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Hi just to let you know that my husband Alan died a few weeks ago. He was only 59 but his lung disease had progressed rapidly after being diagnosed 2 years ago. Alan only posted once on here but we both read posts daily and took advice and inspiration from you all so thank you.

Debbie

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sassy59

So very sorry to hear of your sad loss Debbie. I hope you have support from loved ones at this difficult time. Thinking of you. ❤️🌹

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djbctla

My heartfelt condolences Debbie.

BERNARDINE

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peege

So very sorry to hear this about your BigAl Debbie, no age at all. My heartfelt condolences to you and your loved ones. Thinking of you ❤

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helenlw7

Sorry to hear of your loss, Debbie. Thinking of you and your family at this time.

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Donald_1931

That is so sad, you must be devastated. Thank you for writing that it can't have been easy for you. R I P BigAl, far too soon. ☹️xx

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leo60

So sorry to hear your news, Debbie. Sending my thoughts and hugs to you and your family, Laurie xx

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Rattled

I am so dreadfully sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you have all the support you need at this awful time.

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Alberta56

So sorry to hear your news. Condolences.

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CDPO16

I am so sorry to hear of your loss Debbie. Sadly death is no respecter of age. Sending you my sincere condolences, Carole xx

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Nicholatracy

So very sorry 🐞

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BigAl2023

Thank you everyone x

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Blackbird9

I'm so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. Sending heartfelt condolences to you and yours .. it might be a good idea if you stayed on the forum and popped in for a chat now and then when you feel the need ... 🖤🖤

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rockon60s in reply to Blackbird9

Hi thank you. still read the posts everyday just like I have for the last 2 years. Debbie

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Blackbird9 in reply to rockon60s

Ahhh I didn't realise you were a member under your own name.. my apologies happy reading 📚 keep at it enjoy your weekend..🩷🩷🩷🩷

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watergazer

Sorry to hear Alan has passed away. Condolences to you and your family 🤗🤗

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Patk1

So sorry to hear that Debbie.it must b very hard 4u 💕 xxx

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Danielmystar

So sorry to hear that Debbie may he rest in peace sending you prayers and hugs x

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ostiad

I am so sorry to hear of your loss Debbie. Sending Love to you and your family and may you rest in peace Alan ❤.

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garshe

My Condolences Debbie. Alan was too young to go at 59 I hope he is at peace now We are all here for you anytime you need a chat.Sending Welsh Cwtches xxSheila 😥🙏💕⚘

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Poll61

So sorry for your loss 💔

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battison

Omigod so totally sorry to hear about Alan. We are here for you x

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suef

So sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you & your family. Xx

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Lynnetp

How very sad to hear. So sorry for your loss. Sending condolences, love and thoughts to you and your family Debbie xx

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Digger0

So sorry to hear this.

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m1sty

So sorry for your loss. Like Alan I don't post on here often, but do regularly visit. I agree with blackbird9 and think you would benefit from staying in touch with this lovely caring community on this site. Take care xx

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Lee_Scoresby

Dear Debbie, I send our deepest condolences for the loss of your Alan. We’re very sorry for your loss.

Hi, I am so very sorry to hear of your husband's passing. A very sad time for you. We are all thinking of you and sending our love and support 💖💖

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BronchyBronwen

Truly sorry to hear of your sad loss, Debbie. May BigAl rest in peace. I hope you feel able to come on to this site for support whenever you feel you need it. Please look after yourself at this very tough time. Sending warmest wishes, BB xx

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JetJet

I am so, so sorry to hear that. Such a young age. I lost my Mum two weeks ago and share your grief. Sending my condolences to you and your family and friends.I,like you, didn't post too much but came here for support and knowledge and am still finding comfort now somehow in the warmth and kindness everyone shows here.

As Blackbird suggests maybe stay here and continue being part of the community.

Thinking of you.

Ceri

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rockon60s in reply to JetJet

Thank you. Sorry for you loss too. Look after yourself. Debbie x

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PAP48

So sorry for your loss. X

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Zand60

I'm so sad to hear this news 😔 hugs to you Lesley xxx

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HungryHufflepuff

Very sorry to hear this sad news. Thinking of you.

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Phill1

sorry to hear about your hubby …such a young age. I lost my husband in July …I do hope you have the support of family and friends .. . xx

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rockon60s in reply to Phill1

I do thank you. Hope you do too x Debbie

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Germantara

Sorry to hear off you're loss off you're loved one

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Mellywelly

I am so sorry he passed away. So young too 😒 thank you for posting and telling everyone 🙏

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JPC2

so sorry to hear your sad news x

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Bingofox007

sending you love and strength. 🦊xx

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GintyFerguson

Sincere condolences to you. That's hard to be taken so young. I'm so sorry. Rest in peace Alan.

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Trishe

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss Debbie, condolences to you and your family at this sad time.Take care

Trish

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Bingofox007

ps to my earlier reply. While we are all here for you and hope you find comfort amongst the forum family, there is a really supportive bereavement forum on healthunlocked.com. I have found comfort in my grief on there, although my husband has been gone 10 years this year, it can be somewhere to turn, in the middle of the night for example when you need to talk. Take care. Again so sorry for your loss 🦊x

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rockon60s in reply to Bingofox007

Thank you. I didn't know that but I will certainly look it up x Debbie

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Molly70

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you..xx

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Greenthorn

I echo what JetJet and others have said ... maybe you can post a memory of Alan, a 'snapshot' or two in the coming months; something to share with us about Alan. This community is stronger for shared stories. You have a long horizon ahead - take your time. I am thinking of you and Alan. 💕

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Bingo88

Good morning Debbie. I am so sorry to hear about your Husband . That really is a very short time after being diagnosed to sadly passing away. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time and I hope you have family support to get you through your loss. You will still make good friends for support on here if you so wish too. Take care and hope you can come to terms eventually with your loss. Brian

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Athomeinyorkshire

So sorry to read of your sad loss and send my sincere condolences xx

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Shirleyj

So sorry to hear this, you must be devastated. Take care 🌹x

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gingermusic

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss particularly as he was so young. Hope you have caring family around you for support. Thinking of you

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Otto11

So sorry for your loss. 59 is way too soon Sending heartfelt condolences x

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Handel

I'm so sorry about your lovely hubby Al. Just know that we are all thinking about you and your family at this sad time.

Love and hugs. Jan xxx

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PaulineHM

Very sorry Debbie to read your sad news. It’s very hard losing loved ones for sure. Much sympathy to you and your family and friends.

Good wishes.

Pauline

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Nula2

So sorry to hear this. Very hard for you to deal with. You will find support on this lovely forum any time you feel the need. Take your time and look after yourself ❤️xxx

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garibaldon

Sorry for your loss, may you and you family find strength.

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Morrison10

so sorry to hear your loss at such a young age. Best regards, Jean

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Loopylorre

So very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband, he was very young, condolences to you and your family 💐🌹 xx

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1947Mags

So, so sorry for your loss I lost my husband 6 years ago and know how different/difficult life can be. Take each day as it comes use any means you have to lift your spirits a little each day. Take care Mags

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Injecter1

Such sad news…. I’m so sorry ❤️

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Yumz199725

Ahhh im so sorry for your loss 💔😔x

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Poppywalk

I am so sorry for your loss Debbie, thinking of you and hoping you have the support of family and friends xxx

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Thepainterswife

I’m so sorry for your loss , my husband died in April , he was older and had been very sick for many years but loss in any circumstances is hard to bear . Somehow you do find the strength to carry on and staying on the forum with all its love and support does help 😊 Val xx

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Alm2019

So sorry to hear your sad news Debbie. RIP BigAl. Thinking of you at this difficult time. Lena 🌹

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valspia

So very sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

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Musicqueen49

My sincere condolences on your loss. Take care of yourself

xxx

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jackdup

I’m so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband at such a young age.

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Solily

My thought and prayers are with you and your family. May the memories of your husband and the love and caring of family and friends help you during this difficult time. All of us are always here if you need to talk 🙏🏻xx

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Souielouie

So sorry to hear that you lost your husband recently, sending you love & hugs Debbie 🥰🤗

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Izb1

Heartfelt condolences to you and your family Debbie, far too young to leave this earth R.I.P. Big Al x

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Ern007

Sorry for your loss - 59 is no age at all. My mother died at 60 with COPD. My Condolences.

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Thinkhealthy

I am so sorry. Just wanted to send my condolences .

Helen

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Ergendl

So sorry to read that Alan has died. However expected it may have been, it will still be a great loss and shock to you. Take good care of yourself xx

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Stanelli

I am so sorry for your loss.

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Seaberg in reply to Stanelli

Sad news to hear of the death of Big Al. A young age must make it harder to bear. Heartfelt sympathies and hopes that you have support to help you through your loss

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dunnellon

Please accept my sincere sympathy in the loss of your husband. May good memories of your time together give you comfort, strength and peace.

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mwalker23

So sorry to hear of your loss xx

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oneofakind109

Condolences to you and your family

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Cherwin

Heart felt condolences sent to you and your family 🌹

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ez2nvmorgan

Sorry to hear of your loss Debbie. My condolences to you and the family

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