From initial diagnosis through every lab test, imaging study, and treatment decision, this journey took enormous physical, emotional and spiritual fortitude. No matter the course or the length, hold your loved ones close, continue to plan adventures, and never give up hope.
My husband used to say “you are born and you die” but I would add “ and in between you live!”
I made the last update to his profile today:
“Mar 27 2024: brainstem bleed from tumor, platelets 24, +DIC. The end of a warrior’s journey in this world, but the beginning of eternal life in the next”
I want to thank all the courageous warriors out there that posted questions, answers, helpful tips, and yes, even some distractions. This forum has been a wealth of information and support and has often reminded me that my husband and I were not alone.
Thank you and many blessing and prayers to each and every one of you fellow warriors on your own personal journeys. 🙏🏻.
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"enormous physical, emotional and spiritual fortitude."
"hold your loved ones close, continue to plan adventures, and never give up hope"
Dear MaxWife, heartbroken for you. Your post says an awful lot.....wishing you peace and comfort. Thank you for your words of advice. Sending a virtual hug and some tears.
Thank you for sharing a little of your loss with us, but also for sharing your positive outlook. Blessings on you and your family as your beloved moves on to his next journey.
When the whirlwind of details to arrange (crazy how much there is to do while you just want to grieve and reflect), make sure to be extra kind and generous with yourself and your loved ones. You deserve a respite.
Thank you. I think initially I was blinded by the pain caused by his absence (getting better). I was paralyzed with needing to call family and friends but that process provided the opportunity to share memories and stories with family and friends which has actually helped.
The pain can seem unrelenting. I'm glad you've had friends and family to ease it a bit. That's what they're there for, in our time of need. Sending a big hug from me to you.
Thank you for sharing. May he rest in peace and may you live and love the life you still have. We are all on a journey and should enjoy the path despite the hardships.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I thank you for sharing your wisdom. It is so easy to let the disease draw us into a dark place. You were a great blessing to your husband by reminding him to enjoy the life he has and to experience it to the fullest. God bless.
Prayers and heartfelt condolences for you and your family. Now is the time for you to rest and heal in your own time frame. I feel I'll be in a similar situation within the next few weeks as I see his condition deteriorating in so many ways. It is a torturous journey, with constant setbacks, decisions and frustrations, all the while praying for a glimmer of hope. Now what's left is prayers for a peaceful end, grateful for the time and experiences we've shared.
Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry that your husband’s earthly journey with you has ended. I was glad to hear you encouraged him to live. As wives we get the privilege to love and be loved even in the midst of our battles with this horrible disease. I hope you have many fond memories of the “life” you shared. I pray that you will receive all the love, peace and comfort you need in this season.🙏🏼❤️
Thank you for sharing Maxwife. I am a warrior's wife as well. Which makes us warriors as well! Our journey began in 2017. We have the same philosophy. Make those memories and live life as you are able. This life on earth is so short. Take care. Supportive thoughts to you and yours.
My families condolences to yours. I read your bio and can't imagine what you both have been through in this journey and I sure hope you can find some joy in the memories and perhaps manage a smile every now and then. Take care.
MAX.com, the theatre in the sky is now showing the outstanding life long feature film "My Life With MY Loving Wife", a sure forever academy award winner. Max will be there in spirit to sign autographs and to throw kisses to his wonderful caregiver wife. God Bless!!!
Ten years of dealing with this devil of a disease. Sorry for your loss, and for your trials and tribulations. Take good care of yourself like your husband would want you to do.
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