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Lost my lovely Dad 48 hours ago....want to thank you all.

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Dad had another spinal cord compression at C2. PSA at this point was 3700. Radiotherapy was out of the question; having had treatment there before. Came home from hospital, and we tried desperately to take him to Istanbul for Lu177. We even booked the tickets. Sadly, 24 hours later, he deteriorated severely and passed away on 9th Aug 5:00pm. We were all with him and he was surrounded by love.I wanted to reach out to everyone here who took time out to post a message of hope, potential treatment, clinical trials etc. Those were dark desperate times, and each reply to me meant so much as I kept on going, trying to find Dad a treatment. So, a massive thanks. This forum truly is special and helped me in my darkest times.

Keep up the good fight against this savage disease and I wish you all better times ahead.

Now to pick up the pieces and try and slowly rebuild my life.

Omer

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Maxone73 profile image
Maxone73

we have lost another brother! God bless you for being with him till the end. Stay strong.

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Mike1971

I’m so sorry Omer.

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Tall_Allen

So sorry to hear about your father, Omer. He was lucky to have you in his corner, being with him during every step along the way.

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Jpburns

so sorry for your loss. Glad his suffering is over.

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NickJoy

I'm so sorry. You did your very best. Please take care and rebuild well knowing that is what he would want.

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DarrylPartner

condolences

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MJCA

My condolences to you and your family.

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Tinkudi

🥲🥲❤️❤️🙏🏻 Lots of love and hugs

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God_Loves_Me

I am sorry to hear about your father ,Omer

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zeitgeistxx

I'm very sorry to hear that you lost your Father Omer. You were a loving child and did all that you could for him. He knew he was surrounded by love at the end. May you find peace and healing in your memories with him.

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rosenjpj

thank you for letting us know. May you find peace and comfort in his memory.

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Sisira

My deepest sympathies to you and your family .May your dad rest in eternal peace free of all pains.

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MydogBrandy

so so sorry, xx

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skiingfiend

I am sorry to hear your sad news. You and your father fought hard throughout the full course of his disease. May he rest in peace.

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john510185

Very sorry to hear this.

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London441

I’m sorry to read this. You clearly did everything you could. May you find peace in this eventually, and in your loving memories of him.

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Nusch

My sincerest condolences 💐 for your loss and many thx for your kind words. I’m sure your dad was proud having a son like you. As most of us, you’ve did all (and more), what can be done. We don’t know, when it’s time to go, but we know, that all of us will be united again someday.

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lcfcpolo

So sorry Omer for your family's loss. I pray that you will have the time to heal and to remember the good times, the laughter. Your support for your father is humbling.

Graham

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jeetu_g27

So sorry for your loss .. Prayers for the departed soul🙏

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Amadeus71

🙏❤💪

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Lokicliff

So very sorry for your loss. Much love and prayers for comfort fo you.

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Istomin

My deepest condolences.

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turkeyjoe1

Condolences to your family and friends.

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Yank66

Our sympathies are with you. Wishing you blessings of peace and rest.

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Blueribbon63

So very sorry about your loss.

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TylexGP

So sorry, what comfort it must have been for your dad to have you so close. Sending Hugs to you and your family.

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Tinuriel

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for modeling such great care for your dad.

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RJAMSG

My condolences and prayers for the family left behind!

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hopeful1956

Sending you gentle hugs. May your father rest in peace.

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Jp2sea

Very sorry

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HalC

I’m so sorry for your loss. Wishing you peace during this difficult time.

Sending prayers for comfort and strength during this difficult time. May your father's memory always serve to be a blessing.

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BadNews4me

Condolences for your loss.

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dockam

Oh d*mn another Brother taken by this accursed PCa

Rest in Peace Sir

Suffer no more

Peace be with you Omer

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Mtnhigh

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. Prayers for you all. I'm wishing you strength to "pick up the pieces" and carry on. It will take a little time but you have shown great courage and persistence throughout this fight. -Deb

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Hailwood

Sorry to hear about your Dad, he was lucky to have you alongside.

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anonymoose2

Prayers for the family

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j-o-h-n

Your dear Dad 56 years old......and you 30 years old.... too damn young. I know you both loved each other and you will miss him every day for the rest of your life. God Bless him and God Bless you and the rest of his family.

j-o-h-n

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Psaman

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

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Teacherdude72

I offer you my deepest, sincere sympathy for you loss

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Mikeski

🙏

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Mcrpca

You are a good daughter. More often than not life just happens. I’m glad his family was with him.

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Carlosbach

So sorry for the loss of your Father. I hope you and your family can find comfort and peace in each other.

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Sagewiz

Wishing your family peace through your grieving.

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HikerWife

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know we all join in wishing you and your loved ones comfort and strength.

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cancervictim

so very sorry for your loss. What a wonderful son you are.

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SupportP

Omer, I am so sorry to hear this sad news. Please know how supported you are by the legion of us who have fought alongside, and have lost, loved ones. When all fiercely supportive efforts and diligence and prayer and fortitude cannot produce a medical miracle, we find a way, finally, to rest in knowing steadfast love is the miracle that matters most. Thinking of you, and sending you peace.

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garyjp9

My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Thank you for sharing this news. I am glad for him and your family that you could all be together at the end.

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cancerfox

Thank you for sharing your journey with us and for your kind words about the support you received here. This community really is special, and your courage and perseverance have touched us all. May your father’s memory be a source of comfort and strength. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. With deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences.

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FjSENC

Sorry for your loss 💔, condolences to his family and friends.

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Wynnsts

🙏🙏🙏 Praying for Peace and Comfort

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watertender

Beautiful words of gratitude to this group of warriors. Thank you and prayers to your family.

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Rickmartin1948

May God bless you and your father

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