I am looking for help for my daughter's in laws. The grandmother has Alzheimer's disease and is pretty bad she doesn't know anyone anymore. They have been keeping her home and the husband won't consider anything else meanwhile he has had to have surgery for cancer. My daughter has been staying at their house for weeks now and is at her wits end about what to do. Grandpa won't even talk a bout his wife's problem. Does anyone know what to do. My daughter can't keep up and the family has to all work. He says he can't afford to put her anywhere because of cost. But I think he just don't want to loose her. They could both go together to a home but they want to stay home. What do you do in a case like this? Help of any kind would be appreciated. Thank you.