hope you will tell hime that we are all behind him.

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Bingo88

Oh I am so pleased for you both. That he is showing signs of recovery. I hope he has improved again for the next time you go. You must be so relieved. Take care. Brian

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Sunnysummerdays

Great news 🌞

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cappachina

That's wonderful news I hope that today will bring more improvement

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Cavalierrubie

👍 Onwards and upwards. Wonderful news and such a big relief for you. xxx

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Digger0

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in reply toDigger0

We don't have transport, it's a mixture of taxis and the bus, but thank you

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Digger0 in reply to

For enough - is there a local volunteer driving service at the hospital that you could maybe used sometimes?

in reply toDigger0

Sadly it's not a local hospital to us, I'm fine honestly, I rest on the bus x

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Cat04 in reply to

Have you asked about voluntary community drivers? The hospital should be able to advise or contact PALS.

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Catkin-blake

what fabulous news, on valentine day as well. Here’s hoping now for slow stead progress. x

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Nannysue1

That is indeed a lovely Valentine's update. Sending big hugs your way. Sue ❤

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buddy2blue

I’m so pleased to read this post. Xxxx

That's good going from both of you, so good to hear, I'm sure he actually hung it out until Valentines day just to make it special !!!!!

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Carsry

Brilliant news, take care and please update us when you can xx

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Blearyeyed

That's such great news. You have both been in my thoughts all week , what a fantastic Valentine's Day gift, take care , Bee

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Holidayescape

Great news. Onwards and upwards.

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Dempo

Lovely post! In tears here! 💛

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Elsabounre

That is so good to hear...we all keep him in our prayers and wish you both continued recovery..

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maggie80

Hi, it's absolutely wonderful to hear about your hubby. So chuffed for you.

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wardywill

wow good to hear,I feel like I’ve been living it with you.You touched a lot of people

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Fem51uk

What a lovely Valentine’s Day moment to share with your husband. Onwards and upwards from here wishing him a full recovery and hoping you can relax a little now after the past few weeks ❤️

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Woodywoo36

Thats great and positive news! I'll keep praying for improvements. Xxx

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Kazzie68

Fab news ❤️ x

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lizzieloo2

So glad to hear he is on the mend. Onwards and upwards!

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Gillph

what a lovely update to read! Thank goodness things are looking up as it’s been a long old haul for you.

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2wheeler

Great news whoop, however keep looking after yourself he needs you more than ever now

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Snoogs

… prayers for both of you and his continued improvement. How uplifting this is for everyone!!

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Handel

Hello Castleview. That's really good news and he'll improve every day now. I think hubby just needed those extra days to recover. You can explain why he's got that weird tube in his throat! Best Valentine's Day gift you'll ever get. Always thinking of you and lovely hubby.

Lots of love and hugs. Jan xxxxx

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Callie456

That's wonderful to hear, I'm so happy for you and glad we are all here to support you and celebrate these improvements!

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Dillon1

👍😊

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Qualipop

That's wonderful news. Slow but steady.

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valspia

This is the most wonderful news!!

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CalvinHb

Great news!

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Greenthorn

That's a lovely read and it shows that love and appreciation of each other is also part of the healing process.

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Regeton

Fantastic news.

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MWIC

great to hear 👍👍👍

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TonyBen

What a relief it is when they start to wake up, although my hubby struggled to separate fact from fantasy for several days after, but by playing a fun game of true or false we established no, he wasn't in Japan, no that isn't a fancy coffee shop in the corner of ICU, and so on..Delighted for you that your hubby is finally coming around.

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Wanderinglady

I’m really pleased to read this, you must be so relieved.

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isobelhannah18

That's really good news. Look after yourself.

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Chickenlou

Brilliant news - I am genuinely REALLY happy for you both 😊

So glad he’s showing signs of improvement and I can imagine just how much that hand squeeze meant! Xx

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Edenowl

That’s the best news. I’m so pleased. You must be very relieved. Slowly he will be getting better now. 💛xx

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SCCDL

What a wonderful Valentine's gift!❤️

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