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Using the correct terminology - being fussy!

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Something is bugging me and I’m having a BobD reaction 😬 It may be the fault of auto correct although it should be corrected the other way. Almost everybody refers to a (my iPad won’t do bold on this site) CRYOablation as a CYROablation. The ‘Cryo’ refers to the freezing method of the ablation. There is no such thing as a ‘cyroablation’. I know it’s being fussy but it’s driving me mad ☺️

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Bagrat

I get a bit miffed with misspelt thingys!! The worst is ALL my d-in-laws family, including her, will spell can't "carnt!"

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mjames1

I hadn't noticed that. The term is cryoablation or a cryo balloon ablation. If anyone referred to it as cyroblation, including myself, I assume it's a typo. The exception might be, if they were referring to the story of CYRNOno de Bergerac, however, while my nose sometimes gets frozen in the winter, never heard of a nose being actually ablated. :)

Jim

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Hennerton in reply to mjames1

I believe he was called Cyrano do Bergerac but will stand corrected if I have that wrong.

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GrannyE in reply to Hennerton

Think the ‘de’ means from or of and in this case coming from Bergerac

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Jajarunner in reply to mjames1

I've had the inside of my nose laser ablated many times to lessen nose bleeds. They ablate many different area actually 😁

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GrannyE in reply to Jajarunner

had not thought of that. It must be dreadful to have such bad nose bleeds that you need it

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Bagrat

Hee hee, I stand corrected!!

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BobDVolunteer

If you want to be really pedantic call it a cryo-ablation or better still cryo ablation . Your don't after all have an RFablation you have an RF ablation.

I blame smart phones and texting for your other problem I keep seeing people say "I can't be arsed" when they mean "can't be asked."

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Buffafly in reply to BobD

😂

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Gumbie_Cat

I’ve never noticed that one, but probably just read it as cryo. Though I am usually a bit fussy about spelling, so if I had noticed it then I would be seeing it all the time.

I did enjoy yesterday’s posts about the ‘mini-maize’ operation though, and considered whether baby sweetcorn could maybe get me out of this persistent AFib….

I do think that a lot of the time, the dreaded ‘auto-mistake’ on our devices could be responsible.

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mjames1 in reply to Gumbie_Cat

😂

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Frances123 in reply to Gumbie_Cat

Baby sweetcorn? Oh I missed that one 😂

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GrannyE in reply to Frances123

So did I.

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cbaum in reply to Frances123

Amaizing!

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Buffafly in reply to Gumbie_Cat

My favourites are the different attempts at spelling ‘paroxysmal’ - I hope I spelled that right, anyway my iPad says I did 😀

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Buffafly in reply to Buffafly

Better say quickly that I’m not sneering at people who can’t spell it, I just enjoy the variations.

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Rainfern in reply to Gumbie_Cat

😂

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Palpman

Wisdom has been chasing us but some of us have been faster.

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Paulbounce

Hi Buffafly.

Hahahaha. I love it 'having a BobD reaction'. Such reactions are best-avoided methinks (sorry Bob).

As for spelling. I put my hands up to this one as my spelling is a weak point for me. Quite how I walked out with a Hons Degree in Law with my bad spelling evades me. I always used to spell 'you're' as 'your' which is a very bad mistake to make.

On IQ tests my score is normally quite high but I always fall short on the spelling part. Put a math problem in front of me and I'll solve it in seconds - ask me to spell a simple word and I struggle to do so.

I always proofread my posts now for spelling mistakes but am aware I still make basic errors. I will say though that it's the meaning of the post that is important. If the post talks 'down' a newbie from their concerns then the job is completed (spelling mistakes or not).

Now - I hope your BobD moment passes soon heheh. Have a lovely week ahead and catch up soon.

Cheers Paul

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Buffafly in reply to Paulbounce

I usually don’t care about mistakes at all, I think it’s only because it is a commonly used technical term that I noticed it and then again and again and……

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Paulbounce in reply to Buffafly

;-)

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BobDVolunteer in reply to Buffafly

My problems is a dyslexic "comupter" keyboard. All the right letters but not necessarily in the right order.

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Paulbounce in reply to BobD

youtube.com/watch?v=uMPEUcV...

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BobDVolunteer in reply to Paulbounce

When you know, you know.

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GrannyE in reply to Paulbounce

Sounds as if you are dyslexic. Very often dyslexics find maths easy but have great difficulty spelling and are slow to read. I have a dyslexic but exceedingly bright son. I pulled him out of school when he was 8 when I was told he was the slowest and thickest and laziest boy in the school and his form mistress told me ‘not to worry she would beat it out of him.’ That was when I had him privately tutored for a term by a fantastic lady who understood how he worked. We put him back into the year above and he came top of his year until he left school at the age of 13. His brain worked differently and I was taught by that lady what to do with him and how to get the pathways in the brain working. I could wax lyrical on that subject for hours.

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Buffafly in reply to GrannyE

Horrifying but a wonderful ending. One of my daughters has a ‘differently wired’ brain. She did well at school through sheer effort but to this day has unreliable spelling and can’t read aloud accurately, however she can scan a page of text and understand it very quickly. She was eventually tested for dyslexia at uni and thought she didn’t score highly for that her brain is very ‘one sided’ in some ways. If shown a page of complicated patterns with one different she can pick out the odd one out instantly.

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GrannyE in reply to Buffafly

We are all different.

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irene75359 in reply to Buffafly

Exactly what happened to my daughter; one of her flat-mates at uni picked up that she had difficulty with a game they were playing and asked if she was dyslexic. She went for an initial assessment and was told she could go for a further comprehensive test. When she had this, they told her there and then there was no doubt she was dyslexic. A whole support system was put in place for her, but the failure to diagnose in her school A-level years meant she missed her university of choice as one grade wasn't quite high enough. Had it been known at the time, special measures would have been put in place at exams.

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JOY2THEWORLD49 in reply to irene75359

Hi

That's terrible because my adopted son was referred and checked for dyslexia. He wasn't diagnosed with it.

As an Adult in 40s he has been diagnosed with ADHD. It was NOT a diagnosis in 70s-80s.

He was labelled lazy. I got fed up as he would not carry out simple tasks like "please pick up your clothes".

At school he was a good talker but as to his writing um not there.

Now he is on medication, he runs his own restaurant but he gets flustated, and any comments he feels are criticisms.

They were not.

I've learnt to be careful what I say. I can see it is not a relevant response.

Yes, a dyslexic writer or a responding dyslexic person has his/her own set of

understanding and putting pen to paper.

There is a pen for dyslexix folks which reads the context. Very interesting.

cheri JOY. 74. (NZ)

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Buffafly in reply to irene75359

Teachers only notice the children who really aren’t coping at all and refer them for help early on. Those who manage but don’t do as well as they could are left to struggle and sometimes their difficulties only become apparent much later on.

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Qualipop in reply to irene75359

My son was diagnosed with dyspraxia which combines dyslexia with problems with small motor control and ADD. It's not funny tying shoelaces for a 20 year old. With spelling though; he can speed read 10 books a day and always recognises when a word is spelled wrongly but can't spell it correctly. Reading/spelling difficulties are still often cruelly treated as stupidity. Just once, in a queue for a theme park did I have the man in front of me ask me to read the signs for him because he couldn't read at all and wanted to be sure he was in the correct queue. To admit that to a stranger must have taken guts. I congratulated him.

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Gumbie_Cat in reply to Qualipop

Two of my children were very similar. Their reading and spelling were fine, but hand-writing was really difficult for them. They had to use computers in exams, and did well, but the early school years were difficult as children seemed to go into groups depending on their colouring-in skills.

Then I was part of some sixties experiment that didn’t actually teach grammar, we just sort of picked it up along the way. So, I can tell if it’s not correct, but don’t know any of the proper names for different tenses etc.

Though some spelling errors simply come from autocorrect, or perhaps from using phrases that really come from the way people used to live. For instance, I often see people use ‘reign in’ for ‘rein in’. It’s sort of the opposite, but then ‘reining in’ a horse isn’t exactly an everyday occurrence these days!

So, I’m sort of torn, as really these things don’t matter as long as people understand what you’re trying to say. Though we perhaps lose some richness in all these expressions when the original meaning is left behind. The other one like that is ‘tow the line’ used instead of ‘toe the line’ - for me, the meaning is lost.

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Qualipop in reply to Gumbie_Cat

I started teaching in the late 60s so I remember that no grammar well. A big mistake; then they started teaching ITA ( The Initial teaching alphabet where everything was spelled phonetically but then they had to un-learn it later. A stupid idea. One of my son's schools taught i talic hand writing so he never did learn to join up letters. The spelling that gets me is site and sight. We seem to have a lot of odd web 'sights'. I don't think people understand the origin of words now. Mind you I'm of a generation that was taught Latin.

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Buffafly in reply to Qualipop

When I learned to read phonetics were ‘in’. I made no progress at all until someone suggested that ‘look and say’ might suit me better. Within a year I could read anything you put in front of me. It’s not ‘one size fits all’.

Qualipop profile image
Qualipop in reply to Buffafly

Indeed not, some children learn by seeing the shapes of words.

GrannyE profile image
GrannyE in reply to Buffafly

certainly isn’t

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Gumbie_Cat in reply to Qualipop

I was lucky to miss the phonetics and italic writing. Missed out on Latin, as I did German instead, though I do notice words that are derived from Latin. I always hated learning languages at school, as I was better at maths and science. Used to worry that I could be swearing inadvertently. The funny thing is that I love using DuoLingo these days, and spotting the similarities between different languages is so interesting. I’m not sure how much I am really learning, but hopefully it’s good for the ageing brain 😂

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Qualipop in reply to Gumbie_Cat

I've been learning NOrwegian on Duo for two years. If I hadn't had a very good grounding in German and FRanch I think I'd have struggled, especially now there are no grammar tips. Luckily I love ;languages and speak 2 fluently and another 3 enough to get by.

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GrannyE in reply to irene75359

such a shame. Very often dyslexics and people with ADHD etcare extremely bright in certain subjects.

It can be that diet could help. No artificial sugar, colourings, or preservatives.

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irene75359 in reply to GrannyE

She is extremely bright. It was a constant source of amazement to us that such an articulate child couldn't translate the spoken word onto paper which is why we urged her to go ahead with the testing. When they asked her how she felt after hearing the diagnosis, she replied 'Huge relief'. She used to think she was going mad.

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Gumbie_Cat in reply to GrannyE

That’s so shocking!

GrannyE profile image
GrannyE in reply to Gumbie_Cat

certainly is.

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Paulbounce in reply to GrannyE

Hi GrannyE. You make an interesting point. I have never been tested for being dyslexic although I doubt it's that. I think it's more a result of being lazy at school and messing around to much instead of learning!

Regarding being slow with reading - I can 'speed read' as the saying goes. If I want to learn something new I can whip through a chapter of a book in 5 minutes and take out the critical bullet points very quickly ignoring the rest. I think my mind is more geared towards analytical analysis than anything else.

I guess we are all different and all have our own strengths and weaknesses.

Have a lovely day.

Paul

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JOY2THEWORLD49 in reply to Paulbounce

Hi

Come on Scrabble will help you creating words.

cheri JOY. 74. (NZ)

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Qualipop in reply to JOY2THEWORLD49

Or Wordle

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JOY2THEWORLD49 in reply to Qualipop

Hi

Don't know that one! JOY

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Qualipop in reply to JOY2THEWORLD49

wordlewebsite.com/

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JOY2THEWORLD49 in reply to Qualipop

Hi

Thanx.

Looks BORING>

Not a game so not competitive. I enjoy playing with others.

cheri JOY

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Qualipop in reply to JOY2THEWORLD49

No you play against yourself and try to improve your daily score. There's a similar game on TV sometimes called Lingo where 3 couples compete against each other.

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GrannyE in reply to Paulbounce

Way back when I pulled my son out of school for a term most people did not know about dyslexia and the other learning problems which more people know about today. I am convinced that my father, who was brilliant in a practical engineering sort of way, was dyslexic. Dad could tinker round with engines and design machinery. Dyslexics have a problem when blackboards are used for teaching. By the time they have found the place on the blackboard and then looked down to copy it they have lost the place and it is all far too difficult for them. It is entirely possible that your ‘messing around’ was you compensating for that. If you have been taught in a way that does not suit you and have not grasped the first building block then how can you build on it? Bright children then become bored and mess about.

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JOY2THEWORLD49 in reply to GrannyE

Hi

When I experienced my new dyslexic manfriend there were lots of events in texting.

A meeting arranged for 7pm, was carried out at 7am. I was not there.

Maths calculation 10 years out.

And other events. He asked me to read him the menu. In the end

I read him the menu but in the end. "I'll have the same".

I told him about a pen that has been invented by a Dyslexic person which reads aloud the words that the pen slowly goes over.

cheri JOY. 74. (NZ).

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Qualipop in reply to GrannyE

These things shouldn't still be happening. My dyspraxic son went through 3 primary schools, only one of which recognised and understood his problems. He got into MENSA when he was 4 and in that one school was moved up a year. At his first school aged 4 he came home saying he had a new name "Mr know it all". I took him out immediately. At the second when he was late coming out I found a teacher had him pinned against the wall wagging her finger at him. She said to me, "Try as I might I cannot make him cry". A serious complaint was made and he was moved out of her class. As a teacher myself it horrified me, In Secondary school he had excellent support and a scribe for exams. He came out with 14 GCSEs and 5 A levels.

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GrannyE in reply to Qualipop

You can imagine what it was like 43 years ago! Often schools cannot cope with really bright children who become bored and switch off.

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Qualipop in reply to GrannyE

Well this was 30 years ago. The big problem was that he could never sit still; with dyspraxia your brain ceases to get messages from your bottom to say where it is so you have to constantly move to send new messages so he was treated like a disruptive child who could never finish his work- a child who was reading the newspaper at 3, whose hobby was learning new words like existentialism at 5. The library had a scheme where children read a book a week and wrote a short precis to prove it then they got a medal. He took out 10 books twice a week. Schools can't cope with that but we did eventually find one that understood. He's never forgotten that teacher though.

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Qualipop in reply to GrannyE

My experience was similar but teachers are not taught how to teach spelling or grammar

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GrannyE in reply to Qualipop

thank goodness it does not matter so much now with keyboards and spellcheckers.

Qualipop profile image
Qualipop in reply to GrannyE

But spellcheckers still get it wrong if you don't know the right word in the first place. Does it even correct 'would of'? No.

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JOY2THEWORLD49 in reply to Paulbounce

Hi Paul

I reckon the board game SCRABBLE will be good for you.

Lots of men can't spell.

They should have given you a Spelling homework . Also no guessing when you are reading. Learn to sound out each word that you get stuck on.

cheri 74. (NZ)

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Paulbounce in reply to JOY2THEWORLD49

Ty Cheri. I am awful at Scrabble and don't show myself up by playing it. Put a chess board in front of me though and that's a different matter. I haven't played for a long time but was very hard to beat. I once played a game 'blinded folded' which meant I didn't look at the board but remembered all the moves in my mind. I lost the game but was very proud of myself for doing this.

Paul

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jeanjeannie50 in reply to Paulbounce

There is nothing wrong with your spelling Paul, stop putting yourself down. We all have to stop at times when writing and think about how to spell a word.

Jean

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GrannyE in reply to Paulbounce

Sounds like a type of dyslexia to me. As a general rule the more senses you employ whilst reading and learning things generally the better. I.e. with a child get them to follow the words with a finger, and mouth the words out loud quietly, That way they use their motor skills and their hearing and their mouths move. When learning punctuation when he was being read to he had to jump up for a full stop, turn round for a comma, sit down for an exclamation mark etc………Sequencing problems abound which is why following the words with a ruler under the line helps. I could go on………………

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Paulbounce in reply to GrannyE

You got me thinking about this one GrannyE.

I tried this online test which seems pretty good to me.

testdyslexia.com/

I answered all the questions honestly and no 'red flags' came up. The conclusion was.........

This person is talented in these areas:

Strategic thinking.

That was about it. However, thanks for your input anyway - it's always best to get these matters addressed.

Have a lovely day.

Paul

Singwell profile image
Singwell

So relieved to see this as I'd wondered too...There again, predictive text!

RoyM profile image
RoyM

Calling Anticoagulants "blood thinners" even some medics refer to them in that way....grrrrrrrrrr. lol

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GrannyE in reply to RoyM

I must admit I too call anticoagulants blood thinners. I think the general public understand the term ‘blood thinners’ more readily.

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Buffafly in reply to RoyM

Nearly all medics. Maybe it’s a catch all word because it could apply to warfarin, aspirin and clopidogrel as well.

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GrannyE

quite agree. The as long as you get the meaning across - that is the important thing.

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Buffafly

As an ex special needs teacher I certainly don’t, it’s only this thing that bugs me. And I don’t write as carefully on a social site as I would in a formal setting. The lack of full stops is a hangover from texting where full stops are considered rude

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GrannyE in reply to Buffafly

Didn’t know that. Hardly ever text though

Qualipop profile image
Qualipop in reply to Buffafly

Never heard that. Why?

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Buffafly

Yes, I believe there is an etiquette to texting and the full stop at the end of a message is not done unless you want to indicate annoyance.

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jeanjeannie50 in reply to Buffafly

I text a lot and never knew full stops were regarded as rude. Everyone I text uses them.

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Buffafly in reply to jeanjeannie50

I think it’s young people who have those rules. Older people carry on as usual! I believe some emojis need to used with care too as there is a whole set of ‘alternative’ meanings.

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paolina in reply to Buffafly

Now that I do know as my almost 14 & 12 year old grandchildren thought it was hilarious when I "misused" one.

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paolina in reply to Buffafly

Nobody has ever told me that I and most people I know (British most of them) use full stops, and no-ones complained yet.

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baba

“Periods” can mean several different things!

Do you mean FULL STOPS in this instance?

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jeanjeannie50

If we're all being petty, I'll be petty too. The words lose (looz) (as in something you've lost or misplaced) and loose (not tight) being misused. Me, I touch type and have a habit of putting a g on the end of Warfarin. That's one of many mistakes I have to correct.

I'm by no means perfect myself, so would never normally criticise anyone else. I cringe sometimes when I read back posts I've put on the forum and see the mistakes I've made. Does it matter - no, so long as readers understand the gist of what's being said.

Members here, I don't care how you present your questions, I don't give a jot how you write it, just give us enough information so that we know how to help.

Jean

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TopBiscuit in reply to jeanjeannie50

Hahaha, I just wrote that one too, Jean, before I read your comment. The 'loose' incorrect spelling seems to be taking over!

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JOY2THEWORLD49

Hi

It's helpful if using abbreviations except for AF or AFers expand to write it our fully. Then the person writing should see the 'wrong' in it.

So please abbreviators after the abbreviation please enlarge and do use the abbreviation after that.

cheri JOY. 74. (NZ)

It will keep Butterfly safe from stressing and me! Thanx.

RoyM profile image
RoyM

I have also seen the word "quite"and "quiet" being mis-used too. Whoops is that a full stop I see hahaha.

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GrannyE in reply to RoyM

probably a spell checker!!! It often ’corrects’ something to something else

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Qualipop

Afraid you'll never correct people's spelling or typos. Some things drive me mad too. My biggest bugbear is " I should OF, Would OF , Could OF instead of HAVE. It's just lazy speech but many of the errors are simply because people can't pronounce the names correctly. Bisopralol seems to be one of the worst and is often bisoperol. I agree it's important to get it right as many drug names can be almost identical

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TopBiscuit in reply to Qualipop

Omg - me too! I think there's a whole generation of people growing up who don't even know that what they're saying is an abbreviation of 'would have' or 'could have' etc.

GrannyE profile image
GrannyE in reply to TopBiscuit

How about ‘if it was,,,,,,,,,’ instead of ‘if it were….’

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Ppiman

Cryo- it is. There's a chef judge called John Torode on TV's "Masterchef" who always says "y-owe-gurt" and "T-yoo-meric. Drives me potty!

Steve

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Buffafly in reply to Ppiman

O dear, I think that’s how I say them 🫢 Now I’m muttering to myself, do I or don’t I?

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Ppiman in reply to Buffafly

Well, pronunciation can be a part of your regional dialect, so there's no true right and wrong for sure, but the standard pronunciation is, I would think, to use a short "o" in "yoghurt" and not to sound "turmeric" as if there were a "y" or "you" sound after the initial "t".

Steve

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LaceyLady

’Lack of periods’ 😳 Thought Convo changed a bit 🤣

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Buffafly

Apologies to the moderators - ended up completely off subject but I had no idea how this little comment would take off!

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jeanjeannie50 in reply to Buffafly

I've enjoyed it Buff.

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Goosebumps in reply to Buffafly

It has been a nice gentle off topic thread that has been a really informative and pleasant read I think.

It took all my willpower not to jump in on the recent afore mentioned post and point out the error to the poster who wrote ‘Mini maize’. I had to bite my lip, gird my loins and shut my eyes on that one!

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Ppiman

I was trying to use a British English spelling of a similar sounding word to guide the pronunciation. It likely caused the confusion - sorry.

The guy pronounces the word "yoghurt" (ˈjɒɡət) with a long "o" phoneme, rather than the standard short "o" (ˈjəʊɡət); and he pronounces the word "turmeric" (ˈtəːm(ə)rɪk) as if it were spelled "tyumeric" (ˈtjuːm(ə)rɪk, as in the word "tumour").

Steve

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TopBiscuit

My current bugbear is 'loose' instead of 'lose'. It's endemic - I even saw it on the BBC news website!

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CDreamer

Sign or signage anyone? That is the question in our community at the moment.

They replacing pronouns he/she just confuses me and I never remember.

I really don’t understand people getting upset about grammatical errors, spelling mistakes, or obvious predictive text error but I do like clarity so my bug bear is lack of specific description and lack of detail. Some posts are so vague I really do not know what the question is or relates to, but I usually ask. Language is constantly fluid as are the definitions.

My father hated the word ‘fab’ which I used all the time in the 60’s but now I need re-educating in what my nieces, nephews and grandchildren are referring to. I wonder if you all know

Amirite - Am I correct

Bestie - Best Friend/Pal

Keks - trousers or pants

Boujee - Classy

Or G’wed - Go ahead

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jeanjeannie50 in reply to CDreamer

Hmm, bestie = best friend or favourite anything, take your keks off seems to ring a bell, is it shoes. Haven't a clue about the others.

Jean

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CDreamer in reply to jeanjeannie50

50% Jean, well done. See what other answers we get and I’ll post the correct later in the day.

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jeanjeannie50 in reply to CDreamer

Sign and signage, at a guess I would say that sign is singular and signage plural As in, "We saw the sign outside the doctor's surgery," or "The signage off the main road was excellent and led us directly to the town". Just made that all up and probably wrong. Why not use the word signs and not signage. Where's member Steve Ppiman on this forum, he may know?

Jean

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jeanjeannie50

There I was volunteering as a room guide for the National Trust, when a mother and her teenage daughter came in. Somehow we got talking about kids at college and the young girl asked if I knew about furries - well no I didn't! So she explained its kids at school who want to identify as animals, they're allowed to wear rabbit ears etc to school. I was astounded and when I rang my daughter and asked if she'd heard about them. Well, yes she had and at my granddaughters college there was someone who identifies as a cat, goes in dressed as one. Teacher has to respect his wishes to be a cat.

Jean

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CDreamer in reply to jeanjeannie50

My son went through a similar phase, school didn’t tolerate anything other than uniform, so I couldn’t get him to school. Which is worse? He grew out of it.

There is another connatation to Furries - which is LOT more adult so we won’t go there here!

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