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Hi there I've been really stressed and worried 😩 incase I'm infertile!! Nearly 8 years ago I had my daughter and after that and while having a smear etc results came back that I had chlamydia furious! I got treatment and that was that! So I went mad with my partner at the time as normal people would get a sti check after every relationship! (I do anyways) his last gf had given him chlamydia! I never really thought anymore about it until I met my new partner a few years after that and I always woundered why I've never fallen pregnant 🤰 I've been to the doctors before and had hormones tested, a smear and god knows what else and all seemed normal I've never been checked to see if I can't fall pregnant. My periods aren't regular but only a few days apart, I am overweight but not by a lot and my mate who's a lot bigger managed to push out 3 kids! Its now 8 years later and it's really bothering me I would really love to have a baby and even just the thought of I can't destroys me. What can I do? What can I ask my doctor to recommend! He just tends to brrush it off and says loose a few pounds!! I go to slimming world and do a lot of activity I just can't take that as an answer! I don't feel my dr is taking me seriously!! I could scream and cry like a baby it's that frustrating please someone give me something xxx

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I wish you all the best. Keep trying...

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gnaturally

Maybe it's your partner that has the issue? I think you should seek a second opinion and maybe ask around about next steps to take to find out on fertility forums. Good luck but don't stress.... Babies are made from fun and love more than stress and panic.

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RavenQueen123

don't worry about it as there are other methods even of you can't be pregnant like adopting or sponsoring an orphan

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Isla66

Hey, I really feel sad when I come to know about infertility. Life becomes colorless when you hear about infertility. The saddest fact is none other than this that you cannot have babies naturally. I was also declared infertile after my accident. Life was finished for me. I wanted to end myself. I was so depressed. Whenever I listen about infertility it feels that pain is pinching me. But I would advise you to stay positive. Keep trying. Children are the blessing of God. You can't have them before time. Don't worry if you can't conceive naturally there are other ways too. Don't be depressed. Consult a good doctor. You will get the news soon. My wishes are with you.

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js7479570

Dear! I hope you will be fine. After reading your post I really become so sad to know about your condition. You are such a strong girl facing all the troubles patiently. It's a big deal. I also felt very sorry for your loss. The grief of a loss is unforgettable. I have also passed through the same situation. I think you should go for surrogacy. It's really helping people a lot in their fight against infertility. Just be positive and hopeful. Everything happens for a reason. Happiness will also be waiting for you

My sympathies

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