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Looks like my kids have adjusted to me being on home oxgeon. Just waiting now for the appointment for newcastle for the transplant.

Michelle12120•

10 years ago•17 Replies

Even my 10 year old has has injusted bless him. He just wants his mum well.

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10 years ago

michelle you sound better than you did,good for you,kids do adjust and yer son as shown how proud he is of his mummy,and he will make you proud of him, together you will get through this period,let him help you when you need it,that way he will understand about the illness better, and make a point of saying to him.have you any homework I can help you with, that way yer helping each other,your minds distracted and so is his, it keeps the normality flowing,all the best on the transplant love,ive got everything crossed for you im not religious but ile say a prayer for both of you,let members no how it goes, night night to both of you,love twice xxx

Michelle1212010 years ago

I keep saying to him that I won't die like my mum and Auntie and everyone wants to help me. Thank you I'm a better place than what I was xxx

in reply to Michelle1212010 years ago

michelle keep that thought, you will be fine,dont give up on this, work with your son and together you will get there,hes a bit scared but you are as well I think,talk to each other, about anything an nothing but keep the flow going between the two of you, soon has he comes in from school say hiya hows it been and smile,then start having a conversation on his day,but keep smiling an give him cuddles ,hes still a little man but hes growing up and you both will get through this period ,an you both will be stronger for it, love twice xxx

Suzy610 years ago

That's great news michelle. Children are very resilient. Everyone likes to feel helpful and involved, even children. No one likes to feel shut out. You are obviously handling the situation very well. Make plently cuddles time and try to keep life as normal as possible. All the best. Keep us updated xx

Michelle1212010 years ago

I try and make thinks as normal as possible. My son came down last night and asked if I needed anything doing bless him. The kids keep me going I'm only 39 but feel really old. I really don't feel it's fair putting them through this xxxx

Michelle1212010 years ago

I feel like some times watching them see me go through this is so hard for them xx

in reply to Michelle1212010 years ago

michelle yes its hard watching them seeing you go through this but,im sorry to say this but, would you rather have the alternative,dont worry about the kids thay will be there for you, next time the little man comes down smile an say o,i could do with a drink of water do you want 1 love,bet he says ile get it mummy,michelle stop worrying , live as a family and you all will get through this and keep smiling,when theres no 1 around you can cry and let your guard down, its the disease its not who we are,just be you and enjoy the kids and keep smiling love,look forward to the transplant, on that I wish you all the best that I can,you, ll ok,try to rest now and don't worry,love twicexxx

Michelle1212010 years ago

Think is the kids would do anything for me I no they love me. Me why should I put them through this. Life Is so not fair I know we we will get through this. I love my kids so much xxx

Michelle1212010 years ago

I know if it wasn't for them I wouldn't Carry on they keep me going and make me so proud of therm everyday they know how hard it is for me xxxz

dall0510 years ago

I feel for you Michelle and your children, your getting some great advice from TS3 and Suzy. I wish you the best of luck with the transplant.

Tony x

10 years ago

My heart goes out to you,& your family Michelle.I am glad you are feeling in a better place now sweetheart.

Your little man,sounds very caring,give him little jobs at times,so he can feel proud he's helping his Mum.

All good wishes for your transplant,do keep in touch,as I'm sure we are all barracking for you.Hugs & love Wendells xxxx

junespoon10 years ago

All the very best with your transplant,You must be so proud of your children, lots love and special thoughts.xx

Michelle1212010 years ago

Thank you everyone your words means loads xxx

tigershay110 years ago

Newcastle is the best in country for transplant ...my son was there when first born with heart problems and the care was second to none. So you will be in the best place . Children live in the moment so that is good actually we adults could do with doing the same!! Keep the positive attitude you have and think how your life will be when youve had your transplant . You are a very strong woman will be thinking of you and your family with love Judith xxxx

helingmic10 years ago

Michelle, this is a tough time, waiting for your transplant. but the waiting is tougher than the actual operation. You're very brave. Keep it up for your kids and yourself.You will all be proud of yourselves when you are through with this. Best wishes, Mic.

Michelle1212010 years ago

I live in nottingham. But my consultant has referred me to newcastle as he says it is the best place. Thank you all for your kind messages xxx

Dorris5910 years ago

My elderly mom has also been put on oxygen as she has severe heart failure and COPD. I hope you and your children are coping. Must of been daunting for them at first seeing you on oxygen, but sounds like they've got used to it now. I hope you get the transplant soon, then you can start living life to the full with your children. Can you tell me what you use on your lips if they're dry and chapped? The oxygen providers told my mom she can't use Vaseline, or anything with liquid paraffin in it and her lips are so sore and chapped.

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