Thank you

[Valentina98]

Hey Everyone

I'm sorry if I upset/annoyed anyone yesterday with my post.

I was tired and stressed. I do love my Mum, we have a difficult relationship but I love her even though she drives me crazy, I was closet to my Dad and I miss him loads. I know I'd soon be moaning about missing her if anything happened to her.

I am very grateful for all the messages I got reminding me I was lucky to have her.

We did share the double bed, and she moaned about my snoring 😂

I'm not going to post on here for the next week or two. I'm just going to relax and enjoy the sunshine and not worry about my health.

V  x

[Hidden]

that’s a good approach, enjoys yourself.

[Heather1957]

As already posted, no need to apologise, on a forum you will get all sorts of opinions.

As long as the posts are not personal and insulting I am afraid you have to be prepared for anything.

As I posted on your other thread, I have holidayed with my mum several times and she could drive me crazy.

My mother is 90 and still drives me mad on occasions but my goodness I don't even want to think of a time when she isn't still here.

Just chill on your holiday and leave us behind!! LOL

[Heyjude31]

please no need to apologise, concentrate on enjoying and relaxing. Take good care xx

[ParrotLover22]

Have a great time

[Hidden]

Hello

I did not even know you had upset anyone to be honest

Whoops so Mum had a reason to moan then sounds like you must have slept ok after all

You just go and enjoy yourself now and have a lovely time x

[Anon2023]

I wasn’t aware that anything you said upset anybody. Don’t worry about it, just focus on having a good time and your recovery. X

[devonian186]

You would have to be a hyper sensitive person to be upset by your comments. It is good to see other perspectives

[Becksagogo]

I moved in with my Mum when my Dad went into a home. She was 90 and drove me crazy 🤪. Quite often I would come home and find her false teeth on the work surface where I was going to be preparing Dinner. She never wore her hearing aid so we used to have amazing conversations where she mis heard things. I had to explain things to her like the meaning of "dogging" as per a Peter Kay series.

I would give anything to have those times back. I still ask her advice about stuff but she has been gone for 7 years.

Oh and she passed away on my 60th birthday , not out of spite but because she wanted to stay alive long enough to help me celebrate.

love you Mum

[Patty2486]

Have a great holiday. 😊

We are all allowed to moan about our families- it’s human nature. Doesn’t mean we don’t love them any less ❤️

[gorillaqueen]

Hi we’re all entitled to a rant now and then. Relax and enjoy your holiday X.

[LindyMc]

Saying hard things out loud can be very positive for stress levels. Thank you so much for trusting us enough to share your experiences.

[Carercmb]

reading all your replies nobody was upset. Come back stronger and not overthinking ( I do this and cause myself stress) great opportunity to relax .🥳🌞😎

[Valentina98 in reply to Carercmb]

It was that one person who took offence about me posting about me complaining about my Mum. I know I shouldn't have let them get to me. But they upset me.

[Hidden in reply to Valentina98]

Hello

I know your reply was not for me but I understand it can only take one person to upset us and I am very sensitive but something I am still learning to do is when one person upsets me then look at all the others that have supported me and then I have to say does that one person really matter ?

Now I hope you are in Spain now and having a lovely time forget that one comment and focus on all the supportive comments and smile x

[Valentina98 in reply to Hidden]

Hey

I know I shouldn't have focused one that one person. Kind of why the title was thank you as it was a thank you for all the positive comment

Yes I'm in Spain, sunbathing (sorry)

V x

[Hidden in reply to Valentina98]

Hello

You are human and that is what we sometimes do

O go on now show of sunbathing while it is throwing it down with rain here

I bet it is beautiful enjoy x

[Digger0]

Ah, so you got your own back by snoring! Excellent 😀 Have a great holiday!

[Carercmb]

We all can have a moan ,don’t let it get to you.

.My mum lived with me at one point and looking back I wish I had let a lot go over my head. I would give anything to give her a hug now and tell her I understand.

[Thanksnhs]

have fun and enjoy your holiday

[Handel]

Have a brilliant and restful time (and there's no need to apologise at all)!!! xxxx

[Paula233]

have a lovely time snd relax