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Cyber Bullying
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Isinatra
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I am so very sorry, Isinatra. We (me and others) are helping you out in the background, okay? We are doing what we can.
Isinatra in reply to
I know you and others are doing what you can and not just for me, but the whole community. ❤️It takes a village…..
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Yes, it's for us all. And yes, it does take a village. It's nice that we have each others' backs. That's a testament to how caring this community is. I hope that together we can get through to HU. They want to uphold their reputation of this being a safe platform. This inconsistently in upholding the zero tolerance for bullies rule is NOT the way to go about that.
HI Old Blue eyes ( I-sinatra)
May I enquire as to why U've needed to highlight cyber bullying & why are others doing things behind people's back & kudos to U for pointing out this group is there for everyone to try get the help they may need that day as they could be having a very shhtty day & behaviour is altered.
So in question form.
Hi, Dodge. There’s been extreme bullying/trolling on here generated from one particular person for a few months now. There are many vulnerable people that have been and could be in the future victimized if he still is able to continue engaging in our community. People are just trying to keep the community safe. Awareness helps the victims and the vulnerable.
A suggestion moving forward. Every time this person turns up with his misogyny in tow. U name & shame him & all those bullied by the person can mute or block him & he can rant away & U won't see it & others in ur thread can do the same as Admin seem to be failing in protecting vulnerable people by the carry on from this fool
Thank you for the input, Dodge. 😊
in reply to DodgeDhanda
DodgeDhanda you can't blocked user from post but you can locked to one sub of group of community . i als has be cyberbully on this community to .
DodgeDhanda in reply to
I'm sure U can block that person & not see their posts , that way if everyone does the same he will be ranting at no 1. I'm sure there is a wag of finding their url.
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ok I am not see that anywhere if you can blocked the post but i meant to say coudn't blocked profile .
DodgeDhanda in reply to
ok we on the same hymn page . I believe those that he is bullying band together like you would in a WhatsApp group & as soon as new profile comes online then U alert one another. Safety in numbers & if they argumentative give me a shout & he can argue with me !!!
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cool they have been new users online and not seen anything yet part from one post of my opinion. that user should be aware all time and do report . adims should add a blocking feature for profile also.
I hope everything is OK. I have your back my friend.
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Thank you for the post. It adds to Adam's post.
Having each other's back does mean we are standing up as a community for each other. Having a safe place to express ourselves and get support is important.
Our mental health struggles are serious business. This is not the place for naming and shaming, false accusations, and stalking.
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good early Morning Isinatra ☺️ i wholeheartedly agree with everything that you said 🙏❤️
sorry this has happened. I’ve been totally unaware this has been going on.
Short of using IP which has its own problems It may not be possible for HU to filter him but what if we collectively dox (in HU) every time he posts or comments. And report…but we can harass while warning others. A canned response is best. “This user is using multiple accounts such as “” to illegally harass other users.” I did this with another user…it caught on too. As a chorus it can be powerful
adding an additional thought. HU could have someone on call to get reports on profiles. That with multiple people reporting in a short period of time takes the wind out of his sails. He thrives on the few hours he has to attack. Make it minutes
In addition… using a non emotional warning on everything he writes alerts people not in the know to ignore or support. Or look and report. Might not be obvious at first but it won’t take long. The last time he even posted that he had been banned and I had no idea. Someone else even welcomed him. Even when he was making comments I thought he was just in an episode. No idea he was actually targeting someone.
She is going to love this
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i came across it by accident 😄hope you are well and good dear dolphin no 14 ….salamander joe about as welcome on hu now as a fart in a phone box
lol..... by accident?
I'm doing fabulous SS thank you for asking.
Hope things are going well for you
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LMAO.... you have nothing else to add to the phone booth ( box )?
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in all seriousness hope you’re ok looks like hu are playing whack a mole but at least lots of people are aware of him now so think he blew his membership of the loonies club just when we are arranging a Christmas coach trip to Disney
Another coach trip? I was looking for the old post with the coach trip to resurrect and I can’t find it. It was fun looking , though. “Him” is in another vehicle on its way to a place that’s Christmas all year. There’s just no decorations…..🥶
was funny that it’s come around again quickly….I’m hoping to win this year’s raffle….a big bottle of blue valium 😋
I think the post I was looking for was 3 years old? My, how we lose track of time.
Please be careful. As an outsider looking in he looked a bit over friendly with you for a new comer.
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definitely a pm creeper snowflake mute anyone who comes into your private space …good lots are aware about him now and can spot him a mile away….don’t let anyone creep you out !!
He appeared on Healthy Eating yesterday, being friendly towards a young lady. I'd never seen him on there before . His replies are no longer there- I just looked.
Havent seen him on the NRAS site yet.
I hope so too.
yes, very much is illegal and users shouldn't be doing . yet threy kept doing to me also . that has a learning disabity . that is also a illegal to cyberbully with users that have a learning disabity . Laws said it all . I also sent to two report .
Isinatra in reply to
I understand, Kat….🥰
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they kept doing on another group fo this comtuntiy and kept thinking that i am lying but i am not abuser or verbal abuse . yet is has be same users on this on another post to the sub or group . they also i think are older them me . they should cut it out . i getting very anry and very anoyied that nothing be done about .
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Isinatra see this users down in my comment . being another cyberbully again .
Isinatra in reply to
You, having learning disabilities, aren’t always understood by other people. And you don’t always understand them. I’ve done some reading about people with learning disabilities and do understand the problem you have of communicating with others. There’s no easy answer I can give you about people bullying you. And I’m sorry for that. Report them as you’ve been doing and remember……some people just don’t know who you are.
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yes, I do have a hard time communicating and get bit confused what the diffenet . done more then once report and do not reply .
hypercat54 in reply to
I have said it before and will again. You have joined multiple times under around 8 different alias' always with the same questions around dating. It is NOT 'cyberbullying' to point this out, but rather to make others aware that you are not being honest on here. People deserve to know of someone who keeps doing this. The answer is simple - stop keep deleting your accounts after a few weeks and making endless new ones. Be honest with us as you would like us to be with you. That's all. Simples.....
Is it possible to name who the bully is on here so we all can let them know we are on to them?
Honestly it's dangerous to publicly name & shame as that person may not be able to communicate as others do . Never nice to be judged for an unseen disability . On the other hand I suggest as I usually do is once this person comes on here & bullies them again that firstly others pass it onto others that are being bullied too & report enmass. Also I would & have suggested see if this person & their IP Address is reported to his local police station & hopefully he can be bought to book , just to be fair.... She could be bought to book
I wouldn`t name and shame if two users got into a spat and didn`t agree on certain issues we need to recognise the difference between blatant trolling/bullying and someone with high functioning anxiety.
HI K1.
As I stated we don't know what is happening to this person in their actual lives. As for a spat , that's up to those 2 people to discuss their issues in private & not in public as that type of confrontation could be a trigger for other people in this group.
Lastly making new accounts over & over to take issue with the same people over & over isn't anxiety of any sort , from personal experience I wouldn't keep making accounts to carry on , I would rather sit on my own & do something that makes me feel good. Bullying & Trolling are never the answer & I wonder if in the states that the police would act if reported. Here in England there have been a couple of people who have been sent to prison for a few weeks when found guilty of on line abuse especially towards people of colour who play football/soccer.
in short mindfulness needs to be a priority of every member.
Nice meeting U
The perpetrator’s aliases are in another post. And he’s been called out by several people when he shows up under different aliases. The perp has presumably left. If he shows up again, I doubt he’ll use the same username and if he does show up again, we’re installing well lit marquees so everyone will be alerted. (Las Vegas has agreed to donate the marquees)
Man some can sure bully on here. I've blocked a few on here. I've kind of got turned off on this site. Thot about deleting my profile at times.
Dolphin14 in reply to
IAG1
We do need to recognize this happens here to males also. It's not just a male/female situation, it can be a female/male problem also.
Please don't leave. Report, block and stay away. It does become extremely difficult when you are being stalked. Hold you ground.
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I have been gone a while so I missed recent events. J am so sorry you have come to the forum and had this experience in what is to be our safe place. I know who you are talking about and honestly, good riddance. We are all here for you as a community. 💜
Thank you Willow….🧡
There was an English site called Personal well being ---------- can't remember the rest, which was closed down for precisely this reason. We tried to keep it open, even volunteering to police it ourselves, But It got closed down anyway and is available only through the Archive now,
Some of the older members came over, people like Veteran, who is still on other HU sites. He's a good guy. there are others, but most seem to have drifted away.
Shame.
Cheers, Midori
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