Asthma and selfish so called healthy people!

We are all pretty scared here right now with regards to our health but my concern is that of those around us who aren’t taking it seriously enough! They seem to think that because they don’t have any known health issues they will be ok! I fear it will be them who pass it onto us! Does anyone else have this concern?

[Recordergirl]

Yes, I do, my son works in an airport. Is scrupulous hygiene and keeping 2m apart enough? Or do I need to be in a different house? We don’t have a big house with an annexe I can just love into! What’s your situation?

[starveycat]

Went into supermarket today. At the checkout this man stood close to me so I asked him to step back as my immune system is no good. He did no bother

[Blue-Breeze in reply to starveycat]

I would have coughed....Sorry but it makes me real mad that these walking idiots are playing Russian roulette with people lives.

I wear a scarf which I pull up over my mouth, when I'm near the open cougher who loves to share ( even before this)

Stay safe and well.

[Hidden in reply to Blue-Breeze]

I agree Blue-Breeze, but suspect it wouldn't make any difference. Some people are so thick skinned, they'd probably give us a mouthful of abuse.

[Blue-Breeze in reply to Hidden]

They are thick some people. I usually give them a glare!

[mariyn in reply to Blue-Breeze]

I find the worst problem are silent joggers who run up behind you, brushing past you INCONSIDERATE! Marilyn

[Hidden]

Yes, plus I work in a care home.

My partner - who really should know better as he’s seen me rushed to hospital with an unexplained asthma attack - thinks everyone is making too much of it. He can’t see why he can’t go into his mothers care home. This is despite seeing me spend an entire day at work putting ours into lockdown, and being shown all the evidence as to why this has happened.

I’m beyond furious.

[Jandm]

We are literally living 2-3 meters apart, my partner is wearing gloves in between hand washing so as to avoid touching surfaces and leaving any viral traces, windows are open. I live in isolation throughout viral season with my partner being my only contact. He’s a doctor and I’ve never seen him this worried about my condition. We have to ensure we keep away to keep safe. Everyone has to be viewed as being contagious.

[watergazer in reply to Jandm]

You are very lucky - I know your partner is a doctor (my son is too and has been telling all the family to stay away from me and no childminding duties which will disrupt their lives) but this is how fellow house sharers should be.

Mine is of the mind- I'm ok as not got it and is still doing tutoring at the mo x

[Jandm in reply to watergazer]

Due to a change of his working conditions this morning, and his agreement to it, I have taken the decision for us to extend our distancing. I shall now be sat upstairs when he is home for the foreseeable future. Im now at the point that I literally won’t see anyone until this is all over.

[watergazer in reply to Jandm]

Take care x

[Poobah]

Denial is easier than changing one's behaviour. Most of my family & friends are listening to government restrictions and applying them. But those who I guessed would be deniers have met my expectations unfortunately. It's because they have to make changes to their lives and it's easier to disbelieve & go their merry way doing exactly what they want.

A lack of empathy is not unusual, it just means they are driven by different things. Logic and science doesn't come into it either.

We can see in other countries where the police are having to patrol the streets as some people will not comply with the community restrictions.

I've used the argument of social responsibility and laid down the boundaries as I see them. When it comes to my health it's my time to be "selfish" & not worry about someone else's feelings.

[Yellow75]

There was a nurse on telly last night talking about being told to come home because of sore throat. Was in two minds about this. But come to the conclusion that any potential virus may impact those with low immunity and cause complications if did get coronavirus on top of previous virus. Better safe than sorry.

[LittleZebra]

I agree. I went to the park even earlier this morning and there were still dog walkers about, some with two or three large dogs off the lead. I was walking on the grass and a lady dog walker was coming in my direction so I stopped and said as she approached I said from a safe distance ‘, I’have asthma I’m not being peculiar’ she replied ‘Yes you can’t be too careful’ in a tone of voice that sounded as if she thought I was being and then she walked straight towards me in spite of me not being on the path and with a large park to go at. I think my language was choice! Some people still don’t get it! No pun intended.

[Shunalou]

I think my husband thinks I’m being over cautious. I have to trust him to be careful when he goes out for shopping. I almost think it would be better for me to go out because then at least I know I’m taking precautions. Last night one of the experts said to be ultra safe we should wash the items we bought from the shops as the virus lingers on hard surfaces ie a tin can etc. Just exactly how far do we take this and can we really protect ourselves and for how long.

[Jandm in reply to Shunalou]

I’ve been using dettol wipes on every item of shopping and leaving it to dry before it goes into the cupboards. It takes the tiniest contact to become ill from this new virus. Oh how it would be lovely to not have to be so cautious like the largest proportion of society.

[Shunalou in reply to Jandm]

Thank you, that’s a good idea. I’ll do that from now on. X

[Alauralane]

There are many ignorant people out there, though It is very difficult to know how to respond, in many ways we are ahead of the game as we for the most part already take precautions to keep away from flu and others who are sick. I have been isolating for a few days now and my partner is no longer allowed home, he is staying at his work place, he chose to carry on as normal, to keep our small business running, but understands why I need to stay safe. When deliveries arrive I get them left on the door step, with a note to knock loudly and leave. A couple of minutes later I collect it and with disposable gloves put it to one side and leave it alone. From the research I have done. But please do your own. The virus from a US laboratory study lives in aerosols up to 3 hours on cardboard for up to 24 hours, and the average time on steel and plastic was 2 to 3 days. But to be extra safe I leave it all alone for at least the 3 days.

If something needs using before that time or refrigerating I wipe the packaging down with antibacterial wipes or spray and then throw the gloves away and wash my hands. Misinformation is worse then no information. All the best everyone.

[Jay0813]

no staying home for me I have rent and bills to pay

[jojokarak]

I have had a transplant as well as asthma and I am avoiding people like the plague lol.... My hubby has had to take unpaid leave as he works in a supermarket but health more important than money for us at the moment..... I understand people's genuine concerns about it though and I hope the government will step in some more over the next few days