Goodbye

[Valentina98]

Hey Everyone

Hope you are all well.

I'm not doing so well.

Just popping on to say goodbye, thanks for all the help, advice and support you've given me over the last year or so

V x

[kenster1]

Hi not long joined this forum but been here years sorry to hear things aren`t great hopefully nothing serious.

[Yumz199725]

Ahhh no what's happened hun I'm so sorry to hear 💔😣. Please don't leave 💔😞. Can I atleast stay on contact with you? Do you have Instagram or Facebook maybe? Obviously do what's best for you but will miss you 💔xx

[Digger0]

Oh no, what's up? DM sent

[Tos92]

I’m sorry to hear you’re not doing too well Valentina. I hope to stay in contact with you when you feel up to it on the other forum hopefully, but you do seem like you have made your mind up about this one. Remember we do worry about you so try and keep us updated when you can. You will be missed ❤️

Tos x

[Thanksnhs in reply to Tos92]

Hi what site is the other forum on thanks

[Cavalierrubie]

I don’t know you as well as everyone, but l felt very sad when l read your post. What has happened V? Are you ok? You sound very down and l just want to wish you well and to say that you will be missed on here by all your friends. I hope this is a temporary hiccup and that you will be back soon. Love and prayers.

[Heyjude31]

I am so sorry V, please when you feel better please let us know how you are ❤️

[Hidden]

Please keep in touch and wish you well ❤️

[Deejay62]

Hi V sorry to hear you’re not doing too well. Take a break if you feel that’s what you need. I will pop in on the other site to make sure you’re ok. I also check on A sometimes and others. I find it hard working round it but I do try. You know how you’re feeling, but many here will miss you and your input Miss. All the best x

[Anon2023]

Hi V. I haven’t been on either forum for a while as I’ve been a bit preoccupied. I’ve just seen your post though and hope that you are ok. I’m sorry to hear that things haven’t been so good. If you feel able to, let me know how you are getting on from time to time. Lots of hugs, xx

[Rhinos67]

Hi Valentina

I rarely post on here now but I check every day in case I can help anyone as others have done for me.

I always think about you, as you've been through so much.

So sorry to hear that things aren't going well for you and I hope that you are getting some support.

Sending you love and positive thoughts and hope to see another post from you soon to say that you are sticking around and that things have improved.

Joanne

x

[MummaSoap]

Hi V

Sorry to hear you’re not doing too well at the moment. Just wanted to say it’s ok to struggle and you’re not alone!

You’ve been through so much and I really do find you inspiring. I hope that you’re talking to someone, your mum maybe?

Anyway, I hope you know that there will always be a safe space for you here and my inbox is always open 🤗🤗

I will miss you; take care of yourself lovely.

Best wishes

Soap 🧼 x x

[Bingo88]

So sorry to hear you are thinking about leaving Valentina 98. You have some very good friends and support in this group and hopefully you will have a change of mind and stay in the group. Brian

[Millbrook]

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Hugs

[Snowdrops_17 in reply to Millbrook]

That was so encouraging and beautiful Millbrook 🙏❤️ Thank you for this 🫂

[Jackabee]

we will miss you Valentina. Do what is best for you but remember that we are here for you.

[fairyfeathers]

Gentle hugs and love xx

[Gumbie_Cat]

I’m so sorry to hear that you’re not doing well. I’m missing quite a few people who used to be on here - just realised recently that quite a few have disappeared. (Have forgotten /lost the web page for the other forum.)

Look after yourself x

[Jerrahem]

hi though I am really new here. I am very sorry to hear that hopefully things going to be ok. You will be missed

[Snowdrops_17]

You are still young and also teaching! Really pray you will recover to full health! Maybe step back from running Less running! You might pushed yourself too hard 👌 Built up your stamina slowly! You will get there 👌🙏🥰 wish you all the best for your future Valentina 👌🙏🥰

[Coper10]

V, I am sorry to hear things aren't going well. After all you've been through, and the strength and resilience you have shown, I hope that taking some time for yourself will help you cope with whatever you are going through currently. Our body and mind seems to have a way of letting us now when we need to let up a bit and look after number 1. You will be very missed but I send you all good wishes and hugs, and hope your situation improves 🤗.

[andrea_waffle7]

🥰 Sending all my love to you. You take care of yourself xx

[GeorgeGlass]

my prayers for you. Jesus loves you

[Callie456]

Thinking of you 💖

[Furryears]

Hi V98 I read posts every day and rarely comment, I wish you all the best, always here if you need a chat, I am sorry you are not doing so well, take care x

[Airlie37]

Hello Valentina I haven't posted in a while but always read what's been written....I'm sorry to hear things are not good for you and that you are leaving the forum,as people before me have said we are always here for you,whatever is happening you are not alone.Take care

Ali xx

[Laurensophie]

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[JeremiahObadiah]

I’m sad to see a Goodbye heading and to hear that you are not doing well.

Whilst I don’t contribute much on these forums, I do read and think about people and their messages. I was hoping that your life had returned to a more normal one for you. It seems otherwise.

Sending you (and your mum) lots of love and best wishes . I’ll keep thinking of you. Xx

[Blueflags]

Good morning V, I don’t post regularly on this site, but on reading your latest post, just felt that I would like to say this! There are a lot of people who have replied to you on hearing your news, and it seems that they have had conversations with you in the past and we all care for each other. I respect your decision to leave, for whatever reason, but please re-think it. I find this site invaluable as there has been times when I have just needed a pep talk with other people who truly understand what we’re all going through. I really hope you’re getting better and wish you well. 🥰🥰

[Heartfairy]

Hello Valentina, I too, like a few people have said, don’t comment as much but look at posts and reply when I feel I can help, but your posts were some of the first I read last year when I joined the forum. You are so young to have gone through so much but if you must say goodbye for now then you do what you have to do for you. I wish you well and I’m sending you lots of love. Be brave and have courage with whatever life throws at you. Missing you already ❤️🧚🏼‍♀️ xx

[Jetcat in reply to Heartfairy]

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[benjijen]

Why do you feel you need to leave the forum? It's a good place for support when you need it especially if you're not doing so well at the moment. Please stay and give it a bit longer. Xx

[Insert]

Hi V remember everyone on this site has insight into things you’re going through and do understand, no need to feel alone. Take care xxx

[Blearyeyed]

Hi, Valentina ,If you see this could you send me a quick PM and let me know how things went yesterday. Here to support you but also will be a bit worried if I don't get any word , wherever you want to leave it.

Please keep in contact with people, especially when you are feeling so bad , as that's the time you need the most support and we are all willing to give it to you in whichever way you need it. Hugs , Bee

[TAVIshock]

You are probably pessimistic, but, in any case, glad this forum has helped and all good wishes an appreciation of your company

very best

Tavishock

[OpenMind1]

Vakentina Im, so,so sorry to hear you're having such a difficult time. If this forum doesn't feel like a helpful place right now please reach out for help elsewhere if you need. You're precious and deserve to be happy despite what life's throwing at you. Xx

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[Ticktick]

Take care lovely You are in my thoughts and prayers

[BeKind28-]

Hello V

Nearly missed this post as it has been such a long time since seeing you on here and I really thought you were getting support elsewhere and would be coping so sorry that you are feeling in a bad place when reading this

Some have heart events and seem to sail through it others the journey as we say is not as smooth I am in the latter as I feel you maybe to even though obviously I am not sure where you are at the moment and what is making you feel this way

Never give up even though I know this can be a hard thing to keep doing

Hold on to your Mum as much as she might drive you mad at times she will always be your best friend the one that has your back so to speak

Maybe leave your account on here log out , don't use it but if ever you need to in the future you can come back to it but if you feel enough is enough and that will not be needed and you delete your account as you are saying you are going to do then I wish you all the best and even if you have lost faith things will get better I have faith eventually they will for you as for all of us that are struggling

Stay strong not easy but you can do it I know you can x

[Thanksnhs]

Hi I am so sorry you are not feeling so good at the. I am thinking about you and hoping you will be in a better place soon and come back to us. Take care char xx

[Danceawaytheblues]

Sending you gentle hugs and lots of love. Marianne. xxx

[Loveheart123]

Take a break .. stay strong .. luv and hugs

[Elsabounre]

Just would like to wish you God's choicest blessings..you are so young...keep up the fight...all the best.

[Cymrucurious]

You are what matters most V Hope you can put in practice all the things you've learned about how your body ticks

Take best care ... sending lots of love from blustery snowdonia

[Classof1988]

Valentina, have always watched your progress, your struggles, your sense of humour about your rapport with your mum. Hadn't seen you post for a while so wondered how you were doing. At the end of the day, it is your decision but I hope you can see by the responses that you will be very much missed on this forum and that you have been a source of inspiration to us all. May God bless you, give you strength and peace, and see you through whatever struggles you may be having.

[Malcvtr]

Bless you. I hope things improve for you soon. Good luck

[GosportNancy29]

Hi there. I don't think we have met on here. I think I would come on here and say goodbye too and hope that anyone who knows me reads it. My family are in another county and as my son has major health issues himself he doesn't see me regularly.

Wishing you well on your next stage in your life journey xxx

[Shabana1974]

I hope you feel better soon

[Weetabixie]

Sorry to see you are not so good right now and I know I'm relatively new here and I haven't seen your posts before but I just want to say I hope you will be ok and wish you all the best. Please take care and good luck to you Valentina98 🤞

[MaggieSylvie]

Hi Valentina, I'm so sorry and surprised at your "goodbye". You were always so helpful to others, and, as you can see, you have many friends and followers who will miss you. I hope that you will come back after a break. It must be very hard being a teacher and not being well at the same time (I hope your employers are treating you well). I don't know whether you will see any of these messages, but in the hope that you will, I just wish you well taking some time to give yourself lots of self help and getting yourself on the track to health and wellness.🤗🤗🤗

[1234_6]

Love & Prayers for both your mental & physical health & for peace of mind to cope with all that life continues to throw at you Valentina. Thank you for sharing daily knowledge with us all & for sharing your story too. God bless you.

[RailRover]

Hi Valentina. Just a thought. I note that in your previous post to this that you had been put on medication for blood pressure. I know from experience that this can make you feel like absolute crap. Can make you lightheaded, dizzy, and nauseous among other things. If you are feeling poorly and hopeless, I just wonder if it could have anything to do with this. Discuss with your medics regarding adjusting the dose or changing the drug. It can make a difference. In the end I didn't get along with beta blockers at all, and I came off them.

[cappachina]

Dear Valentina I am so sorry things aren't going well for you Please try to update us all when you feel able to

[Jackiesmith7777]

Hope your ok x

[ETHEL103]

Just wondering why your leaving .You have had such a lot of support .

[Valentina98]

Not leaving the group.

[BeKind28- in reply to Valentina98]

V you are confusing me which is not hard you said Goodbye but glad you are not leaving

If it would help start talking to us I hold everything in and I know I make it worse so don't be as daft as I am get everything out that is bothering you x

[Valentina98 in reply to BeKind28-]

I'll PM you and try and explain. I have posted what happened but you have to read through the lines

[BeKind28- in reply to Valentina98]

Hello V

Me read through the lines I have all on reading a straight forward line I missed it totally but got your message and have replied x

[Cazbo27]

How are you doing today? I’m sure I’m not the only one wondering how you are. Stay strong x

[Miyuki2023]

This is my first time of adding my thoughts, but I have been reading everyone's comments since early June 2023 just after having a heart attack and two stents fitted. I have been having investigations on my back for a long time and just after the heart attack I learned that I have Cauda Equine syndrome and cannot have an operation to relieve the pressure in my spine on the nerves that serve my hips, legs and feet. So taking much pain relief and struggling on a daily basis and hoping not to end up with permanent paralysis. But reading all the messages sent to you, Valentina98, but not knowing you either, I feel you have been very beneficial in your communication with others and you will be very dearly missed in this forum. With tears in my eyes and feeling the need to hold back at the same time, I wish you well. Miyuki23!