I'm sorry if I upset/annoyed anyone yesterday with my post.
I was tired and stressed. I do love my Mum, we have a difficult relationship but I love her even though she drives me crazy, I was closet to my Dad and I miss him loads. I know I'd soon be moaning about missing her if anything happened to her.
I am very grateful for all the messages I got reminding me I was lucky to have her.
We did share the double bed, and she moaned about my snoring 😂
I'm not going to post on here for the next week or two. I'm just going to relax and enjoy the sunshine and not worry about my health.
V x
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I moved in with my Mum when my Dad went into a home. She was 90 and drove me crazy 🤪. Quite often I would come home and find her false teeth on the work surface where I was going to be preparing Dinner. She never wore her hearing aid so we used to have amazing conversations where she mis heard things. I had to explain things to her like the meaning of "dogging" as per a Peter Kay series.
I would give anything to have those times back. I still ask her advice about stuff but she has been gone for 7 years.
Oh and she passed away on my 60th birthday , not out of spite but because she wanted to stay alive long enough to help me celebrate.
reading all your replies nobody was upset. Come back stronger and not overthinking ( I do this and cause myself stress) great opportunity to relax .🥳🌞😎
It was that one person who took offence about me posting about me complaining about my Mum. I know I shouldn't have let them get to me. But they upset me.
I know your reply was not for me but I understand it can only take one person to upset us and I am very sensitive but something I am still learning to do is when one person upsets me then look at all the others that have supported me and then I have to say does that one person really matter ?
Now I hope you are in Spain now and having a lovely time forget that one comment and focus on all the supportive comments and smile x
.My mum lived with me at one point and looking back I wish I had let a lot go over my head. I would give anything to give her a hug now and tell her I understand.
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