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Getting a mixture of positive and negative tests unsure what is going on hubby thinks this pregnancy is doomed. I'm broken.

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I don't know what to say I'm 4 weeks 4?days pregnancy doesn't look viable and it's horrible.

I tested positive 3 weeks 5 days. Then tested 4 weeks positive. Yesterday I tested negative with not first urine diluted but tested positive holding urine in the afternoon. This morning I have tested negative. Are these faulty tests or is my pregnancy non viable?

I'm so upset.

I have no cramps or bleeding but think it's doomed. I thought this was my rainbow baby 🥲

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Lowamh

Oh no Jess. I’m not sure I have any advice but just wanted to send my love. I hope it works out ok xx

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Cinderella5

Hey Jess, sorry to hear you are having a nightmare. I have seen some ladies that have stronger tests in the afternoon but not sure they have had completely negative in the morning. Hoping you just have some dodgy tests.🙄 Would your GP or local hospital maybe do a beta hCG blood for you?xxx

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MissSaoPaulo

I'm so sorry Jess, this is so tough. Sending you big hugs whichever way this goes xxx

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pink318

Hi Jess,

I’m so sorry. Please talk to your OBGYN regarding your tests.

Please keep us posted. God bless.

Definitely over another negative test and bleeding no getting heavier. Feel quite upset another chemical pregnancy can't believe it after losing Amelia. Can't believe we are that unlucky. So out of our 4 pregnancies only 1 living child but what a miracle she is ❤️ Onward to trying again. Ever since we decided to try for a sibling it's been nothing but bad luck. 😭 Xx

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Lovemylion in reply to

I'm really sorry to hear this Jess as you have been to hell and back. This journey is so hard. I hope you have a lot of support 😢...it will happen again for you....I really believe it. Xxx

in reply to Lovemylion

Thank you. My hubby is just very angry at it all 😞 but is saying we will try again and not be beaten. Trying for a sibling has been nothing but heartache. I'm doing all the right things but I can't catch a break. Will focus on our miracle that is here and try to hope we will be blessed again. Xx

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Lovemylion in reply to

I'm not surprised that he's feeling that way. It's a completely normal and understandable emotion of grief for what you have both been through. Give yourselves some self-love and plenty of cuddles with your rainbow daughter. It will happen, you will get there. Xxx

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Solly-44 in reply to

I’m so sorry love, just heartbreaking. Sending you hugs and strength xx

in reply to Solly-44

Thank you I'm feeling kicked by life. I can't understand why it's so hard for us to have a baby it's not fair 😭 we didn't need a chemical on top of losing Amelia. It sent me backwards. Will try again and hope one day we get this special miracle to join Francesca Xx

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MissSaoPaulo

I'm sorry hon, I guess this time it was too good to be true. Sending you big hugs xxx

in reply to MissSaoPaulo

Thanks. It's awful we can't catch a break it's been nothing but horror trying for this sibling in some ways we regret opening this box it's reminds us of the hard times before we had Francesca it's just mace me miss Amelia even more than I was 🥲 Xx

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romaluna2015

Jess , I’m so sorry . 😔

Keep going you can and will do this .

Lots of love xxx

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