thanks for all the support

[repeatOffender]

Depression alone can be overwhelming

but throwing divorce on top puts me in a whole different world.

Maybe by some miracle this will turn out to be a blessing.

Maybe living with someone who can't stand to be around me

is only perpetuating my depression.

In any case, I't going to be a hard time for a while

and of course, I am most concerned about the kids.

THis is going to be very hard on them no matter how

amicable things are, and I suspect they will not be anyway.

[Frankie24]

Thinking of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you you and your family. Divorce is never easy. As you stated in the long run it turns out to be much healthier then staying together in a marriage with someone who no longer wants to be together. I divorced my husband but it took a long abusive marriage to get up the courage to leave. That was back in 2003. My life has been so much happier since. I raised my beautiful son who was ten at the time alone and he has turned into a fine responsible young man who I am very proud of. It can be hard at first but in the end for the best for everyone involved.