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Hi, i have just joined your community. I am hoping to find someone to chat to who knows what living with copd is like. I am very lonely and don't have any close friends to talk to. Please is there anyone out there who is willing to chat to me sometimes?

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Collie4

Hi, welcome to the site. I am living with copd since 2007, and know how awful it can be. If managed / controlled correctly then it’s not quite so scary. It is frightening, but getting anxious and fearing the worst doesn’t help. ( it’s not easy i know). Try and stay positive, stay focused on nice things, keep occupied . Feel free to always post on here. It’s good to talk ( as i have found), with people/ friends who understand when others around us don’t. Take care.

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Hello Jjray and welcome. You will never be lonely here we are one big happy family, just post away and there will always be someone to chat to. Have a good night and take care.😊 Bernadette xx

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sassy59

Hello Jjray, welcome to this friendly forum where you will find members to chat to.

My husband Pete was diagnosed with COPD in 2010. He also has sarcoidosis, osteoporosis and back problems but does very well considering. The worst thing to have happened recently is cellulitis and severe sepsis. Even that couldn’t keep Pete down and he’s recovering well.

You won’t be lonely on HU. Take care. Xxxx

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CDPO16

Hi & welcome. Yes, come and chat when you feel the need, we will understand. Loneliness can sometimes be harder to cope with than a physical illness and often make the physical problem seem worse. I hope that you won't feel quite as lonely now that you have joined us. Best wishes.

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bobbyfloyd

Yes, chat anytime but only on computer in the evening, let me know

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megshafer

Hello and welcome, you will find the kindest, funny and most knowledgeable people on here....a great group!!!

Take care, stay well,

Will see you here!!

Meg

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Izb1

Welcome Jjray, you wont feel lonely on this site and there are plenty of people with copd that can answer your queries or fears along with giving you a laugh with their wit and humour. Irene x

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kpm346

Hi same here by myself but I talk a lot with my furry babies who are bilingual lol. Take care you will find lovely people on this site.

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davecarol2

Hi jjray yes this is a lovely place to chat as much or little as you feel also find such a huge amount of knowledge and experience from members regards Davy Boy

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katieoxo60

Welcome to the site, come on anytime you want to chat . We all come on at different times look forward to a long chatty relationship with you.

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Ergendl

Hi, Jjra, and welcome to the site. I've been diagnosed with COPD too, in 2015 by my GP and Respiratory Nurse. How were you diagnosed?

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meganmania26

Hi Jjray I have third stage copd quite scary at times I am up for a chat any time At the moment I am looking into salt pipes and lamps for home relieve and got myself a home treadmill to use during winter months write let me know your history then I will swap info take care Carrol

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Balloo

Hia I have had this nonsense for 9 years people don’t get it or understand & weusually loook ok I havnt lived in Uk for 40 years most time us Africa no family .froends miles away so yes life can be lonely .have amazing cat & face time . It’s a do it your self job with COPD . Read lots take no thing as read .i use alerpathic . Med & Complement sry not quite the death sentence managed well . Wish you welll explain to people how you feel .awaiting having cateracts excuse writing

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stamford1234 in reply toBalloo

Good luck with the cataracts. It's amazing, the world takes on a whole new brightness! Where in Africa?

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barbs47

Hi jjray and welcome. I have had COPD since 1980 and have found this forum extremely friendly and very knowledgeable. If your want to pour your heart out, have a rant or ask a question we are all here for you. Chat away you’ll soon have a group of on line friends to chat to. Keep as well as you can Barbs x

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Spacecat1

Of course we can talk to you. We are all in the same boat mainly copd. I started in 2008. It was mild then but like a twit I carried on smoking but I eventually cut back. The last 18 months have not been good ended up in hospital for 10 days. My close friends hubby and daughter have been good. My family live down south so dont see them much. But I do enjoy coming on this site were we are all friends. Can ask questions with being judged.welcome aboard

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Donata

Hi there.. were you based! I has a Copd for the last 2 years. First i was devasted, but continued to leave a normal live, working do what i can. If i tell true a fill better not talking abouth.. Dont look your self in, i can assure that you feel better just the thought that yiu are a normal person. Thing that people get few weeks to leave so we are lucky .. i leave in bradford W yorkshire jeep in touch xxx

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jw61

Hello Jjray the members here are very knowledgeable and are happy to help and fully understand what you are going through. I have received support and good advice from them, do not worry, you are in the right place. I don't write often on here because of my poor grammar. However I do read the posts they can be informative and sometimes very amusing. which brightensw my day. I do not say thank you to the member enough, stay positive things are never as bad as they seem.

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Jjray in reply tojw61

Hi there. The worst thing I'm going through right now is anxiety. I live with my son who helps a lot with my care. Trouble is when i start to feel anxious i feel i need him to be with me talking to me. I hate being this way as i feel it's not fair to him. Any tips on trying to combat the anxiety?

Jjray. X

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Whitechinchilla

Welcome. I hope you can tell just how welcome you are to this site.

Are you able to share a little more about your condition, when you were diagnosed, what treatment if any you are getting etc

I am fairly new here and can tell you now that joining this forum will turn out to be the best thing you could ever do for yourself.

Suddenly one is no longer alone. This is now your new extended

“ Health family”

Good wishes.

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Hacienda

Welcome Hun, Everyone has said the same, we are all here for you. Very Best Wishes. xxxx

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