I'm a 16 year old female and I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend approx 2 weeks ago (5th March, it is now the 20th). We used protection (condoms), but I'm still worried that I might be pregnant. I simply can not be pregnant, I do not want to go in my mother's footsteps and stop my education due to pregnancy - or anything like that. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting as I do have anxiety and tend to overthink a lot.
But in the past day or two I have been getting headaches and started to urinate more often. Previously I would only urinate 1-3 times per day so not that much, and now I feel like urinating every 1-3 hours. I haven't had a headache today but did have one yesterday. I just don't know, it's quite a big thing for me and I made sure we had protection because I can not risk anything.
I regret it now because I might just be worrying for nothing. Is it normal to worry like this after losing your virginity? Should I buy a pregnancy test? My last period was on the 28th Feb and ended 5th March, so if it is worth to take the test when is the earliest i can take it for reliavle results? I really would not want my parents to find out, I'm sure she would be supportive but I'm scared she will not allow me to see my boyfriend again. I'd just prefer her not to know.
Again, I'm 16 and I have my A-levels and university ahead of me. If, in the unfortunate case of pregnancy would I be able to get an abortion without my parents knowing? I feel so embarassed for asking, and very ashamed of myself - it's probably best to take extra precautions before having intercourse but we only used a condom. I feel terrible and I'm praying that I'm not pregnant as I feel like I'm not physically nor mentally prepared for it. I want to have kids at the age of 24-30, not 16! I feel so silly, and really want to be sure I am not pregnant but feel like taking the pregnancy test would be too early now.
Thank you in advance for any answers and I do apologise for being another one of these irresponsible teens!