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Unbreakmyheartseeker

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Big bear Hugs to everyone who is broken hearted, depressed, sad and lonely like me.

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I'm right there with you, broken hearted, depressed, sad, lonely and just broken. I feel like I'm in this black hole and sinking further and further down. I really want to make some changes but it's not easy. So I'll do it in baby steps and hopefully will be more successful this time. I've only been on here a short time but I'm so amazed and honesty, openness, support, compassion and understanding. It's been great being able to get some of this out with people who understand and get what I feel and what I'm going through. It really makes a difference. Sending hugs back.

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Thank you so much. Hugs back.

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JEG325

You guys should join my 'CIrcle of Friends' forum. We're a support group that chats about whatever our members want to. The group will only max out at 10 people and the chat board is open 24/7. CD1202, is going through the same thing and would welcome the chance to talk to some more people about her feelings....

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Thank you for the hug. And Hugs back at you.

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Agora1

Unbreakmyheartseeker, I never looked into your profile until now. My heart

broke reading about all that has happened to you. No one deserves that. No one.

How can we mend your heart? How can we let the many people on this forum know

they are loved and care for by all of us. We are all different then the general population.

Maybe because we carry out hearts on our sleeve and some take advantage of that.

Our anxiety and our fears leave us more vulnerable.. Able to get hurt and torn down by a

simple word or action. (Emotional abuse)

We do what we can to virtually comfort each other. Sending you back a "Big Bear Hug"

I hope that takes some of the pain away. :) x

My tears (and I’m afraid I’ve shed an ocean of grief filled ones) after reading your reply are from relief knowing that you and others care. I’m an over the hill wounded soldier who was blindsided by some very bad people at work, being disabled from the trauma. My partner has narcistic personality disorder, abusive to me, and I wish that I was a woman sometimes as I would have been extricated from here by now. There is very little if any support for a man in my circumstances. The woman (who I helped get worker’s compensation for when we were both bullied to nervous breakdowns at work and bullied out of our jobs) - (and for me reporting the assaults, I was further retaliated against for protecting my colleague a lady that was being assaulted), well she has since collected compensation and then turned around and backstabbed me. So I’m really suffering. Your words have been kind and I love people and would help any man woman or child in my circumstances, and I have many times as I’m a very giving, kind and generous person.

You are as well, and I thank you.

“Unbreakmyheartseeker”

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How ironic, that I just got on the forum to find your response. Oh I know you are a kind

hearted person. If you weren't, no words or acts of emotional abuse would hurt so much.

You were brought to this site for a reason. I believe that. We all have a purpose and reason in life. Together we can become stronger in finding answers from others who

have been through similar experiences. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong, stay

positive. You are not alone.

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Sorry late reply. My bp up and anxiety to high. So doing breathing exercises as I suffer through dread and anxiety. Thanks for your message of encouragement

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Big huge tight hugs to you as well!!! It will be ok, this too shall pass!!! I can get really down and out and I have to rebuke that feeling. So many people are less fortunate than me and I have to tell myself it could be worst. I’ve experienced a lot of pain, hurt and trauma in my life but I’m here and strong even when I feel the weakest!!! I’m worth it to make myself happy, so are you! This too will pass

Thank you so so much... 30 years today ago I lost my mom, one would think I'd be all good sadly I'm not & sure can use a hug today. How are you doing? Love, peace, light, joy & hugs for you!

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Hugs to you anxiety_59..

Hope the happy memories with your mom, keep you comforted today 🌺🌺❤️❤️

Take care

Lots of warmth coming your way xx

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Ya know Olivia you'd think it would comfort me but not on this day, it's always like I just lost her....she was the best...I'm very grateful, that I can think of for a positive today!

Thank you so much for writing to me! You're fantastic!

Dump trucks of love, peace, light, joy & hugs for you!

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Lots of love to you.

I hope the day gets better for you

You sure do deserve it 🌺🌺🌸🌸 x

Hugs to you

And all good wishes 🌺🌺🌸🌸❤️

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