beneficiary

How do I get a beneficiary? What's the process ?

[HearYou]

Frist, I request you not take to heart any legal answer from anyone not a lawyer in the area where you live or own property. Second, as a lawyer, I am concerned from the history of your posts and what you are really asking. If you are trying to get your affairs in order, as in your last post, please reconsider what I suspect you may be planning. It's just not time yet for you to leave. The people you leave behind will always wonder how they failed you. Please call someone, a friend, or even a crisis line.

As far as "getting a beneficiary", that can be a very simple or very complex process depending on many things. I request a you not take to heart any legal suggestion from anyone not a lawyer where you live or own property. But as I sincerely hope this is not a pressing matter, you can talk to an attorney about this much further in the future.

Please have a good night and think about everyone in your life who loves you and will be happy to see you tomorrow.

[gogogirl]

Perhaps you could contact a lawyer?

[gogogirl in reply to gogogirl]

To add: I hope that you are doing this as a matter of course- for instance if you are an older person , and not because you are feeling down. Please message me to say you are okay.

[Hidden in reply to gogogirl]

I can't take no more. I'm really tired. This is exhausting

[Lostjoy in reply to Hidden]

I'm feeling like I can't take much more either. It's the anxiety that won't leave me alone. I wish I knew how to turn it around and have good thoughts crush the bad and stomp out the anxiety.

I might sound crazy to you, and maybe I am with the way I'm letting it control me, but like you said it is very exhausting, and I am so very tired.

Maybe if you feel like explaining what you are thinking about that is making it so bad? We could talk it out?

[Hidden in reply to Lostjoy]

Talking is pointless. It gets me no where. I can't explain it really. It barely makes sense to me. The meds nor therapy relieves the pain or fear. I can't keep going like this. I'm miserable. And everyone's mean. I'm tired of myself. Life. People. I'm tired of trying just to fail. I don't deserve such misery.

[gogogirl in reply to Hidden]

So you do counseling and meds as well? Okay . Are you able to possibly volunteer somewhere where you feel you can make a difference? People need you. I was also wondering if you lived anywhere near where the flooding and damage from Harvey is taking place?

[gogogirl in reply to Hidden]

What are you failing at? If you are a young person, you've got your whole life ahead of you. If you have experienced great loss or guilt recently, I know what this is about. I hope also that you have a NAMI office near by , and they also can advise you.

[gogogirl in reply to Hidden]

What can't you take? Would you like to message me? I hope that you are able to spend some time doing something that has meaning for you. Also, you did manage to get to a computor and ask for help in a way. It takes STRENGTH to do that. Could it be a job that is overstressing you and you need time off? I hope also that you are able to get some counseling to get to the bottom of this, and hopefully be able to see a physician as well. Peace.