I am new to this community. I don't know if this is the right site for me or not, but I do need some suggestions. My husband has a-fib (atypical) and had surgery to implant a combination pace maker/ventricular defibrillator. He has been dealing with a-fib issues for a number of years and I was able to handle it fine while I was working. Now that I'm retired, it's much harder for me to deal with the ups and downs and emotional swings my spouse now has. As a caregiver, I need emotional support and real world solutions to dealing with his issues in a positive way. I'm starting to feel trapped with no way out. I am much more active health-wise since my health is generally better than his. Let me know if this is the right forum for me, or if you can please direct me elsewhere. Thanks for your time.