Hi everyone,
I'm reaching out for some advice and support regarding my younger brother, who has autism. We're currently facing several challenges, and I'm hoping to hear from others who might have similar experiences or suggestions on how to handle the situation better.
Here are some of the main issues we're dealing with:
Refusal to Go Outside: My brother doesn't like to go outside and prefers to stay in his room all day on his PC.
Poor Eating Habits: He doesn't eat well, and it's a struggle to get him to have balanced meals.
Anger Issues: He gets very angry if we try to encourage him to go outside or engage in other activities. His anger sometimes leads to destructive behavior, where he destroys things around him.
Lack of Motivation: Even when we tell him he can pick an activity, he doesn't want to do anything.
Parental Inaction: Our parents don't seem to do much to address these behaviors. They often encourage his current lifestyle and tell us he can do whatever he wants. They don't seem to understand the severity of the situation and don't care about changing anything.
It's become increasingly difficult to manage the situation, and I'm feeling quite lost. I want to support my brother in a way that's helpful and understanding of his needs, but I'm not sure where to start.
Have any of you faced similar challenges? How did you manage to help your loved one without causing further distress? Any tips on how to encourage healthier habits, manage anger, and get support from parents who may not see the issues the same way?
Thanks in advance for any advice or experiences you can share.
