Hi all. I'm new here, and hope I can get some advice.
I'm a 38 year old man, married with 2 kids. Been with my wife for nearly 20 years now.
I've never had a huge sex drive, but it's never been a major issue as my wife has understood and has been good at initiating things. There's never been any issues until the last couple of years, when suddenly I'm finding that I just can't climax during sex. Everything goes fine, my wife will reach climax and then suddenly it's like I lose all sensation and nothing happens. This has got worse as I now worry about it and so over-think it and probably cause the problem. But why is this happening? It's causing my wife to think there's something wrong with her, and it's putting me off having sex altogether. I can climax when I masturbate, but obviously that doesn't help matters in the bedroom. I'm guessing this is a psychological thing, but how can I sort it out?
Thanks in advance.