Hi everyone, Ive had some news which has really shocked me and Im
finding it hard to get my head around it. When I started getting af I was
convinced that I would soon have it licked and life would go on as normal
no big deal!! that was approximately 10 years ago. How time passeswhen you
are having fun !! So I had the ablations etc etc not getting rid of it as quick as
I expected but still not overly worried. Then came the Pacemaker which I
really didnt want then came av node ablation which I was really loath to
admit I needed but the 15 weeks I waited for that were the longest in my life.
I have not really improved much since then. Having just been to the hospital for a check-post av node op I received a letter via my GP and one statement
stood out ( she is known to have Mild biventricular dysfunction ) well they
mighnt have known I had it but I havent heard it mentioned before.
I looked it up on Google and was horrified. Having now talked it over with
my husband and daughter who was there doing my appointment and they
have made me realise that although serious its not quite the end for me.
Obviously I have to absorb the seriousness of the long term effects and Im
having trouble doing this. Last year at this time I was discussing which walks
we were going to tackle and Im now struggling walking to the bus stop, with
a stick to counter dizziness!!
Im sorry for the rant but I could really do with help to address my concerns
and help me accept that I really do have some useful future. Im almost 3
months post av node ablation.
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so sorry to hear you have had unsettling news shirleygirl and you don't feel as good as you hoped post your treatment and procedures. When our health is compromised our life takes on a different dimension and the emotional impact is never high on medics agenda sadly.
The shock of finding something out about our health we were not expecting or had been on our eyeline is daunting. Could you speak with your medic to get clarity and support. Hopefully someone here will have knowledge of the issue to help you. In the interim I wish you well and send a big hug. X
I think the word to hone in on with your diagnosis is mild, but fancy you only just learning that you had this!
Honestly medics sometimes act as though what you have wrong with you is their business and not yours! Grrrr!
Do you think that you felt better, than you do now, before having had any heart procedures whatsoever?
Now watch this pendulum I'm swinging;
Mild
Mild
Try to turn the diagnosis into a positive and think how much worse it could have been if the word had been severe. It would be nice to know if there's anything you could do to help the condition or stop it from getting worse.
Hi, what a shock to be 'told' like that! I really know nothing about it except what I just read on Wikipedia which suggests it is a long medical term for heart failure/weakness which is what AF treatment is supposed to prevent or improve. I suggest you go the the BHF site if not already done so, you can also speak to a nurse there. I really feel though that somebody should have spelled out your condition, hopefully in a kindly way, but certainly not to be mentioned as an aside 🙁 I do hope though that as time goes on the help from your pacemaker will enable you to get fitter again and maybe some less ambitious walks will be possible 💕
Hi Shirly, you said you have a 3 lead pm. As far as I know that can be part of the treatment for your condition, one lead in each ventricle helps them stay in synch. Maybe it’s a matter of tweaking the settings. And I agree on focusing on the word mild. As we get older our bodies no longer are young and vigorous, we are wearing out. I do hope your breathing improves and you can get more active.
Hi, You are quite right but.... as I said my ep was on holiday and
I had a choice who should do the job and I chose another EP whose
name I recognised. Well he was definately present but I think the
job was done by a student, fair enough we all have to learn. He had
spoken to me outside the theatre to ask about my symptoms and
his voice was the one I was aware of near me and the EP was also
talking nearby. After I attended hospital for a PM check and to see
my EP he was quite annoyed at the job that had been done. One
lead had to be turned off and another not really well placed but working ok. He did mention redoing the job but in the end decided to leave well alone,!!
Not much I can do about that so things are as there are. My EP is
very well thought of and has a long waiting list so Im loath to think hes is at fault. I think Im just unlucky.
No wonder you were shocked. I think the problem with with experts in any field is that they become so familiar with their work they make the assumptions that a lay person should either understand or doesn't need to be told. But this should not be the case with medical staff treating patients whose lives and wellbeing are so adversely affected by insensitive treatment. A vital part of any doctor's training should be 'communication with the person in your care'. I think it so remiss that no one sat down and explained exactly what was going on and what positive steps would be taken to treat you. Please come back and let us know how you are. My warmest good wishes.
More worries for you. Don't feel guilty, you aren't responsible, but I am sorry this is happening in addition to everything else. Good idea to mention to your GP, in certain cases medication can be used in the early stages of dementia that greatly eases the symptoms.
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